Mandulo Ndiyoyika ukugwetywa ngabanye Kwaye abanakuyithanda kuba ndibhityile, ukuzibonakalisa kakubi, ukuba neentloni, ukungasebenzi, ukuba yindoda enobukrelekrele okanye ukungabinantlalontle.
Ngexesha elithile kuya kufuneka uyeke kwaye wamkele ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu okuthandayo kwaye nokuba wenza kangakanani ukuzama ukungena.
Kudala ndihleli nolo loyiko lomgwebo. Kuyo yonke into endiyenzileyo bendisazi ukuba ndikhathalele kakhulu malunga nokucinga kwabantu ngam.
Kwakhona ndenza ngathi ndonwabile xa ndidandathekile kwaye ndiyenzile ukuphuma Xa ndandineentloni, ndandizifihla ukuba ndingubani kanye kanye nto leyo eyandenza ndonwaba ngakumbi kunangaphambili. Ukuqhawulwa konxibelelwano phakathi kwento endiziva kwaye ndiyenza kundenza ndaziva ndinesithukuthezi kwaye ndinesithukuthezi.
Ndithe ndakuqonda unobangela woxinzelelo kunye nesizungu, ndaqala ukuvumela abantu ukuba bazibone ngokwam. Ukuzithemba kwam nokuzithemba kwam kuye kwanda kwaye amanqanaba am olonwabo aphakama. Ndiye ndaqonda ukuba ayindim lo unengxaki, yimeko yabanye abantu.
Abanye abantu banobuhlobo, bavulelekile kwaye abangagwebi kwaye abanye abakho. Abantu bayakwamkela okanye abaxhomekeki kwindlela ubuntu babo obuhambelana ngayo neyakho. bonke ubuntu baneziphene kwaye ukuzama ukuzifihla kuyinto engokwemvelo.
Nanku umzekelo. Xa ufunda udliwanondlebe lwaseburhulumenteni okanye ubabona bethetha kumabonwakude, bayadika. Bazichaza ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye banembonakalo enomona: iinwele ezigqibeleleyo nolusu, ezona mpahla zintle… Xa besenza ngale ndlela, ingqalelo yabaphulaphuli iyehla kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, xa ubhala ngabafazi abadumileyo (iTiger Woods), iingxaki zempilo yengqondo (Britney Spears) okanye umlo wokulwa nokutyeba kakhulu (i-Oprah) kuxa abantu abadumileyo beqala ukuba nomdla. Xa siqonda ukuba iinkwenkwezi ayingabo abantu abagqibeleleyo ababonakala ngathi bakwiimuvi nakumabonwakude, kulapho sibathanda kakhulu.
Sonke siyaphikisana kwaye sinesiphene, kodwa yile nto isenza sibe nomdla. Ukuze ufunde ukuzithanda kufuneka wamkele iimpikiswano kunye neempazamo zakho, ungazifihli. Yiza, yizame kwaye uza kubona ukuba ndithetha ntoni.
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