Nali ibali lenkwenkwe yaseMelika eyayifumana uxinzelelo kunye nokuphathwa gadalala esikolweni (ukuxhaphaza). Wayengumfana oqhelekileyo ohlekiswayo esikolweni, nangona kunjalo esibonisa ukuba zinokutshintsha njani iinzame nokuzingisa kwezinto.
Mna nabantakwethu e-Itali. 2006 (iminyaka eli-13)
«Ndihlala ndizabalaza ngokutyeba kakhulu, ngokuzithemba okuphantsi kunye noxinzelelo. Esikolweni bendihlukunyezwa kwaye bendigezelwa yiklasi. Ngo 2006 ndayeka isikolo ndaqala ukufunda ekhaya (home home) ngelizama ukuyisusa yonke lonto. Ukuxhatshazwa kuyekile, kodwa hayi uxinzelelo, kwaye ngenxa yoko ndiye ndatyeba ngokukhawuleza.
I-2008, iminyaka eyi-15 ubudala, i-108 kilos.
"Uxolo ngomgangatho ombi wesithombe, kodwa kuphela kwento endiyifumene kuloo nyaka. Ndazifihla kwiikhamera kwaye ndandihlala ndicela abazali bam ukuba bacime iifoto zabo. Ukuba abafuni, wenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukufumana ikhompyuter okanye ikhamera kwaye ayicime. Nokuba nge-15 ndandizele ndizicaphukela.
I-2009, iminyaka eyi-16 ubudala, i-118 kilos.
«Ngo-2009 ndaya kwinkampu eyayiququzelelwe yicawa yam ehlotyeni. Mhlawumbi yayiyenye yezinto ezazibetha ukuzithemba kwam. Wayengomnye wamakhulu elivisayo awayezimase iminyhadala eyayilungiselelwe elwandle. Ndiyakuthanda ukuqubha nolwandle ngoko ke bendinemincili. Imincili yakhawuleza yoyika xa ndabona ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba kunye nabanye abancinci, iimbaleki. Kwaye ibingumfana otyebileyo obequbha egeza kwihempe yakhe enentloni zokubonisa umzimba wam.
I-2009, iminyaka eyi-16 ubudala, i-118 kilos.
Ngo-2010, mna nomntakwethu omdala eGrisi-121 kilos
«Ngumntakwethu kunye nam eAthene, kwakhona ngaphezulu kweedigri ezingama-40 kwaye bendihlala ndifihla inani lam ngesweatshi emnyama. Apha bendinobunzima obukhulu. U-2010 ibingunyaka wokuqala ebomini bam ukuba bendinesipili egumbini lam, kwaye rhoqo kusasa bendivuka, ndijonge umzimba wam kwaye ndizithiye. Ndide ndavuka ngenye imini ndathatha isigqibo sokuba ndizotshintsha.
Ngo-2011, mna nomntakwethu omdala e-China-i-80 kilos
«Kunyaka omnye kwaye ngenkxaso engapheliyo yosapho lwam, ndilahlekelwe ziikhilogremu ezingama-40 kwaye ubomi bam batshintsha ngokupheleleyo. Ndayeka ukutya into endiyifunayo ndaza ndatya ukutya okunezintlanzi, amaqanda, irayisi, iziqhamo nemifuno. Ndiqale ukuphakamisa imizuzu engama-40 ngosuku, ukongeza ekusebenziseni umatshini okweeyliptical kangangemizuzu engama-20. "
ETshayina, ngo-2011.
2012- Abantakwethu nabazala bam (ndingowesine ukusuka ekhohlo)
«Ndifuna ukugxininisa ukubaluleka kosapho kunye nabahlobo ... Uya kuyidinga inkxaso yabo, kuba kuya kuba nzima ukoyisa ezinye izinto, kuya kuthatha ixesha, kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo ukusuka kusuku olunye ukuya kolandelayo. Ekuphela kwento onokuyitshintsha ngoku yinkqubo yakho yokucinga kunye nendlela ozibona ngayo kunye neenjongo zakho. Awusoze walufikelela usukelo lwakho ngaphandle kokuba ulusukele kwaye unike yonke into onayo. Kulungile ukuba woyike ukusilela, kodwa ayisiyiyo ukuba ungazami.
"Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube ulunge kakhulu ukuqala kodwa kuya kufuneka uqale ulunge kakhulu."
Iindaba
Usakholelwa ukuba ulikhoboka leemeko zakho? Shiya uluvo lwakho undixelele ngamava akho otshintsho.
Amandla endinawo abaluleke kakhulu kwaye ukukwazi ukulwa noloyiko kunye noloyiko kuyathuthuzela ngumzekelo obalaseleyo wobomi iinguqu ngokwenene zihlala zingcono kwaye ukufezekisa yonke into endinokuyiphumeza kuyancomeka kuhlala kusisa, kuba uyonwabile ayinangxaki kodwa ungazi ukuba uzisombulule njani.
Ityala lakho ngokwenene ngumzekelo wokoyisa kunye nokuzingisa, kuphela ukuba abantu abaninzi abanaso isibindi esaneleyo sokujongana nokudiliza imiqobo ebambe ubomi babo. Andimncinci kangako kodwa ndicinga ukuba sonke sinamaxesha xa sizive ngale ndlela uzibone ngayo, kwimeko yam bendidiliza iindonga kwaye ndijongane nabantu abahlala besebenzisana kakubi kubomi bethu kwaye oku kunokwenziwa kuphela isibindi kunye nokunyamezela.
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