"Akukho nto kweli hlabathi inokuthatha indawo yokuzingisa. Italente ayinakho; akukho nto ixhaphakileyo kunamadoda anetalente kodwa angaphumeleli. Ubulumko abuyi kubuya; ubulumko ngaphandle komvuzo buqhelekile njengeqhalo. Imfundo ayiyi; Ihlabathi lizele ngabantu abafundileyo abangenamakhaya. Ukuzingisa nokuzimisela kunamandla onke. "
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Ukuzingisa yintsika yesihlanu kunye neyokugqibela yokuziqeqesha.
Yintoni ukuzingisa?
Ukuzingisa kukukwazi ukugcina isenzo ngaphandle kweemvakalelo zakho.
Xa usebenza ukufezekisa iinjongo ezithile ezintle, inkuthazo iyehla isenyuka. Ngamanye amaxesha uya kuziva ukhuthazekile kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngekhe. Kodwa ayisiyiyo inkuthazo evelisa iziphumo, zizenzo zakho. Ukuzingisa kukuvumela ukuba uqhubeke nokuthatha inyathelo naxa ungaziva unomdla wokwenza njalo, kwaye ke iziphumo ziyaqokelelana. Ngenxa yezi ziphumo zihle kuxa inkuthazo ibonakala.
Umzekelo, unokuba nomdla ongakumbi malunga nokutya kunye nokuzilolonga xa sele ulahle i-10 kilos yokuqala kwaye uziva ngathi iimpahla zakho zikulungela ngokukhululekileyo.
Ukurhoxa nini?
Ngaba kufuneka usoloko uzingisa ungaze unikezele? Akunjalongo noko. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuyeka ngokucacileyo yeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Ke uyazi njani ukuba unikezele nini?
Ngaba isicwangciso sakho sisalungile? Ukuba akunjalo, hlaziya isicwangciso. Ngaba iinjongo zakho zichanekile? Ukuba ayisiyiyo, hlaziya okanye ushiye injongo yakho. Kububudenge ukubambelela kwinjongo engasakukhuthazi. Ukuzingisa asikokuba neenkani.
Esi yayisisifundo esinzima kakhulu ukuba ndisifunde. Bendihlala ndikholelwa ekubeni awusoze unikezele, ukuba xa uzibekele usukelo, kufuneka unamathele kulo de ulifezekise. Umphathi wehla ngenqanawa kunye nayo yonke loo nto. Ukuba ndikhe andakwazi ukugqiba iprojekthi endiyiqalileyo, ndingaziva ndinetyala kakhulu ngayo.
Ekugqibeleni ndabona ukuba bububhanxa obu.
Ukuba ukhula kwinto yonke njengomntu, uya kuba ngumntu owahlukileyo unyaka nonyaka kunangaphambili. Kwaye ukuba uyazi ngokufikelela kuphuhliso lomntu, utshintsho luhlala lukhulu kwaye lukhawuleza. Awunakuqinisekisa ukuba iinjongo ozibekele zona namhlanje ziya kuba yile nto ufuna ukuyiphumeza kunyaka olandelayo.
Ukulungiselela iinjongo ezintsha, kufuneka sisuse okanye sigqibe ezakudala. Ngamanye amaxesha iinjongo ezintsha ziyanyanzelisa kwaye ziyakhuthaza kangangokuba akukho xesha lokugqibezela ezindala kwaye kufuneka zishiywe zigqityiwe. Ndihlala ndikufumanisa kunzima ukukwenza oku, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba kunyanzelekile. Inxalenye enzima kukuthatha isigqibo sokulahla iprojekthi endala, usazi ukuba ayinakuze igqitywe. Ndisigqibile isidanga sePedagogy, ndineminyaka emibini eshiyekileyo ukugqiba i-Psychology kwaye ndinezifundo ezisi-7 kuphela eziseleyo zokugqiba ukufundisa. Ngokwazi ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndiyeke imisebenzi ye Psychology and Teaching, kwakunzima kakhulu kum. Ndithathe ixesha elide ukuthatha isigqibo. Kodwa bekuyimfuneko ekukhuleni kwam ukuze ndikwazi ukwenza oku.
Kusafuneka ndisombulule ingxaki yokubeka iinjongo ezinokuthi zithathelwe ingqalelo njengezingapheliyo ngonyaka ngenxa yokukhula kwam. Ndingayisombulula njani le ngxaki? Ndiqhathile. Ndiqaphele ukuba ekuphela kwendlela yokubeka iinjongo zexesha elide ezingaphumi kumhla kukuba zihambelane nenkqubo yam yokucwangcisa. ukukhula komntu. Ukufuna ukuziphucula kuye kwaba sisigxina kum ixesha elide. Endaweni yokuzama ukuseta iinjongo ezingatshintshiyo njengokuba ndenzile ngemisebenzi yam, ndiye ndaqala ukuseta iinjongo ezibanzi nezinamandla ngakumbi ezihambelana nokukhula kwam. Eli shishini litsha livumela ukuba ndizinikezele ekuphuculeni ngokwam kwaye ndibelane nabanye ngezinto endizifundayo. Ke ngoko ukukhula ngokwako kuyinjongo. Oku kudala ubudlelwane obunxulumene, apho ukunceda abanye kukhokelela ekukhuleni kwam, okuthi emva koko kuvelise izimvo ezintsha zokunceda abanye.
Ukukhangela ngokuthe ngqo kunye nokwazi ukuphucula ngokwakho injongo yam kuphela.
Ixabiso lonyamezelo aluveli ekubambeni ngenkani kwixa elidlulileyo. Kuvela kumbono wekamva onyanzelisayo kangangokuba unganika phantse nantoni na ukuze yenzeke. Ukukwazi ukunceda abantu bakhule kwaye basombulule ezona ngxaki zinzima kunzima kakhulu kum. Ndiyathemba ukuba le bhlog izisa ixabiso lokwenyani ebantwini.
Ukuqhubeka kwesenzo kuvela kukuqhubeka kombono. Xa ucace gca malunga nento oyifunayo, uya kuhlala uhambelana kwaye uzingisa kwizenzo zakho. Ukungqinelana kwentshukumo kuya kuvelisa ukungqinelana kweziphumo.
Ngaba ungayichonga indawo yobomi bakho apho ubonise khona ipatheni ukuphikelela ixesha elide? Ndicinga ukuba xa unokuyichonga, inokukunika umkhondo malunga nomsebenzi wakho, into onokusebenza kuyo ngokuzimisela nokuziphatha.
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Ukuba ndifuna ukuqhubeka ndikhula ngokungenasiphelo, kuya kufuneka ndigcine inqanaba elithile lomceli mngeni kwaye ndiqhubeke nokuphakamisa ibar phezulu nangaphezulu. Andikwazi ukuvumela izinto zidike kakhulu.Ndikushiya ne i vidiyo okusishiya nokuziphatha okuhle ukuba sikusebenzise ebomini bethu:
Molo, eyona ndlela yam iphambili yokuphikelela, iminyaka emininzi, ibifanele ukuba ikhululekile kulusu lwam kwaye ikwazi ukunxibelelana njengoko ndinjalo. Ndifunda isayikholoji, kodwa inyani kukuba izinto azicacanga kwaphela. Ndivile ukuba ukubhala phantsi iinjongo zakho kunye nokuzifunda yonke imihla yindlela ebalulekileyo yokukhuthaza. Ingxaki yam kukuba andizazi ukuba zithini iinjongo zam, ngaba ikhona indlela yokufumanisa ukuba yintoni ezakukugcwalisa okanye icacise izimvo zakho? Ukuqhelaniswa okulula kufanelekile, enkosi kakhulu, imibuliso.
Mholo! Ulwazi luluncedo kakhulu kum; Ndiphantse ndagqiba isidanga sam kubuchwephesha bamazinyo, ekungafuneki kwasekuqaleni, bendifuna kwaye ndifuna ukuba nguGqirha, kwaye nokuba ndizama ukubambelela kwikhondo lomsebenzi, andiva luthando endiva ngalo Iyeza; Elona binzana lindichaphazele kakhulu ngala alandelayo: »Kububudenge ukubambelela kwinjongo engasakuphembeleliyo…… Ke ndizakusebenza nzima ndide ndilufezekise usukelo lwam! Nokuba ndiwile kangaphi, okanye ndifumana uxinzelelo kangaphi, nokuba kungandithatha iminyaka, ndiza kuhlala ndizama! Enkosi!!! Ihagi!!! kwaye sivuyisana nale bhlog.
Molo, ndiyakholelwa ngokwenene ukuba ukuzilawula kwam akukho zero, ndizamile iindlela ezininzi: ukwenza ii-ajenda, ukubhala iinjongo zam, ukucinga ngeenjongo zam ezinde kunye nezexesha elifutshane, kodwa ndihlala ndiphela ndingenzi nto, yoyikeka ngakumbi , zikhona iintsuku endiziva ndinesiqhamo ngazo kangangokuba ndingathanda ukusuka kuyo yonke into ndiqalele phantsi, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba umsebenzi endiwukhethileyo (ukufundisa) yeyona nto ndiyithandayo, ndiyayithanda, ndicinga nosapho lwam kunye iqabane elindixhasayo nditsho ndiziva ndindedwa, Kwaye ndifuna into endikhuthazayo ukuba ndiqhubeke, yintoni endisilela ukuziva ndinjalo ngalo lonke ixesha?
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Phambi kokuba uqale ukufunda, lala ebhedini kwaye ucinge ukuba kutheni usenza yonke le nto, eyona nto uyithandayo ngomsebenzi kwaye ucinge ngento oza kuyenza xa sele ungutitshala. Ukuqhagamshela nabantu abaneenjongo ezifanayo kukwakhuthazwa kakhulu ukuba bakunike ingxelo encinci kwaye bakhuthazane.
Uzakusixelela ukuba ubone ukuba uqhuba njani okanye uyakusebenzela.