Ukusebenza nzima akuthethi ukuba wenze umsebenzi onzima. Kuthetha nje sebenzisa ixesha elifanelekileyo ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho.
Umlingane wethu kunye nesayikholojisti u-vlvaro Trujillo usibonisa kule vidiyo indlela esinokufunda ngayo ukulawula ixesha ukufezekisa iinjongo zethu.
Emva kwevidiyo uya kuba nolwazi oluninzi malunga nokufunda ukulawula ixesha, kodwa ngaphambi koko, makhe sive ukuba u-vlvaro uthini:
[Ukuba unalo naluphi na uhlobo lwengxaki okanye inkxalabo okanye ufuna ukufunda ukulawula ixesha lakho ngendlela eyeyakho, ungandwendwela officelvaro Trujillo kwi-intanethi Apha]
Khawufane ucinge unomntwana. Uya kuchitha ixesha elininzi utshintsha amanabukeni. Kodwa ayingomsebenzi onzima kakhulu lowo; ngumcimbi nje wokusebenza ngokufanayo kwakhona amaxesha ngamaxesha ngemini.
Mininzi imisebenzi ebomini enganyanzelekanga ukuba yenzeke, kodwa ngokudibeneyo ifuna a Utyalomali olubalulekileyo lwexesha. Ukuba awunalo uqeqesho lokuzenza, ubomi bakho bunokuphelela kwisiphithiphithi. Khawufane ucinge ngazo zonke izinto ezincinci ekufuneka uzenzile: ukuthenga, ukupheka, ukucoca, ukuhlamba iimpahla, ukuhlawula amatyala, ukugcina ikhaya, ukugcina abantwana, njl. Kwaye oku kwenzelwe ikhaya kuphela. Zizinto ekufuneka zenziwe.
Ukuziqeqesha kufuna ukukhulisa amandla okuchitha ixesha apho kufuneka khona. Kubakho inkathazo enkulu xa sisala ukuthatha ixesha lokwenza into ekufuneka yenziwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyacaca ukuba yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe. Ngamanye amaxesha akucaci kwaphela. Kodwa ukungahoyi i-clutter akunakunceda. Ukuba awazi ukuba wenzeni, inyathelo lokuqala kukuyiqonda. Oku kunokufuna ukuba uzifundise. Ukuqala le bhlogi kwiinyanga ezimbini ezidlulileyo, kuye kwafuneka ndifumane uthotho lolwazi kunyaka wonke. Ndithathe ixesha lokuziqeqesha ngokufunda ezinye iibhlog kunye nokuvavanya izixhobo ezahlukeneyo ukufumana okungcono kwibhlog yam. Kwakungekho nzima kum, kodwa kufuneka utyalomali olubalulekileyo lwexesha.
Ulawulo lwexesha
Zininzi iingxaki ebomini apho isisombululo ubukhulu becala kukutyala ixesha. Ukuba ishedyuli yakho yemihla ngemihla igcwele kakhulu, ayisiyongxaki inzima le. Ndiqinisekisa ukuba unemali eyingqondo eyimfuneko yokuyiphatha. Ingumcimbi wexesha nje.
Ukuba unokufumana indlela yokuphepha ukulungiswa ngexesha elinye kwaye ufumane indlela ekhawulezayo okanye ebhetele yokudlula okanye yokuphelisa ingxaki, yisebenzise. Yabela abanye umsebenzi, yenza konke onako ukususa umthwalo wexesha. Kodwa ukuba uyazi ukuba yinto engayi kwenziwa ngaphandle kokutyala ixesha lakho lobuqu, yamkele kwaye uyenze. Musa ukukhalaza. Musa ukukhalaza. Kufuneka nje uyenze.
Phuhlisa imveliso yakho yobuqu
Ixesha lihlala lihleli, kodwa ukuvelisa kwakho akunjalo. Abanye abantu basebenzisa iiyure zeentsuku zabo ngokufanelekileyo ngakumbi kunabanye. Kuyamangalisa ukuba abantu bachitha imali eyongezelelweyo ukuthenga ikhompyuter ekhawulezayo okanye imoto eyonga amafutha, kodwa akunzima ukubhatala ingqalelo ekuphuculeni imveliso yabo. Imveliso yakho iya kwenza lukhulu kuwe kunekhompyuter okanye imoto. Ukuba sinika ikhompyuter eneminyaka eli-10 ubudala kwiprogramu yekhompyuter esebenza ngexesha elifanelekileyo, uya kufumana okuninzi kuyo ekuhambeni konyaka kunokuba ngumqambi onobuvila onobuchwephesha bokusika ubuchwephesha.
Ngaphandle kwayo yonke itekhnoloji kunye elektroniki Ukuba siyafumaneka kwaye sinokusenza sisebenze ngakumbi, imveliso yabantu ifikelela kumanqanaba asezantsi kakhulu. Sukusebenzisa itekhnoloji ukuba uvelise ngakumbi, iya kusebenza kuphela ukufihla imikhwa emibi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba sele usebenze kakuhle ngaphandle kwetekhnoloji, inokukunceda ukuba usebenze ngakumbi. Cinga ngetekhnoloji njengamandla okuphindaphindayo.
Zama ukuphucula imveliso yakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba neyona mihla ingenamveliso kodwa ekugqibeleni unyamezelo lwakho luya kuhlawula. Ndicinga ukuba abantu abaninzi batsaleleke kumbono wokuba nemveliso ngakumbi. Akuthathi ngqondo ingako ukuyazi loo nto ukuba ulisebenzisa kakuhle ixesha lakho uya kuba nakho ukugqiba imisebenzi emininzi, kwaye ke iziphumo ezinqwenelekayo kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi bakho ziya kuphinda-phinda. Imveliso yobuqu ikuvumela ukuba wenze indawo eyoneleyo ebomini bakho ukuze wenze zonke izinto oziva ngathi ufuna ukuzenza: yitya usempilweni, uzilolonge, usebenze nzima, ujulise ubudlelwane, ube nobomi obumnandi ekuhlaleni, kwaye wenze umahluko. Ngaphandle kwenqanaba eliphezulu lemveliso yobuqu, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngento ebalulekileyo kuwe. Uya kuba neengxabano phakathi kwempilo nomsebenzi, umsebenzi kunye nosapho, usapho kunye nabahlobo. Ukulawulwa kwexesha elifanelekileyo kunokukunika amandla okonwabela zonke ezi zinto, ke awuzukukhetha phakathi komsebenzi okanye usapho, kungenjalo. Ungazifumana zombini.
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