Ndibhala umbuzo:
«Bathi abantu ababi kufuneka bazithande ukuze abanye bababone bebahle, kodwa ndikufumanisa kunzima ukukukholelwa oko.
Into eyenzekayo kukuba ndimbi kwaye andikaze ndibenesibindi sokujongana nentombazana ngenxa yokoyika ukwaliwa, kwaye sendineminyaka engama-21 ubudala. Ngesi sizathu kanye, Andizithembanga kwaye ndineentloni.
Nangona kunjalo, umhlobo undixelele ukuba umzimba awunamsebenzi, bubuntu kuphela, kananjalo, Ndimele kuqala ndizithande ukuthanda amantombazana, Ngaba oku kuyinyaniso?
Ukuba kunjalo, ndingaziva njani ndimhle ndilibale ukuba ndimbi, ngaba zikhona iindlela zokukufezekisa? Abanye benu bakwenzile kwaye kwasebenza.
Ubuhle kunye nokubi yinto ephantsi kangaka ... Inye into yokuba abantu basetyhini bakufumanise umbi kwaye enye into kukuba uzifumanisa umbi.
Akufuneki utshintshele nabani na, kuya kufuneka ube nguwe kuphela, kuhlala kukho umntu othandana nomntu onguye ngaphakathi ngokwenene.
Ukuze umntu azixabise kwaye angazicingeli njengomntu ongathandekiyo, kufuneka azithande kwaye azithathele ingqalelo ebaluleke ngazo zonke iindlela. Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka sebenza ngokuzithemba kwakho. Ndikushiya inqaku eliza kukunceda: Yomeleza ukuzithemba.
Okokugqibela, ndikushiya nevidiyo yesazi ngengqondo esixelela ibali elalisenziwa malunga nokuzithemba:
Ndiyazithanda izixhobo zoncedo