Imisebenzi yabantwana ekhaya ayisosinyanzelo, ziyimfuneko ekufuneka yenziwe ukusukela xa abantwana besebancinci kakhulu. Ngokukhawuleza xa abantwana beneminyaka emibini ubudala, kufuneka baqale ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya ehambelana nokukwazi kwabo ukuyenza. Ukuze oku kube kokuqinisekileyo, kuyafuneka ukuba nabazali benze indima yabo.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana banobunzima bokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, kuyinto eqhelekileyo! Abazali kufuneka babe nomonde kwaye bafundise abantwana babo ukwenza lo msebenzi ngokweminyaka yabo ukuze kancinci kancinci bawuphucule. Kodwa Nokuba benza izinto ezingalunganga, akufuneki zenzelwe bona, kufuneka bafundiswe ukuzenza kakuhle.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya wabantwana
Ngamanye amaxesha abazali, besazi isidingo sokunika umntwana uxanduva, bathintelwa kukwazi ukuba benze ntoni kwaye balindele ntoni. Olu luhlu lulandelayo lujolise ekuhlangabezeni le mfuno.
Uluhlu luyenyuka. Njengokuba umntwana ehambela phambili kubudala okanye kwibakala, unokuqhubeka nokugcina uxanduva lwangaphambili kwaye athabathe amatsha. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akasakufumani kumnandi ukugqiba umsebenzi wakuba ungasekho mngeni mtsha. Imisebenzi eluxanduva lomntu buqu, enjengokulalisa ukhuko, ukuhlamba iimpahla, nokulungisa igumbi lakhe, akufuneki kwenziwe kuye. Imisebenzi enceda lonke usapho inokujikeleziswa, okanye ukhetho lwemisebenzi lunokunikwa. Uluhlu olujolise ekuphakamiseni okunokwenzeka, sisiqalo kuphela ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko kunye nobuchule bomntu omdala ojonga umntwana.
Kuqeqesho loxanduva, kunokuba bubulumko ukuqhubeka ngokuthe chu. Kuqala, kumisela okanye kuqinise ubudlelwane, emva koko ngeencoko zobuhlobo, umntu omdala kunye nomntwana kunye banokumisela ukuba umntwana angalilungu njani losapho. Ngaphambi kokuba wabele umsebenzi wesikolo, kuya kuba luncedo ukugcina le migaqo ilandelayo engqondweni:
- Abantwana banamalungelo noxanduva. Ngaphandle kwala malungelo, ukongeza ekurholweni ngokurhabaxa nangokwempembelelo ngumntu omdala, umntwana unokuziva elawulwa okanye enempindezelo kwaye angayichasa nayiphi na imizamo yokufumana intsebenziswano yabo.
- Abantwana kufuneka kuthethwe nabo ngemisebenzi ekufuneka yenziwe. Emva kokuba bencedisile ekuchongeni umsebenzi, banceda ukuseta imigangatho yomsebenzi kunye nokuzibandakanya kuvavanyo lomsebenzi ogqityiweyo.
- Vumela abantwana ukuba bakhethe ukuba yeyiphi na imisebenzi abafuna ukuyenza. Ukwenza nto AKUYONA inketho eyamkelekileyo. Baqhubeka nokukhetha okanye ukwamkela iziphumo.
- Vumela iziphumo ukuba zilandele ngokulandelelana ukusuka kumsebenzi ongagqitywanga. Sukuthetha kwangethuba ukuba kuyakwenzeka ntoni xa umntu engagcini ukuzibophelela.
- Beka ixesha elifanelekileyo lokugqiba umsebenzi. Ukuba umntwana uthatha inxaxheba ekumiseni le mida, uya kuvuma ngakumbi ukuyithobela. Ungabuza, "Ufuna ixesha elingakanani?" Ukusebenzisa isibali xesha lasekhitshini kuyanceda. Ezinye izibali zinokucatshulwa kwipokotho yomntwana.
- Imisebenzi eyahlukileyo. Abantwana badikwa ngokulula yimisebenzi efanayo. Bathanda imingeni emitsha.
- Abantwana bathanda ukuqhubela phambili nomsebenzi onzima ngakumbi; amalungelo amatsha abanokuwathatha ngoku ngokuba makhulu / omelele / akrelekrele.
- Sebenzisa ukuqonda okuqhelekileyo kwisixa somsebenzi wasekhaya olindelweyo kumntwana ngamnye. Awunakukhuthazeka kwaye ungenzi nto ukuba uziva ngathi kufuneka wenze kakhulu.
- Khumbula ukuba ungumzekelo we "oda." Musa ukulindela ucwangco kunye nococeko oluvela kubantwana ongalulindelanga kuwe.
- Hlola imilinganiselo yakho. Mhlawumbi ungumntu othanda ukugqibelela, uziva ungonwabanga ukuba izinto azikho ndawo okanye ukhathazekile malunga nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni. Funda ukwamkela ikhaya njengendawo yokusebenzela amalungu osapho, hayi njengokubonisa ukubaluleka kwakho.
- Eyona nto inzima kakhulu: ungaze umenzele umntwana into anokuzenzela yona.
UXanduva lweKhaya lwaBantwana
Uxanduva lweKhaya lwamaXesha kwiinyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwi-2 XNUMX/XNUMX yeminyaka
- Gcina izinto zokudlala ngoncedo.
- Gcwalisa izicelo ezilula ezinje "Ngaba ungayilahla le nto?" Okanye "Nceda ugcine le" (abantu abadala bakhomba indawo).
- Uthatha inxaxheba (ngokungagqibelelanga) kwimisebenzi yasekhaya enomdla kuye, ihlala ingekagqitywa umsebenzi wesikolo. Ungazama ukutshayela, ukucoca itafile, ukuseta itafile, ukucoca, njl.
- Ukuzibandakanya ngokuqhubekayo ekunxibeni (umntu omdala ubonelela ngempahla ekulula ukuyiphatha). Ukukhulula kuza ngaphambi kokunxiba.
- Layisha iwasha kunye nesomisi, cofa iqhosha lokuqala.
- Uyondla ngokuzimeleyo nangona efuna uncedo.
- Thatha inxaxheba ekulungiseleleni ukutya okulula
Uxanduva lwaseKhaya lwe-2-XNUMX / XNUMX-Year-Old
- Qokelela izinto zokudlala ugqibile kwaye uzibeke kwindawo efanelekileyo (umntu omdala ubonelela ngeeshelfu ezisezantsi kunye nezikhongozeli zento nganye)
- Beka iincwadi neemagazini eshelufini.
- Shayela phantsi okanye ecaleni kwendlela ngomtshayelo omncinci, sebenzisa ipani yokuncedisa ngoncedo.
- Ukubeka i-napkins, iipleyiti kunye nokusika etafileni (hayi ngokuchanekileyo kwasekuqaleni).
- Coca oko ukuwisa emva kokutya. Coca ukuchitheka.
- Khetha i-snack okanye isidlo sakusasa kwizinto ezimbini okanye ezintathu.
- Nceda uhlambe izitya.
- Sebenzisa igumbi lokuhlambela kwaye uhlambe ngoncedo.
- Nxiba ngoncedo.
Uxanduva lwaseKhaya lwabantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 nonyaka-4 ubudala
- Misela itafile.
- Gcina ukutya.
- Uncedo kuluhlu lokuthenga.
- Landela ishedyuli yokondla izilwanyana.
- Uncedo ngomsebenzi weyadi kunye negadi.
- Tshayela.
- Lungiselela ukhuko lwakho ngoncedo.
- Funda iindlela zokupheka ezilula.
- Yabelana ngezinto zokudlala emva koko uzibeke ecaleni.
- Dlala ngaphandle kolawulo lomntu osisigxina.
- Yonwabela into oyenzileyo xa ugqiba imisebenzi kwibhodi yomsebenzi.
Uxanduva lwaseKhaya lwabantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 nonyaka esi-6 ubudala
- Uncedo ngokucwangcisa ukutya kunye nokuthenga ukutya.
- Nceda ulungiselele isidlo sasemini uze esikolweni.
- Misela itafile.
- Nceda ekhitshini.
- Bandakanyeka kulungiselelo lokutya olunzima ngakumbi, kubandakanya ukubhaka kunye nokupheka, ngoncedo.
- Ndondlula ibhedi ndilungise igumbi.
- Khetha iimpahla kubusuku obudlulileyo, nxiba ngaphandle koncedo.
- Gcina ucoceko lomntu siqu.
- Songa iimpahla uzibeke ecaleni.
- Thetha efowunini uphendule ngokuchanekileyo.
- Khathalela izilwanyana.
- Gcina igumbi lakho lokulala licocekile kwaye licocekile.
- Uyakwazi ukunceda ekunyamekeleni abantakwenu abancinci.
- Ngamaxesha oxakekileyo inokunceda.
Uxanduva lweKhaya kwi-Ages 6-12
- Zonke ezi zinto zingasentla zinomceli mngeni okhulayo.
- Lungisa isidlo esilula ngokuzimeleyo.
- Khathalela izinto zakho.
- Hlela izinto.
- Qala ulawulo lwemali
- Ukwanda kwengqwalaselo yabanye, isimilo esifanelekileyo.