"Njengazo zonke izidima, ukunyaniseka ngenene kunqabile."
I-Altruism inokuthathwa njengokukhusela i-Ego, uhlobo lwe-sublimation apho umntu ahlangabezana noxinzelelo ngokunceda abanye. Ngokujolisa ingqalelo kwiimfuno zomnye, abantu abanezakhono zokuzincama ezinje ngeyeza okanye ukufundisa bazibeka ezabo iimfuno kwimvelaphi ke oko kuthintela ukujongana nabo okanye nokubamkela. Ngale ndlela, abantu abakhathalela abantu abadala okanye abakhubazekileyo bahlala beziva benxunguphalo noxinzelelo xa indima yabo njengomongi inyamalala.
Olu thando, luqondwa njengokuzikhusela kwe-ego, kufuneka lwahlulwe "kukuzincama kokwenyani." Eyokuqala, ngaphezu kwako konke, yindlela yokuquma iimvakalelo ezingonwabisiyo; okwesibini, endaweni yoko, yindlela eya kwinjongo yangaphandle, njengokunciphisa indlala okanye ubuhlwempu.
Izenzo ezinomdla zinokuba nomdla:
1) Kuba bathomalalisa uxinzelelo,
2) kuba bazisa iimvakalelo ezithandekayo zekratshi nolwaneliseko,
3) kuba zibonelela ngolindelo lwembeko okanye ukuphindaphinda okanye
4) kuba zibonelela ngenkolelo yokusiqinisekisa ngendawo ezulwini.
5) Ukuba ayizizo naziphi na kwezi zizathu zingasentla, mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba, ubuncinci, banciphisa iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo zetyala okanye iintloni zokungakhange benze.
Nangona izenzo zokuzinikela zihlala zikhokelwa yimfesane, akusoloko kufuneka kube njalo.
Ndikushiya nevidiyo yenkqubo yeNethiwekhi kwi-altruism:
Inqaku elibhalwe nguNuria Álvarez. Olunye ulwazi malunga neNuria apha