Ngaba uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani yabelana ngeengcinga zakho, izimvo, izimvo ... nabanye? Yindlela yokubonisa, yokunxibelelana ngandlela thile nehlabathi. Yile nto indivumela ngayo le Bhlog. Luhlobo lwefestile ekhoyo engqondweni yam. Ifestile enezimvo ngaphandle, kwihlabathi elikhulu kwi-Intanethi eligcwele amathuba.
Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze ibhlog yakho ngesihloko osifunayo. Ingaba yidayari nje, nantoni na oyifunayo ... inokujikwa ibe lishishini.
Ukuba awunabuganga kuba ungalunganga kakhulu kwikhompyuter, ungakhathazeki. Ungasebenzisa indlela esetyenzisiweyo kwiminyaka eliwaka: incwadana yokubhala, incwadana yokubhala, amanye amaphepha. Nantoni na ebonisa iingcinga zakho kwaye ibeka ingqondo yakho ngokulandelelana.
Ukubeka oko sicinga ngokubhala kuluncedo kakhulu kuba kusenza sikwazi ukubona izinto ngokwahlukileyo, ngokucacileyo. Iingxaki ziyacaciswa kwaye nengqondo yakho ayithwelekanga.
Ngaba ufuna ukuba izimvo zakho, iingcinga okanye amabali akho aziwe?
Ungabhala ijenali ejika ibe yincwadi encinci. Ungayithumela. Kule mihla kulula kakhulu ukuba nencwadi eprintiweyo.
Kufuneka kuphela bhala ngomdla, vula intliziyo yakho nengqondo, ulahlekelwe kukoyika iphepha elingenanto. Ngokuziqhelanisa nendlela ofunda ngayo (akukho mntu uzalwa efunda). Sonke sinamandla okuba ngababhali ababalaseleyo emhlabeni. Ngumcimbi wokuziqhelanisa nokufunda.
Ukuba unobuganga bokwenza ibhlog yakho, thembela kuncedo lwam. Kunyaka odlulileyo ndandingayazi indlela yokuvula ikhompyuter kwaye ngoku ndiziphatha ngendlela emangalisayo kule ndlela. Ndifumene umdlalo wokuzonwabisa omkhulu kwaye ndiyazinika ngothando. Ayithathi mizamo.
Ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba wabelane ngesiqwenga sakho.
Ngaba ulithandile eli nqaku? Ukuba impendulo yakho ithi ewe, unganqakraza kwiqhosha "Like" apha ngezantsi kwaye uya kundonwabisa happy
Ngubani onokuthi uthando nengcinga aziqondwa kodwa bahlala kunye ukufumana ubungangamsha apho kukho ukuthantamisa okwenza uninzi lwethu loyike kwaye sikubiza ngokuba yicorny ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba kubantwana bethu siyiphila ngaphandle kokuyibiza ngegama kodwa kulapho gcina elona xesha lokuphila.
qhubeka uphila emaphupheni athatha ixesha elide ukulala kwaye uqale ukuphupha ukuba xa uvuka kwinyani yakho ndiyakucela kuphela ukuba ungaphindi ubuze kwakhona ukuba wabelane ngokungaqiniseki kwakho kuba andifuni kuphupha kwakhona kuba ngoku ndifunda ukuhamba njengenye elungileyo inyani. jonga isandys joplin
ukukhala akunamsebenzi ungaphupha kodwa kufuneka uphile intliziyo yam iyakukhumbula ukubetha kwentliziyo yam kumnyama ngaphandle kwakho ndikujongile ubambe isandla sela silhouette egqibeleleyo nolo ncumo lumnandi kodwa inyani yenye yokulayisha ngeegazethi ngokungathi ngumntu khange balindele ukuba kunjalo Mhlawumbi bacinga ukuba ndinje kwaye besiva izikhalazo ezivela kubo, bebengalindelanga ukuba ndohluke, ndingabi ngumntu oqhelekileyo, bakholelwa kum ngokungaqhelekanga, kodwa inyani yenye, ezo mpawu iingalo aziluthando, zingcinezelo kodwa ukuba ukhona, uyandihlaziya, uyaphupha ukuba ndicinga ukuba ndiyaphila kodwa ukuba uyahamba andizokwazi ukukugona iinyembezi zam awusayi kuphinda womile ndiziva ndikude utshintshile njengabo ngoku undijonga ukude undijonga ukude kwakhona intliziyo yam ibiva nje ukubetha okubandayo bandikhomba ngomnwe kundenza ndilahlekelwe yingqondo ndiziva ndindedwa.
Kufuneke ndibhale…
Ndidinga ukuhlela ingqondo yam, ndingenza njani?
Molo, ndincoma ukuba uqale ngokubhala simahla, bhala yonke into esezingqondweni zakho, yonke into oyivayo ngaphandle kwesihluzo, iodolo okanye ulwakhiwo, emva koko uzame ukuqonda ulwazi kancinci kancinci kwaye uqale ukulwakha, ngolu hlobo lincinci izimvo ezincinci ziya kuhamba ngakumbi
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Namhlanje 18/07/15 ngo-00: 24. Ndiza kuqala ukubhala usuku lwam nosuku ukuba ndiza kufa ngomso kwaye mhlawumbi andenzanga nto ukushiya, kodwa ngaphandle kwayo yonke into eyenzekileyo ndime apha ndihlala, ndichasana nokulunga okuzayo, ndinethemba lobomi isandla esinye, ndonwabile ebomini kuba ndinentombi entle nentle kangaka esecaleni kwam, esisesinye sezizathu ezimbalwa zokuqhubeka silwa kwinto ebizwa ngokuba bubomi kwaye lowo engazi ukuba uyadlula kwiintsuku engazi. Ndicinga ukonwabela i-concho kunye nokuba nazo zonke izinto ezisehlabathini ukuba ndimnike kwaye angaze aswele nto, kwa ezo zinto zingenzeki.
Kunzima ukuphila ubomi, kukho izinto athi ngamanye amaxesha azifumane okanye azikholelwe ukuba zikunika ulonwabo, nokuba kukuphila kakuhle kwezoqoqosho, kodwa akunjalo. Ubuhle bobomi, into enomdla ngayo, usazi ukuba yonke into onayo ixabisa umzekelo omninzi: unomsebenzi, ufumana i-lucas elungileyo kodwa kufanelekile ukuba ube kude nosapho lwakho kwaye elo xabiso lale nto uyirholayo ayixabisekanga. yiyo.
Inye okanye mna, kwelam icala, ndizama ukunika konke okusemandleni am okanye ukuba ndinganceda umntu endimncedayo nokuba ndiyasilela kodwa ukuba ndibona umntu ongonwabanga kuhlala kulungile ukuboleka isandla andisoze ndiphike into nakubani na, nokuba loo mntu undiphatha okwe shit, ubomi bufutshane uVenancio njengoko uTito Fernandez esitsho, ubomi bufakwe njengenhlanhla, ngolunye usuku singaphinde sibe ngolunye usuku phantsi, nkqu nokuwa okunamandla kunye elula nge wNgesizathu esikhulu sokuphulukana nayo yonke into, kukho into endikufumanisa kunzima ukuyiqonda, abantu bayatshintsha ngemali, hayi ngendlela yokucinga, ukuba akunjalo ngendlela yokwenza bengazi, omnye wenza izinto ezenzayo ayihambelani. Njengotata wayenokuninzi kodwa ubomi bakhe bohemian kunye nabahlobo, ekholelwa ukuba ngenye imini bonke abantu ababemi ecaleni kwakhe xa enemali baya kuhlala bekhona. Yeyiphi ekuhambeni kwexesha waqonda ukuba khange kuhlwe xa sele siphulukene nendlu kwaye wonke umntu weza. Kodwa kukho into enomdla ngobomi ukuqala kwakhona ngexesha elincinci kodwa uzame ukuba kule meko bendinayo.
Omnye njengomntu unamaxesha amnandi namaxesha amabi.Ngamanye amaxesha amaxesha xa umntu esemaphethelweni ahlala ikhulu leminyaka, abanye bahlala emaphethelweni. ndicinga ngendlela oza kusizisa ngayo isonka yonke imihla ekhayeni lakho. "Ubomi bufutshane," buxhamle ngeli lixa unomnqweno kunye nempilo.
Ndicinga ngabo bonke abantu ebendinabo ecaleni kwam kubahlobo bam ebuntwaneni bendisoloko ndicinga ukuba ulutsha luya kuhlala ngonaphakade, kunye neqela lam elincinci legaraji, ndikholelwa ekubeni ndingangumculi ndicacisa ukonwaba ngexesha lam, nangona isibini zabantu babehlala besimamela kodwa sibalulekile kubo. Emva kwalomzuzu, ndihlala ndisebenza kwimisebenzi ethile, ndingaze ndigxothwe kwaye ndizama ukungalandeli inkqubo yomntu wonke, ndicinga ukuba sonke sinenjongo kweli hlabathi, mhlawumbi ubomi bam abunasikhombisi kwaye bungomnye kuninzi, kodwa ndiza kuzama Nceda Ngubani onokuthi kwaye yintsingiselo ayinikayo ebomini bam, esazi ukuba ndinento kwaye omnye umntu akhonza ngaphezulu kwam ukuyithatha okanye ukuyithatha kum, andizukuyikhathaza loo nto ukuba iyayazi indlela yokuyixabisa. ngaphezulu kwam. Ukuba umntu unika into, yenzelwe ukuba basebenzise yona ngaphezulu kwesinye. Mhlawumbi ndingumntu ophambeneyo othetha ububhanxa, kodwa umntu ophambeneyo uhlala onwabile kunomntu oxhalabileyo ngayo yonke into, ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ndingacingi ukuba ndingonwaba.
Ndineembopheleleko kwaye ndonwabile ukuzithatha, isenzo ngasinye sinesiphumo saso, mhlawumbi zizinto ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi, isenzo ngasinye okanye isenzo esenziwa yinto ethile. Ukuba mhlawumbi ndinxilile, kungenxa yento okanye umntu othile, akukho nto ilula. Abantu bacinga kakubi ngamanye amaxesha ayenziwa kuba befuna ukuyenza kodwa bubomi obuyenzileyo, benomsindo okrakra okanye ukhathazekile kwaye bayoyika into abafuna ukuyenza kwixa elizayo, ikamva elingakhuselekanga njengekamva labo ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba ingomso liza. Mhlawumbi kuvakala ngathi kukuzingca kodwa ndiyazi ukuba ndiza kufa kwaye andazi ukuba ukungaqiniseki kokwazi ukuba kuza emva kobu bomi kuza kufika nini emva kobu bomi. Ewe, akukho mntu waziyo ukuba yintoni elandelayo eza kulishiya ilizwe. Mhlawumbi omnye umntu okanye akukho mntu waziyo, abantu abaseleyo kweli hlabathi belilela ukuhamba kwakho kodwa abaya kuba ngabakho kamva.
Kodwa kuya kufuneka uqhubeke nokuphila okomzuzwana kweli hlabathi kwaye usazi ukuba kamva, umzuzu ngamnye uya kuba yimemori. Ndifuna ukuqonda izinto ezingachazekiyo.
Ngoku inye kuphela into endiyaziyo kukuba ndisela into ephilayo okwangoku ndicinga ngekamva endinethemba lokuba liza kuza.
Ndiziva ndindedwa kule ndawo ndikuyo, ndiyazi ukuba ndinentombi entle nentombi endithandayo, ndiyaxolisa, umama onokumnika ubomi bakhe ukuba ndingamcela. Laa mfazi unikela yonke imihla yobomi bakhe kubantwana bakhe, masibe yile nto siyiyo, ukhona ekuxhaseni kwaye enika neengqekembe zakhe zokugqibela ahlala enazo ukuze singasweli nto, umfazi ongenamiqathango nokuba umntu uyinja naye ngaphandle Ukufuna, ndiyathemba ukuba alihlalanga xa eyazi. Izinto zibonisiwe ebomini kwaye oko kundibize ukuba ndimxelele ubuso ukuba laa mfazi ndinaye njengomama ngowona mfazi mhle endadibana naye, ehlala exhasa abanye kwaye echitha ubomi bakhe ekusisebenzeleni ngeyona nto yakhe ibalaseleyo, Usinika yonke into, kwaye andithetheleli izinto.
Ndinqwenela abazali bam abathandekayo amathamsanqa, ndiyazi ukuba bayasokola kakhulu ukufumana izinto zabo ezincinci, mhlawumbi njengam, ukuhlala imihla ngemihla kwaye ke bonwabile.
Bazakuhlala benenkxaso yam engenamiqathango kuyo yonke into endifuna ukubanika yona, bendiya kuswela ubomi ukubabulela, yonke into esidlule kuyo nendlela esiphila ngayo, asingoLucas kodwa uthando lusenza usozigidi. Uthando alulahleki, ulala kuphela ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yeemfuno okanye iingxaki umntu anazo mihla le.
Ewe ubomi bam buhlala buba neengxaki kwelinye icala nangamaxesha okonwaba
Ekuphela kwento endiyicelayo kuThixo kukuba andinike umsebenzi olungileyo ukuze ndikwazi ukufeza zonke iimfuno zabantu bam, andiceli nasiphi na isipho okanye nantoni na ukubuyisela, ndifuna nje ukusebenza kwaye ndikwazi ukufeza Iinjongo abazibeka kum ebomini, baphile kakuhle benendleko zam kunye nezabanye, abaphila ngolonwabo hayi abazizityebi kuphela. kwaye wonwabele lo mzuzu unawo xa udlula kweli hlabathi.
Kulungile ukusukela ngoku le izakuba yidayari yam yobomi.ndizakubhala yonke into eyenzekayo kum ukusukela ngoku.
Nxiba wena namhlanje ibiyimini emnandi ndihoye intombi yam emva kwemini kwindlu yomarike bendidlala ngayo yonke imva kwemini ndide ndingakwazi. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngomsebenzi owenziwa yintombazana yam uMarce yokunyamekela umntwana wethu kakuhle, ngamanye amaxesha akade alale ngenxa yayo. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba wonke utata okanye umama uyayenza loo nto. Iprojekthi yam iphuma ngokuqonda. imibuliso kwaye ulwe nelo themba kunye neenjongo ezizezona zinto zithathwa ngumntu kobu bomi. Kwaye lowo unokunceda umntu osesitalatweni ukuba enze njalo. I-LDGG ithi ndlela ntle
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Ndicinga ngesiqu sam kuphela
kwaye andiqondi ukuba kukho abantu abandijikelezileyo
Kwaye kufuneka ndibayinxalenye yesangqa ukuze ndibabone bethetha nabo ndibamamele kwaye ndibaxelele ukuba ndiyamthanda
ixesha, ndiphila ngokungathi ibilusuku lokugqibela ngokukhawuleza kakhulu kwaye ngaphandle kokucinga kwaye ngoku ndiyazi ukuba kukho ixesha layo yonke into
Ndicinga ukuba ndingavuka kwangoko ndize ndicwangcise ubomi bam ndize ndicwangcise yonke imzuzu yobomi bam kuba ngeli xesha ndisaphilayo ndinexesha lam
Umsebenzi uphakathi, ndiyawufuna ukuze ndifumane imali kwaye ndibenakho ukuwuthenga, nditye, njl
Ndizivalela nasegumbini elingenalo igama ndicinge ukuba kutheni abantu bengezi ukuza kundibona, ewe igumbi alinalo igama yiyo le nto bengandifumani.
Kodwa ukuba ndibona abantu kwaye ndithi jonga apha apha ndihlala ngamanye amaxesha ndiza kujonga phandle ndibambe isandla ndibulise, banjani okanye mhlawumbi lusuku oluhle
kwaye ndiyazi ukuba yinxalenye yokuzingca kwam, ndiyazi ukuba le ndiyibhalayo ayinangqondo
Iya kuba kungenxa yokuba andizilungiseleli ukukwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye okanye kukuba kunzima kum ukwenza njalo
Ndicinga ukuba ndiphosakele ngento ethile kodwa andifuni ukuyamkela ndinobunzima bokuvula amehlo am
Kwaye ubone ukuba mhlawumbi bakhona abantu abanomdla, kodwa kuyo yonke ingqumbo yam ayindivumeli ndibone
ukuba bakhona abantu abandithandayo
Ndicinga ukuba ndilikhoboka lokubandezeleka ukuba ndililolo ukuba ndoyikiswa imihla ngemihla ngale nto
xa ndivula intliziyo yam kuye kwakho ukuvutha kwaye ndiyivale kwakhona
Ndacinga ukuba ndizakuyishiya ivulekile kancinci ukuba bayandibetha ndizokuqhela ukufumana ii-hits, kodwa bendihleli ndiva ukuba into engakutshabalalisiyo
Iyomeleza iya kuba yinyani, iyandoyikisa kodwa njengoko ndihlala ndiyimamela ndiza kuyiphatha kancinci kancinci ukuba ndinokubandezeleka ngakumbi ngawo wonke umonakalo endizenzileyo
Ngokuzivalela kwihlabathi elingenamagama apho kuhlala khona abantu abazingcayo abakufumanisa kunzima ukupha okanye boyika ukwamkela
Andazi ukuba ndenzeni kwakhona ndiziva ndoyisiwe
Ndikufumanisa kunzima ukuva ukubandezeleka kwam kwisizungu esindikhaphe kakuhle okanye kakubi bonke ubomi bam obubi endibenzayo ndibenze ngamehlo
Abahlobo andinabo ndicinga ukuba andibamkeli njengokuba babenjalo andizange ndibanike thuba lokuziqhelanisa nam ndibalahlile nje indlela yokulahla ubomi obonwabisayo ukuba izakhiwo nezothe
Ndiyazi ukuba kukho abantu abangalunganga kodwa kukwakho nabantu abalungileyo abazama ukusinika kwaye kukwakho nabantu abanjengam abavalelwe kwihlabathi apho singenakuzijonga, ilizwe elingaboniyo apho kungekho nto ikhoyo
Ndedwa kwaye ndinxunguphele kwaye ndisoyika ewe ndisoyika kakhulu kwaye ndijongane nam kwaye ndanele ngokwaneleyo ndilwe bonke ubomi bam obubi kwaye andiphumelelanga nto
Ndibona ubuso obonwabileyo noncumo kwaye ndiziva ndilungile kwaye kulapho ke ndiye ndayiqonda yonke into endiyiphosileyo kunye nexesha lonke endilahlekelwe lulo ngenxa yokuzingca kwam nomona wam.
Xa ndibona abantu ukuba bancuma njani kwaye baphila njani ubomi babo, ndiyazi ukuba ngokwam ndineziphene ezininzi, kodwa iimpawu ezizizo, andizazi ukuba zintoni, kuba andazi ukuba zeziphi iimpawu okanye iimpawu
Khange ndifunde ukuphila ndibenze baphile kuphela ngeempawu zam ezintle kwaye ndilahle iziphene zam ukuba nanamhlanje andizazi ukuba ziyintoni kodwa ndiyazichaza yinto enje ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo ewe
Ngapha koko, kodwa ubuhle ukuba xa uve bhetele yinto eyinyani okanye elungileyo endicinga ngayo, jonga ukuba ndisisidenge ngokungaboni okuhle nokungahoyi okubi
Ndiyacula ndinganikezela ukulungisa into endiyonakalisileyo kodwa namhlanje ndiyazi ukuba akukho zixhobo okanye ixesha lokwenza oko
inyathelo lishiyekile, okwangoku kulapho ndikhoyo ngoku, ikamva alikho kum, ukuphupha kubi kwaye ucingo alulunganga, ukuhlala kweli xesha langoku kunzima kodwa ukuhlala ngesibindi esikhulu kwaye nentliziyo kunokuba yinto eyoyikekayo
Andinazo iinkumbulo ezintle zexesha lam elidlulileyo, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba andijonganga kwinto endandiyenza okanye mhlawumbi andijonganga ubomi kwicala elilungileyo kwaye ndingavumeli ezimbi zinditshabalalise, ezilungileyo nezimbi, iziphene kunye nokuziphatha okuhle
ukuthanda nokuzonda ubusuku nemini kuyakuhlala kukho into ejongene nayo, enye indlela yokubuya kunye nendlela enye ebuyela umva, ndicinga ukuba ndiyibuyile le bendisoloko ndibuyela kubamelwane bam imihla ngemihla
Kuba ayikhange ibekho kum into yokuba ikhuphe indlela eya ngaphandle inokuba yinto eyoyikekayo, kodwa lo mgca wahlulahlula indlela yokuphuma kunye nomva mkhulu kakhulu andikufumani ukuphuma kunye nokuphuma
Ukuba ubuncinci bendinike ixesha elincinci lokucinga ukuba yeyiphi emandiyithathe kodwa ndiwela kwakwimeko yam yangaphambili kwaye andisakwazi ukuyilungisa
Kuya kubakho umnyango ovulekileyo uye kwelinye icala, ndicinga ukuba ndiyaphupha kwaye kufana nokubuyela kwakudala ngale ndlela ndiya kuhlala ndibuyela kwakule ndawo inye
Ndihlala ndicinga ngokufanayo, ndisafana, andifumani ndlela yokuphuma nayo yonke into ethatha indlela engeyiyo
Andazi nokuba ndibhala ntoni ndicinga ukuba ayinangqondo, ndicinga ukuba obu bubomi ngaphandle kwengqiqo
Ngaphandle kwenjongo indenza ndihleke kodwa ukuyibona ngoluhlobo ndikwindlela eyahlukileyo kwaye apho indikhokelela khona, akukho ndawo apho ndisahleli khona endaweni enye, yeyiphi indawo, yeyiphi le nto
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Ungaze unikezele, sukugweba, ungangcatshi, ungaxoki ... musa ukwenza nantoni na ukuziphindezela, nokuba bathi ukuziphindezela kumnandi, uzenzakalisa.
Ngokukhupha yonke intiyo emntwini, sizifumana sisengozini, sibuthathaka, senzakaliswa ngumntu okanye yinto ethile.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ubonakalisa uncumo, oluthi kwabanye uncumo olonwabisayo, kodwa enyanisweni luluvo olusisilumko olusenza sibone umntu esinguye ngenene, sihlala kufuneka sizazi thina, esoyika ukugwetywa, nokoyika ukwaliwa "ngabahlobo" bethu, okanye ngokufuna ukutshintsha.
Sonke senza izinto esizisolayo ngazo kamva, kodwa ekuweni ngakunye, kwinzame nganye engaphumelelanga, siyafunda kwaye oko kusenza ukuba sibuthathaka ngakumbi, sicingisise ngakumbi kwaye siyile ngakumbi xa sithetha nomntu,
Ungaze umfulathele umntu okunike yena okanye okukhathazileyo, kuba uphinda impazamo enye yaloo mntu.
Ukuba wakhe wangcungcuthekisa, ungaze uyenze nakubani na, khumbula indlela oziva ngayo kunye nendlela anokuziva ngayo loo mntu xa edlula kuyo.
Yonwabele, ungaze uyincame nayiphi na into engekhoyo, ubomi bunye kwaye awunakuba lulwandle lweenyembezi ngonaphakade.
Yiba nguwe, ungaze utshintshe kuba umntu uyakuthanda, ukuba uziva ulungile ecaleni kwakho, mayibe ngenxa yakho hayi ngenxa yento ocinga ukuba uyiyo.
Musa ukoyika ukubonisa isimilo sakho, sonke sinjalo.
Gcina, wonwabe, wonwabe, ungazivaleli egumbini lakho, khululeka, omnye akazi ukuba uyakuhlala elungile na,
Yonwabela ngelixa unako, kuba emva kokuba umdala uya kuthi:
Ingqondo ".
Yonwaba nabantu onabo ngeenxa zonke kuwe, nosapho lwakho, isilwanyana sasekhaya, kunye nento osondeleyo kuyo.
Chitha imali yakho nakweyiphi na into ekwenza ukuba wonwabe.
Fezekisa amaphupha akho, emva koko kuya kubakho ixesha lokusebenza.
Zama izinto ezintsha.
Ndwendwela iindawo ozithandayo.
Ungaze ulibale ukonwaba.
Ukuba uyalila, makube luvuyo okanye kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya ebuhlungu.
Hleka de ungayeki, wonwabe.
Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo: zithembele, ungavumeli mntu akonakalise, kuba ekuphela kwento enokutshatyalaliswa zizinto eziphathekayo.
Ekugqibeleni ayisiyonto ikukhathaza, ukuba ayingomonakalo owubonayo, isuka ebantwini yenze iimpazamo nakubantu abakrelekrele bafunde kubo ukuba babengcono kunokuba besinako.
Ngamanye amaxesha ubomi buyakubetha kakhulu, kodwa kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ungachacha njani ngentiyo okanye ngothando, zombini ziyakhonza kodwa enye ayikuvumeli ukuba uqhubele phambili kwaye enye ikunika ithemba kwakhona.
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Ngawo onke amaxesha anzima kufuneka sidimazeke kwaye sizive sibi, akukho nto ikhe yanzima ngokwaneleyo ukusenza sigxadazele, kodwa njengayo yonke into ebomini, izinto zihlala zithatha amathuba angalindelekanga ngesiquphe nangendlela ebuhlungu ngamanye amaxesha, Usenokuziva ulusizi kwaye uneenyembezi, nangona kunjalo, sinokuba lusizi kangakanani ngaphambi kokuba siphakamise iintloko zethu silwe.
Yonke imihla abantu abaninzi bayafa kwaye uninzi lwabantu luzelwe ukugcina ulungelelwaniso emhlabeni, uninzi lwethu luzalwa ngokutsha kwaye lubangcono ngokubethwa, ukuwa kunye novavanyo olukhokelela kwintlekele ebomini bethu, kodwa ngaba ezi mvavanyo azinakwenzeka ukuba zithwalwe? Andicingi njalo, mhlawumbi bakuxokisile besithi yonke into inesisombululo esikhawulezileyo kwaye ubuncinci bomzamo, nangona kunjalo, akukho nto iqhubekayo kwinyani, abantu bakholelwa ukuba asisoyisi, ukuba ngokukhawuleza kweminwe yethu ubomi buza kunika ithuba elingama-360º, hayi kwaye ndiyaxolisa ngokukuphoxa, ukuze sifumane into njengembuyekezo kufuneka senze utshintsho, sizincame kwaye sinikele ngendawo yethu, nokuba incinci kangakanani. Ngawo wonke umzuzu wobomi bethu kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba asisodwa, ukuba yonke imihla indalo iyabutshintsha ubukho bethu kwaye iyasivumela ukuba siziqinisekise, ukuba ilanga likhanya rhoqo kusasa kwaye lisikhumbuza ukuba sinethamsanqa lokuba sibekho kwaye siphila kunye nezinye iintlobo kunye neenkqubo.
Xa sikhula sixelelwa ukuba kufanele sikholelwe, kodwa into ekufuneka siyikholelwe ngokuchanekileyo, into enjalo ihlala ibekwa ezingqondweni zethu ukuba nabani na ongakholelwayo uyafa yedwa kwaye akazuxolelwa, mandikuxelele into ebendiphawule ; Akunakuze kubekho iimvavanyo ongenakoyisa kuzo kwaye ongenakuphuma kuzo, uya kuhlala unokhetho, unokuhlala uxola, uya kuhlala uxolelwa kwaye uya kusoloko uphilisa, xa ungalindelanga ukuba uza kujika ingqekembe kwaye ufumanise ukuba yonke into inobuso obubini kwaye njengoko kulungile ukucinga ukuba nguwe wedwa ezenzeka kuye izinto, uya kuthi kwakhona uqaphele ukuba awunguye owokugqibela, kwaye awunguye owokuqala kuvavanyo lobomi.
Kunyaka ophelileyo ndafumana iindaba endandingazilindelanga kwaye ndandikhathazwa yinkwenkwe, kodwa ukunqanda ukuwa, kwaye ndonwabele ukubandezeleka kwam, ndakhetha ukuba nethemba kwaye ndingasoli, anditsho ukuba kwakulula, kodwa kungenakwenzeka, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kwaye ngoncedo lwabathandekayo bam ndaqonda ukuba ukugcina ukholo kunye nethemba kunye nokutsala izinto ezintle ebomini bam lelinye lawona mayeza angawona amiselweyo, ukuba nako ukubala izihlobo, usapho kunye nobuthixo yeyona Into enomvuzo ikhona, kuba ngaphandle kokuphila ixesha elinzima kunye nokubandezeleka, andinakuqala nje ukukhala nokuwa, kuye kwafuneka ndiphakame, ndilile ndiqhubeke, ndijongane nomzuzu ngamnye kwaye ndijonge ekujongeni kwakhona onke amaxesha amnandi endingahlala kuwo ngaphambili, kwaye inkwenkwe indenze ndaziva ndibhetele kakhulu kwaye ndikhethekile kwaye hayi kungenxa yokuba umntu othile endiqinisekisile ngayo, hayi, ndaye ndathatha inyathelo ngokwam ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndilwe kwaye ndingazivumeli boyiswe, kwanaxa kwiminyaka eyadlulayo bendifuna ukungabi njalo amatyeli aliqela, kodwa leyo yinto entleukubakho, ukuba ungazisola ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye ungacinga ngenye indlela, iyamangalisa indlela obumangalisa ngayo ubomi bakho yonke imihla kwaye ikwenze uphinde ucinge ukuba ukhona ngesizathu, naxa ungenalo ulwazi lweso sizathu, kodwa ndikholelwe xa Ndiyanitshela ukuba nangona kungenjalo Masiyazi ukuba kutheni uya kuhlala uphilile ukuyazi, ngenye imini, zingisa kwaye unganikezeli, ukuba abukho ubungqina bokuba ngekhe woyise ekuhambeni kwexesha, akukho nto ibhaliweyo, ubomi bakho Uhlala utshintsha yonke imihla kunye nobukho bakho, qiniseka nje ukuba unganikezeli kwaye utsale okuhle ebomini bakho, ukuba ezinye ziya kuza zodwa.
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Ukuphela kobomi kukufa, kodwa umgama phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini yile nto kufuneka uhambe ngayo.
Ukuba ubomi bakho abuyiyo ngendlela obuyifuna ngayo, uya kuba ngexesha lokuyiguqula.
Ukuba ubomi buyakubetha, xhathisa, kuba xa uzama ukuphinda uyenze, iyakufumana yomelele.
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