Ukuzibekel 'amangomso into esiye sayifumana kwixesha elithile okanye kwenye ebomini bethu. Xa isenzeka, abantu bayeke imisebenzi abayenzayo kwaye bayihlehlise imisebenzi ebalulekileyo yexesha elizayo.
Ukuziphatha ukuze kuqondwe njengokuzibekela amangomso izinto, kufuneka kuqondwe njengento engenachaphaza, engeyomfuneko kwaye ukulibaziseka okanye ukulibaziseka kwelo xesha kuyingozi ngandlela thile. Imalunga nokulibazisa ngokuzithandela isenzo esicwangcisiweyo ngaphandle kwento yokuba oku kulibaziseka kwaye ungenzi isenzo kuneziphumo ezibi kunokwenza.
Iziphumo zokuhlehlisa
Abantu abalibazisayo baya kuziva ngathi bachitha ixesha labo kwaye abanako ukwenza izinto ngokufanelekileyo. Oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo, iimvakalelo zokuziva unetyala kwaye uzive unengxaki ethile. Njengokuba oko akwanelanga, uziva uphulukene kakhulu nemveliso yobuqu, ukungavunywa koluntu kunye neengxaki zomsebenzi wokungahlangani noxanduva okanye ukuzibophelela. Ukuzibekel 'amangomso izinto kunokubangela umntu ukuba angene emngxunyeni kwaye ke ukulibaziseka kwexesha kuba yinto eqhelekileyo.
Kucingelwa ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantu bakhawuleze ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile, kodwa xa uzibekel 'amangomso ngokungaphezulu, nokuba ungazithethelela kangakanani na, iziphumo zibangela uxinzelelo noxinzelelo oluninzi. Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, ezi mvakalelo zingathandekiyo zinokubangela iimvakalelo zokukhuthaza ukugqiba umsebenzi lowo. nangona ukuthethelelwa kokulibaziseka kuqinisa uhlobo olufanayo lokuziphatha kwixa elizayo.
Umntu ozibekela amangomso izinto kufuneka aqonde ixabiso lezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka ukuze abe nemveliso ebomini babo. Abantu abalibazisayo bafika njengabantu abonqenayo nabangakhathaliyo, abantu abangenamabhongo ebomini.
Kutheni kukho abantu abalibazisayo
Ukuzibekel 'amangomso izinto zihlala ziyingxaki yonxibelelwano ngokweemvakalelo, oko kukuthi, abantu abazibekela amangomso izinto badla ngokuba neengxaki zokuxhalaba, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba okuzenzekelayo abakufumanisa kunzima ukukulawula. Kwakhona, kunokubakho ukungazithembi okanye umntu ekuthethwa ngaye akawuthandi umsebenzi kwaye uziphethe kakubi (kuba akawuthandi umsebenzi, uthi uza kuwenza kodwa akayenzi njengendlela yokubonisa ukungoneliseki kwakhe nguloo msebenzi).
Inokuqondwa njengesikhewu phakathi kwenjongo kunye nesenzo. Abantu abalibazisayo benjenjalo ngenxa yokonakala kokuzeyisa. Uyayazi into omawuyenze kodwa awukwazi ukuyenza.
Iindidi zabantu abalibazisayo
Alukho uhlobo olunye kuphela lokulibazisa, eneneni zimbini iintlobo: abantu abalibazisayo abalibazisayo kunye nabahlehlisayo kwimeko. Abokuqala banengxaki engapheliyo yokugqibezela imisebenzi kwaye eyokugqibela yenza njalo kuxhomekeke kumsebenzi lowo.
Umntu onenqanaba eliphezulu lokuziphatha okungxamisekileyo kwaye engakwazi ukuzibamba kunye nokuziphatha uthatha ixesha elide kunabo banenqanaba eliphezulu lokukhula kwezi mpawu. Ngandlel 'ithile kubandakanya ulawulo lwe-ego kunye nokwala uxanduva, ukuzithethelela nokwenza izizathu zokulibazisa into ekufuneka yenziwe. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ezi zizathu zinenjongo: Qhubeka nokuzibekel 'amangomso ngokunciphisa iziphumo zezenzo ezisenza sizive silungile.
Ungakuphatha njani ukulibazisa
Ngokwophononongo olwenziwe kwiYunivesithi yaseStockholm, kubonakala ngathi ukuhlehlisa ayisiyiyo ingxaki yolawulo lwexesha kuphela, kodwa kusenokubakho nezizathu zeemvakalelo ezibangela le ngxaki. Kukho abo bacinga, umzekelo, ukuba basebenza ngcono phantsi koxinzelelo, kodwa oku kubangela uxinzelelo kunye nokungonwabi kwabo.
Iimvakalelo ezingalunganga zihlala zivela kwiingcinga ezingalunganga eziphazamisa ukubanakho ukujongana. Into ekufuneka uyenzile, beka uxanduva ecaleni kwaye wenze ezinye izinto ocinga ukuba zikwenza uzive ngcono njengokulala esofeni okanye ukubukela umabonakude ... uthatha ukuba emva koko uya kuziva ungcono ukujongana nobunzima, Kodwa oku kuhlala kungenzeki, njengoko unokuziva uzisola ngokuwumisa omnye umsebenzi.
Ngamanye amaxesha ukulawulwa kwexesha kunye nonyango akuncedi nto kubantu abalibazisayo kuba bengayazi indlela yokutshintsha indlela abacinga ngayo. Imfihlo kukutshintsha indlela yokucinga kwaye ke imeko yengqondo ukuze izinto ekufuneka zenziwe zingamiswa. Emva koko siza kuchaza indlela yokuphatha le ngxaki ngendlela elula.
Kutheni kusenziwa
Kufuneka uqale uqonde ukuba kutheni uzibambezela ekwenzeni into ekufuneka uyenzile. Ziziphi iimvakalelo ezivela xa uzama ukubhala isindululo okanye unengxoxo enzima? Yintoni oyikisayo enokwenzeka ukuba uyayenza? Leliphi elona tyala libi? Kwabaninzi, ukuba akunjalo, ixhala libekek 'ityala. Ukuxhalaba malunga nokuphazamisa umsebenzi okanye ukungawenzi kusikhokelela ekubeni siwubeke kude kube, ngokungathandekiyo, asikwazi ukuwenza kakuhle okanye ushiye unaphakade.
Funa umvuzo endaweni yokuphepha
Ukuba imeko yakho iyadamba ngethemba lokuthatha inyathelo, kuya kufuneka uphucule imeko yakho kuqala. Xa ufuna ukwenza into, nokuba yintoni, zinike umvuzo omncinci kamva.
Lumka incam yomkhenkce
Unetoni yezimvo malunga nendlela umhlaba owenziwe ngokuthe ngcembe entlokweni yakho osebenza ngayo kwaye kufuneka usebenze, ukuqala xa wawusemncinci kakhulu, kodwa awuziqapheli njengokuba zitshonile ngaphantsi komphezulu womzimba wakho - ezingqondweni. Sizibiza ngokuba ziinkolelo zomkhenkce, kwaye zinokuba yingxaki, kuba ngekhe wazi ukuba ziyichaphazela njani indlela ocinga ngayo.
Umzekelo wenkolelo yomkhenkce osesichengeni sokuzibekela amangomso kukuba, "Ndimele yonke into igqibelele" (isandi siqhelekile?) Esi sidingo sokuba nezinto ngendlela ethile ngaphambi kokuba uthathe naliphi na inyathelo eliya kuthintela inkqubela phambili yakho kwaye ikugcine unamathele. Wazi njani ukuba ujongene ne-iceberg? Iimpawu zibandakanya amagama anje ngo "Ndifanele" okanye "Ndimele" engqondweni yakho.
Guqula indlela ocinga ngayo
Uyibona njani imeko eza kuchonga indlela ophendula ngayo kwaye ekugqibeleni wenze ntoni. Kwenzeka ntoni kuninzi lwethu kukuba sibanjiswa yimigibe yokucinga, okanye iindlela zokucinga ezingasishiyi ndlela yokuphuma okanye inkqubela phambili.
Ukuba ucinga, "Le projekthi inzima kakhulu, andinakuze ndiyenze," inokuba yiglasi yokukhulisa kunye nesinciphisi, isenza ezona ngxaki zinzima zomsebenzi zibe mbi kakhulu kwaye zinciphise izibonelelo, ezibulala inkuthazo yakho. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ucinga okanye uthi: "Lo ngumceli mngeni, kodwa uyenzeka, kwaye amabhaso okuba uqalise nawo kufanelekile" ... izinto zitshintsha kakhulu engqondweni yakho.
Ukuba ucinga, "andinakuze ndiyenze ndedwa le," okanye, "Andisoze ndilunge kolu hlobo lwento," kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngumenzi oqhelekileyo okanye u-generalizer, ekhomba kukuzithemba okuphantsi. Ngenxa yokuba ungakholelwa ukuba uyakwazi ukuyenza, kwaye uzixelele ukuba, ewe, uyakwenza, kwaye uloyiko lwakho luba yinyani. Kwelinye icala, ukuba ucinga okanye uthi: “Into endizama ukuyenza ibingazukuba lula nakubani na. Ngubani olunge ngakumbi kunam ukujongana nayo? Ngubani omnye ngaphandle kwam ozimisele ukujongana nayo?