Ungazilibazisa njani kwimveliso?

Namhlanje ndingathanda ukwabelana nawe ngomzekelo obonisa ukubaluleka kwentsingiselo esincamathisela kwimeko, ngaphandle kokuthintela umda ngamanye amagama okanye iinkcazo. Ingqondo yethu inamandla kangangokuba kuxhomekeke kwikona esigqibe kuyo ukucinga ngemeko ethile, ifuthe leemvakalelo kumava ethu zinokwahluka phantse ngokugabadeleyo ukuya kwelinye. Kwaye njengoko sisazi, iimvakalelo zethu ubukhulu becala zimisela indlela esiziphatha ngayo.

Namhlanje, into exatyisiweyo kukusebenza okuphezulu kunye nemveliso ephunyezwe kumaxesha erekhodi. Akukho bulumko bokwenza ibhabhathane ngaphandle kwefestile. Sifuna amanyathelo akhawulezileyo kunye neziphumo. Ukuzibekel 'amangomso izinto, okt isenzo sokuzibekela amangomso imisebenzi, kulindelwe ukuba kujongwe ngeliso elibi, ngabantu abangamavila ... kwaye nanjengokungaziphathi kakuhle! Kodwa kufuneka uzibuze oku kulandelayo: Ngaba kukuzibekel 'amangomso ngokwako okubangela ukungathandeki okanye intsingiselo esikunika yona? Kuba into eyenzekayo kukuba kumaxa amaninzi, siziva sinetyala lokuzibekel 'amangomso izinto size ekugqibeleni sikhubazeke kolo xinzelelo, singene kwiingcinga ezingalunganga kwaye singakwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Kwaye kulapho singena kumjikelo wobundlobongela ongasebenzi kakuhle kwaye simi ndawonye.

Ke ngoko, umbono ongqongqo kunye nokuzohlwaya unokuba yingozi kumfanekiso wethu kwaye uphele usityhafisa kwaye usidandathekise. Endaweni yoko, uphando lwakutsha nje lubonakalisile ukuba xa intetho yethu yokuzixolela ixolela ngakumbi, ngokumangalisayo siziva sinegunya ngakumbi kwaye ke sivelisa ngakumbi. Ewe kunjalo. Yintoni ekhuthaza kakhulu? Kukutyumze ngazo zonke izinto kufuneke u uyenza kwaye yintoni ongayenziyo, kwaye ikukhumbuze ukuba awusebenzi, awunamsebenzi kwaye uhlazekile? Okanye ukuxelele ukuba mhlawumbi ingqondo yakho kunye / okanye umzimba wakho ufuna ukukuxelela into enjalo ufuna ikhefu umzekelo? Kutheni le nto ukukhathalela isiqu sakho kungabonwa njengesinyanzelo nesisemthethweni? Ngamaxesha amaGrike, izithandi zobulumko zazikuhlonela ukubekel 'amangomso izinto. Le yindlela eza nezimvo ezinkulu. Ukongeza, ukuzibekel 'amangomso akusincedi nje ekuthatheni izigqibo ezingcono kodwa kukwasivulela indawo yokuba sibe nobuchule ngakumbi.. Impembelelo ayizi xa sisoloko siphazamiseka, kodwa xa singenzi nto kwaye sinokunxibelelana neziqu zethu. Ngapha koko, amagcisa aphumeleleyo aqhele ukudala ubugcisa bawo ngexesha lokudodobala.

Ke ngoko, ngokuchasene nenkolelo edumileyo, isenzo sokuzibekel 'amangomso, ukuba senziwe ngobuchule, sinokufumana izibonelelo ezimangalisayo. Isitshixo kukuzibekel 'amangomso ngendlela eyakhiwe ngayo.

Zidweliswe apha ngezantsi Amathuba asi-8 okusilibazisa asinika wona:

1. Yiya kwindawo yokwenza umthambo. Ungaze ube nexesha lokuzilolonga? Eli lithuba elifanelekileyo. Kananjalo ungazikhohlisi ngokucinga ukuba uzinika ubunewunewu, endaweni yoko, iphambili. Nokuba sisiqingatha seyure, uyakuziva unamandla, uxinezelekile kwaye uxinzelelo lwakho luya kuphucuka kamva.

2. Coca ucoce igumbi lakho. Ukungqubana kwamehlo akho akubonisi ukubonakala nje kwentloko yakho kodwa kunokuyondla. Ukuba ufuna ukucinga ngokucacileyo, ukuqala ngaphandle ayisiyonto imbi.

3. Lungelelana. Thatha ithuba lokuqhuba imisebenzi, uhlele iifolda zakho, uhlawule amatyala akho, njl. Kwakhona, inyani yokubhala kunye nokukhutshelwa ngaphandle ephepheni yonke into ekufuneka uyenzile inceda kakhulu ukuyeka ukucinga izihlandlo eziliwaka entlokweni yakho kwaye kuya kunciphisa imvakalelo yokunqongophala kolawulo.

4. Lungisa isidlo sasemini sangempela okanye isidlo sangokuhlwa. Izifundo ziya zibonisa ukuba into esiyityayo ayinampembelelo nje kwimpilo yethu kodwa nakwimpilo yethu yengqondo. Abanye bade bathi siyiloo nto siyityayo. Ukuba ubusoloko utya kakubi okwethutyana, eli lithuba lokunyamekela impilo yakho.

5. Funda iphephandaba kwaye ufumane oko kwenzekayo emhlabeni, okanye funda inqaku ngesihloko onomdla kuso. Ayisoze ibe yinkcitha xesha ukulima.

6. Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo loku bhala, fowuna, okanye "skype" nosapho okanye nabahlobo unento engakhathalelwanga mva nje. Nangona kungabonakala kungxamisekile, ukugcina kunye nokugcina ubudlelwane obuhle kubaluleke kakhulu kubomi bethu. Elona xesha lonwabisayo esilikhumbulayo ebomini bethu lihlala, kuninzi lweziganeko, amaxesha okwabelwana ngawo nabanye ababalulekileyo.

7. Kwaye ukuba unako hlala nabo, lisebenzise eli thuba. Asiyi kuhlala sinakho ukukwazi ukwenza njalo.

8. Bukela imovie, uxwebhu olubhaliweyo, okanye ividiyo enxulumene noko ukulibazisa.

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