Ngaba umnqweno wokungena kwiqela loluntu uyimfuneko yokwenene? Nangona kwimeko yokuqala sinokucinga ukuba yinto engenamsebenzi, ulungelelwaniso lokwenene kunye nemvakalelo yokuba lilungu loontanga bethu yinxalenye yophuhliso olubalulekileyo lomntu. Nangona uninzi lucinga ukuba iimfuno zichazwa ngokusekwe kwezo mfuno zibalulekileyo zokugcina ubomi, oko kukuthi, ezo zizalisekisa umsebenzi obalulekileyo: njengokuphefumla, ukutya okanye ukulala, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba impilo-ntle yomntu ukubonwa uphenjelelwa isidingo sothando, ukwamkelwa kunye nokuchongwa.
Isidingo ngumnqweno osisiseko kwimpilo-ntleKe ngoko, kufuneka yaneliswe, kuba ukusilela ukwenza oko kuya kukhokelela kwiziphumo ezibi ezicacileyo, ezinje ngokuqhubeka kokungasebenzi kakuhle okanye nokufa komntu lowo. Ngaba sinokufa ukuba siyayityeshela imfuneko yentlalo? Ngokwenyani xa kuchazwa oonobangela bokufa kwethu, akukho gqirha unokugqiba kwingxelo yakhe "ukusweleka ngenxa yokunqongophala kothando kunye / okanye ulungiso olungalunganga kwintlalo" kodwa kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba imeko yengqondo inolwalamano olomeleleyo nenkuthazo nokuzithemba , kwaye xa ukudimazeka kufikelela kumanqanaba angapheliyo sinokuphuhlisa izifo ezichaphazela impilo yethu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni, siphuhlise isifo esiya kuthi kwiimeko ezinzima sikhokelele ekufeni.
Iimpawu zesidingo sentlalo
Kuyatshiwo ukuba isidingo kukubonisa into ephilayo efuna ukugcinwa kunye nophuhliso, ngokwembono yengqondo, ichazwa njengemvakalelo enxulunyaniswe nokusilela, okubangelwa ngamandla ashukumisayo umntu ukwenza amanyathelo kunye neenzame zokucinezela ukusilela. Iimfuno zentlalo Obu bubungqina bokuntsokotha komntu, impilo-ntle yakhe engagqitywanga kwindawo enye, kodwa endaweni yoko inendima ebalulekileyo.Imfuno zizinto eziyinxalenye yendalo yabantu uqobo, ebonisa zonke iintlobo zeemfuno. Izidingo zentlalo zibonakaliswa ngu:
- Ayizukwenziwa, oko kuthetha ukuba ayisiyomveliso yomnqweno ongenanto. Abo bohlobo lwentlalo babonisa loo nxalenye yenkqubo yethu eyonelisekileyo kukunxibelelana noontanga bethu.
- Bajonga ukuba ngubani lowo ungubani.
- Ubumbano kunye neendlela zobudlelwane zimiselwa zizinto zenkcubeko, kunye neemeko eziveliswe kokusingqongileyo. Azinamkhawulo, nje ukuba sanelise enye, ezintsha ziyavela.
- Ukuqina kwayo kuyahluka, kwaye kuxhomekeke kukhuthazo.
Iindidi zeemfuno zentlalo
Ukumiselwa sisakhono sokunxibelelana nendalo esingqongileyo, ezi mfuno zisekwe kwiinkqubo zengqondo kwinqanaba lobe yangaphambili inokwahlulwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Umnqweno wokuba lilungu: Ukuba yinxalenye yenkcubeko, ukuphuhlisa amasiko kunye namasiko njengelungu lesizwe okanye uhlanga. Yiba yinxalenye yeqela lentlalontle, lezemfundo. Yenza izinto ezikwenza uchongwe njengenxalenye yento echazwa njengenxalenye yobukho, kuba yenziwe ngaphakathi ngale ndlela, oku kungumnqweno wokuba ngowakho, nto leyo ebangela ukoneliseka okukhulu, ukhuseleko kunye nozinzo emntwini.
Uthando: Uthando ngamandla anamandla, luvakalelo olunetyala elinamandla elinceda umntu ukuba akhule ngokukhuselekileyo. Luvakalelo oluchazayo kulonwabo lomntu ngamnye, kwaye ke oko kwenza impilo yabo. Iingcali zengqondo zichonge ukuba ubudlelwane obunomdla kunye noontanga babo bunikezelwa ngobuhlobo bomntu nonina, owenza umthombo wokuqala wothando ahlangana nalo umntwana.
Ukwamkelwa: Yenza uluvo lokuba abanye banalo malunga nomntu, kwaye inxulunyaniswa ngokusondeleyo nengqikelelo ye-self-concept, kunye nokuphendula kwendalo esingqongileyo kuye. Xa umntu eziva elahliwe, banokuphuhlisa iimvakalelo zokungazithembi, ukungoneliseki kunye noxinzelelo, olubabeka umda kwimpilo yabo.
Ukusilela kolu luvo kungakhokelela kukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo ezinje nge: anorexia, bulimia, uhlaselo loxinzelelo kunye neengqondo ezahlukeneyo.
Usapho: Yintliziyo yophuhliso lwethu, liqela labantu esidityaniswe kubo ngokudibana kunye nohlobo lwegazi, ke ngoko, ayisiyiwo amava kuphela ayinto yomanyano, kodwa nemeko yemfuza iyamisela kule nkangeleko. Isidingo sokuba yinxalenye yaso amaxesha amaninzi sinxulunyaniswa nomnqweno wokuba lilungu.
Izihlobo: Ubuhlobo busidibanisa nabantu esingenabo ubudlelwane bezofuzo nabo, kodwa kunoko sinxulunyaniswa nabo kukunxibelelana kobuqu. Sakha ubudlelwane kunye novelwano naba bantu, kwaye baba zizinto zokuthembela kunye nenkxaso.
U kwamkelwa: Inika elinye inyathelo kwimfuno yokwamkelwa. Umnqweno wokwamkelwa awonelisekanga koku, uyaqhubeka, ufuna ukunconywa kunye noxabiso lokufaneleka kwinxalenye yeqela labo lentlalontle.
Ukulinganiswa kwesidingo sentlalo
Kubaluleke kangakanani ukukhula komntu kwindawo ethile yentlalo? Ukuba yisayensi yobuntu, kunzima ukuseka indlela echanekileyo yokumisela esivumela ukuba sifumane ulwazi kwinqanaba leemfuno ezimelwe zezi zinto zonxibelelwano. Ngenxa yoku, sisebenze ngokusebenzisa izikhombisi zentlalo, ekujongwe ukuba zitshintshe iikhonsepthi ngenyathelo elinye nangaphezulu, ngaloo ndlela sinika inkcazo yokusebenza ngakumbi; Kungenxa yoko le nto ezi zikhombisi zingumlinganiso othe ngqo wentlalontle oququzelela ukusekwa kwezigwebo malunga nemiba ephambili yoluntu kunye nendlela yokuphila yabantu, ngomlinganiso okanye inkcazo yeempawu zemeko, unxibelelwano kunye notshintsho. Ezi zikhombisi zeemfuno zentlalo ziziindidi ezimbini:
- Iimpawu zangaphandle: Zizo ezo mpawu zinokuchongwa ngokujonga imeko yangaphandle yokuziphatha. Ukwenza umlinganiso weemeko kunye neziganeko ezinokuqinisekiswa ngobungqina. Ngokusisiseko isekwe ekudalweni kweekhonsepthi esekwe kwiinyani eziqinisekisiweyo.
- Izikhombisi ngokusekwe kumbono wangaphakathi: Baqwalasele izimvo zabantu, amabali okanye iinkcazo kwiiparameter zabo zemilinganiselo, bangenelela esidlangalaleni umbono wabo womsitho, onokuthi ungavumelani nenyani. Izazinzulu ezininzi zikholelwa ekubeni, ukuze kufikelelwe kwisigqibo esinyanisekileyo, esekwe ekuthobeleni, kufuneka ubonane nemithombo eyahlukeneyo, ungabandakanyi ubungqina obukude nembono (hayi ngaphandle kokuvavanywa kuqala kweemeko eziphakamise loo mbono umgama ukusuka kumndilili) .
Okwangoku, uninzi lwezifundo ngalo mbandela ziyavuma ukuba zombini ezi zikhombisi ziyahambelana kwaye zibalulekile, kuba zisabela kubuninzi beemeko zentlalo.