Isidingo sokuba lilungu leqela loluntu sesinye sezizathu ezisisiseko ebantwini. Xa abantu benqatshelwe ekuhlaleni, baya kubude obukhulu ukuze baziqhelanise kwaye babuyele kulwamkelo lwasentlalweni ukuze bagcine ukuzithemba kwabo. Ukwahlulwa ekuhlaleni kuneziphumo ezibalulekileyo kwintlalontle, ulonwabo kunye nobukrelekrele.
Kwangelo xesha Isidingo sokwahluka sisizathu esisisiseko somntu. Xa abantu bephathwa ngokufanayo nabanye, bona (ngamanye amaxesha ngokungazi) bazama ukwenza nantoni na ukuze bavele. Umzekelo, abantu abaziva besoyikiswa ngokwahlukileyo kwabo kunokwenzeka ukuba babonakalise izimo zengqondo ezingathandekiyo.
Ingenzeka njani le nto? Abantu banokuba nazo njani zombini iimfuno zokuba ngabakowabo kunye nemfuno yokwahluka? Njengokuba, Abantu banzima! Sinezizathu ezininzi zokukhuthaza, ezinye zazo ziyaphikisana. Kungenxa yoko le nto uninzi lwabantu luzama ukufumana ulungelelwaniso phakathi kwezizathu zabo ezahlukeneyo.
Nangona kunjalo, olo tyekelo lomntu ngokubhekisele eyahlukileyo inokuba nefuthe kubuchule babantu bokuyila.
Ngokwenkcazo, izisombululo zoyilo aziqhelekanga kwaye zibandakanya ukuphinda kudityaniswe kweembono. Iingcamango ezingaqhelekanga nezingafaniyo zizimpawu zokucinga zoyilo. Abo bathanda ukuzikhetha kwabanye kunokwenzeka ukuba bazishiye kwizimvo eziqhelekileyo kwaye baneengcinga ezingaqhelekanga.
Uphando luyayixhasa le ngcamango. Isidingo sokubonwa sahlukile kwabanye sonyusa ubuchule bokuyila. Abantu abaninzi baxela isidingo esikhulu sodwa babonisa ukhetho olukhulu kumanani abonakalayo antsonkothileyo kwaye bavelisa imizobo kunye namabali ayilayo.
Oku kuphakamisa umbono onomdla: Abantu abanesidingo esiphakamileyo sokungafani banokuba novakalelo oluchaseneyo nokwaliwa ekuhlaleni. Mhlawumbi kwanokwaliwa ekuhlaleni yimbasa yoyilo lwakho! Ngapha koko, ezinye zeengqondo ezinobuchule ngalo lonke ixesha ziye zajamelana namanqanaba aphezulu kakhulu okugatywa kunye nokuzahlula eluntwini.
Kwisifundo esinye, kwasekwa amaqela amabini abantu: elinye iqela laliwe ngokucacileyo ukuba lithathe inxaxheba kumdlalo. Elinye iqela laxelelwa ukuba liza kujoyina umdlalo emva kokugqiba imisebenzi ethile. Emva koko, omabini la maqela amkelweyo nalawo enikiweyo anikwa imizuzu esi-2 yokugqibezela uvavanyo olulinganisa ubuchule bokunxibelelana namagama angahambelaniyo.
Isifundo sifumanise ukuba ukwaliwa ekuhlaleni kukhokelela kubuchule obukhulu bokuyila. Ukongeza, abo bakhatyiweyo baxela isidingo esikhulu sokwahluka, ukufumana ezona ziphumo zibalaseleyo kuvavanyo lobuchule.
Zonke ezi ziphumo zibonisa ukuba amava okwenyani anokukhuthaza ubuchule kwabo bantu iimvakalelo zokuzimela zongamele ezo zeqela.
Masicace gca: ukwaliwa akumnandi, nokuba kukhuthaza ubuchule. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuphanda ezinye izinto ezinokusingqongileyo linganisa amava okwaliwa ngaphandle kokuba umntu abe namava abuhlungu. Ngethamsanqa, kukho uphando lwamva nje olubonisa iziphumo ezifanayo zokucinga okwahlukileyo kwabo bafunda phesheya kwaye bakufumanisa kunzima ukusebenza kwimeko yenkcubeko eyahlukileyo.
Ukuziva ngokwahlukileyo kunokuba luncedo. Njengoko abaphandi bathi, "Kubantu abalahliweyo ekuhlaleni, ubuchule bunokuba yeyona mpindezelo ilungileyo."
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