Amaxesha amaninzi izithintelo azikho ngaphandle kodwa kuthi.
Injongo inokuba nzima kodwa ukuba uyakhathala ulwimi lwakho lwangaphakathi iya kufikeleleka ngakumbi. Ngeengcinga ezikhuthazayo ezinje ngokuba "ndiza kuyenza," injongo ijongeka isondele.
Inkqubo yeNeurolinguistic (NLP), lelinye lawona masebe matsha ezengqondo kwaye enika iziphumo ezilungileyo, inento yokwenza nolwimi lwangaphakathi. Ngapha koko, i-NLP isetyenziswa ngokubanzi ngumntu okhuthazayo u-Anthony Robbins.
Lo mfanekiso usekhohlo ushwankathela kakuhle uhlobo lweengcinga zangaphakathi esinokuba nazo ngokunxulumene nokufezekiswa kwenjongo. Nokuba kunzima kangakanani injongo ungaze ubeke imiqobo ngendlela yakho.
Cwangcisa, yehlisa loo njongo iphambili kwiinjongo ezincinci kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke into, yiba nesiqu sakho ngolwimi lwangaphakathi. Okona kunzima ngakumbi injongo kukuba, kokukhona uya kukoneliseka.