Unokuziva ngathi uncama ngokukhawuleza okanye ngokungxama ebomini. Unokuphelelwa ngumonde ngokulula okanye uyeke ngaphambi kokufikelela kwiinjongo zakho, ushiye uziva ulilolo kwaye unetyala ekunzima ukuluthwala. Mhlawumbi kunjalo Ukuba oku kuyenzeka kuwe, uya kuziva ngathi awunako ukuzeyisa kangangoko ufuna, nto leyo enokukwenza uzive woyisiwe.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iinjongo ezintle azonelanga. Ukuncamathela kwizinto kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye ngekhe ufumane le nto uzimisele ukuyenza. Kukho abantu abanomdla xa kufuneka benze utshintsho njengabo bafuna ukunciphisa umzimba kodwa bonwabele ukutya kakhulu ... abantu banokumelana nomnqweno ngokwandisa ukuxhathisa kwabo kunye nokuzithiba ... Kodwa Ukuba azenzi njalo, kunokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwiinjongo zakho zobomi kunye neenjongo.
Xa uziva ngathi awuzilawuli okanye uzilawule, kunokuba nzima kuwe ukuba uhlale ukhuthazekile kwaye ujolise kwiinjongo zakho. Ke ukuba ufuna ukufumanisa indlela yokuba nomonde ngakumbi kwaye ukuzeyisa akuyona ingxaki ebomini bakho, ungaphuthelwa kwezi ndlela ezinokukunceda utshintshe ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo.
Nika ingqalelo kwindlela oziphethe ngayo
Kubantu abaneengxaki zokuzibamba, bahlala bengayazi imikhwa yabo kunye neendlela zabo kwaye kunzima kakhulu kubo ukulawula izigqibo kunye nezimo zengqondo zabo. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba oku kuyenzeka nakuwe. Ukuba umzekelo ufuna ukunciphisa umzimba okanye uyeke ukutshaya, Kwimeko yokuqala kuya kufuneka ucwangcise into oza kuyitya yonke imihla kwaye kweyesibini, indlela yokuyeka ukutshaya ngokuqhubekayo.
Ukuba, umzekelo, ufuna ukuba iakhawunti yakho yokujonga ilawulwe, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba yeyiphi na inkcitho yakho kwaye wazi ukuba uyifaka phi imali yakho. Ukufunda ukubeka phambili imali yakho kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukuyilawula kwaye, nanini na kunokwenzeka, wonge.
Ukuba iingxaki zakho azihlali kuyo yonke ingcinga yakho
Cinga ngemizuzu eli-10 ngosuku ukhathalele amaxhala akho, kwaye kulo lonke usuku, nqamula nje ezo ngcinga, unethuba lokuba ukwazi ukulawula zonke ezo ngcinga! Akulunganga ukuba uthabathe ngaphezulu kwezinto njengoko ingqondo yakho inoburhalarha kwaye okukhona uzama ukuphepha into, kokukhona ingena engqondweni yakho.
Kungcono usebenzise iindlela zokuzibamba xa kufanelekile, Ixesha eliseleyo unalo, ulinikele ekwenzeni eminye imisebenzi ekwenza uzive ulungile.
Yiba nesimo sengqondo esiphumelelayo
Ukuba nesimo sengqondo esingcono kunye nesifanelekileyo kwiinjongo zakho kunye nobomi bakho kunokukunceda ugxile kwaye ujongane noxinzelelo ngcono. Umzekelo, kunokukunceda uhlakulele umonde kunye nokuzithiba xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle.
Obu bubuchule bokuzilawula obugqwesileyo, obunokukunceda uthathe indlela eyahlukileyo kwizinto, njengokuziva ngathi ungafezekisa iinjongo zakho kwaye azifikeleleki kuwe.
Yiba nesimo sengqondo esihle Inokugcina umkhondo ukuze uhlale kulawulo, ube nomonde, kwaye ujolise ekufezekiseni le nto ufuna ukuyiphumeza.
Ukuphumla kwemihla ngemihla
Kubalulekile ukuba usebenzise umzuzwana kumhla wakho ukuze ukwazi ukuphumla, uphefumle ngokunzulu kwaye ujolise kuphela kwinto oziva ngayo kunye nendlela oziva ngayo. Ukuphefumla ngokunzulu, ukubala ukuya kwi-10, kunye nokuvala amehlo akho yeyona ndlela ilula kwaye isebenzayo yokuzibamba. Uyakwazi ukuzola kwaye ube nokuzilawula ngakumbi.
Xa uziva uxhalabile, unomsindo, okanye uza kudubula, kufuneka uqale ukhululeke. Unokuzama iindlela ezifanelekileyo ezinje ngokucamngca okanye ukusela iti kwindawo ethe cwaka.
Yiba nendlela yokuphila esempilweni
Zonke iinguqu kwisimo sengqondo kunye nemikhwa ebomini zifuna ukuzibophelela, ukuzeyisa, ukunyamezela kunye nokuphuma kwintando. Nokuba ufuna ntoni ukuba utshintshe umkhwa wakho, uya kuyidinga ukufezekisa. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuya ejimini ngakumbi, utshintshe indlela otya ngayo, uyeke ukutshaya, okanye ungachithi imali eninzi. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba ziyintoni na izinto zakho, ukuba zibalulekile Kuyimfuneko ukuba usebenzele ukufezekisa oko.
Izifundo zibonisa ukuba kuthatha iintsuku ezingama-21 ukuba ingqondo iqale umkhwa kuyo. Ngale ndlela, kuya kufuneka ukuba "unyamezele" ezo ntsuku ukuze uqale ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Emva kweveki yesithathu, yonke into izakuba lula kakhulu kwaye awuzukuziva ukuba into ekufuneka uyenzile ngumsebenzi ongafunekiyo kuwe ... iya kuba yinto ezenzekelayo kwaye Kulula kakhulu kuwe ukuba uqhubeke nale ndlela yokuphila intsha.
Kholelwa kuwe
Into ebalulekileyo yenkuthazo kunye nokuzeyisa kukuqonda komntu ukwenza oko. Abantu abazukudala inkuthazo enkulu yotshintsho ukuba bakholelwa ekubeni akunakwenzeka ukuba balufezekise.
Xa ujongene nobunzima, abantu abaneenkolelo ezibuthathaka zokuzithemba ngokulula bakhulisa ukuthandabuza malunga nokwenza lo msebenzi kuthethwa ngawo, ngelixa abo baneenkolelo eziqinileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba baqhubeke neenzame zabo zokugqwesa umsebenzi xa kuvela ubunzima.
Yomeleza amandla
Amandla okuzimela abonisa amandla okanye amandla engqondo umntu awasebenzisayo ukumelana nezinye izilingo zokusebenzela ukufikelela kwinjongo yakhe. Ukuzithiba kuxhomekeke kubutyebi obulinganiselweyo obusebenza njengamandla okanye amandla.
Abantu basebenzisa oovimba xa bezithiba. Ke ngoko, ukuba nosukelo olunye kuphela kwenza ukuba ukuzeyisa kube yimpumelelo ngakumbi kunalapho abantu baneenjongo ezimbini nangaphezulu. Njengoko watshoyo uPlato: "Yenza into ibe nye uyenze kakuhle."
Guqula indlela oziphatha ngayo
Ngelixa ukuzimela ngokwasemzimbeni kwanamhlanje nangomso kuyinyani ngokwaneleyo, inyani kukuba isenzo sanamhlanje sichaphazela isenzo sangomso.. Ukuzibamba kuvela ekukhetheni "iipateni" zokuziphatha ngokuhamba kwexesha kunokwenza izinto "zomntu".
Isigqibo sokuyeka ukutshaya, sisigqibo sokuqalisa indlela yokuziphatha. Ukutshaya icuba ngokuhlwanje akuboni unxibelelwano phakathi kwesenzo sangokuhlwa kunye nepateni yezenzo zobusuku nemini ezininzi. Ukungatshayi ngokuhlwanje kwenza kube lula ukungatshayi ngomso kwaye ukungatshayi ngomso kwenza kube lula ukungatshayi ngengomso, njalo njalo.