Ndakha ndafunda ngesifundo somntu owayekhathalelwa ngabantu abadala. Laa mfazi wathi abantu, xa besweleka, babhengeza ukuba banqwenela ukuba nesibindi sokuphila ngendlela abafuna ngayo, hayi njengoko abanye abantu babelindele kubo.
Usenexesha loku phila ubomi obufunayo ngokwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nento ebomini bakho engasebenzi kakuhle. Mhlawumbi lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokwenza utshintsho.
Zibuze lo mbuzo ulandelayo: "Yintoni engalunganga ngobomi bam?"
Inxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho sisiphumo sento ugxile kuyo. Ukuba awuyithandi into, lixesha lokukhetha into eyahlukileyo. Musa ukoyika ukuyeka iindlela zakho ezindala uqale ngokutsha namhlanje. Lithuba elitsha lokwakha kwakhona eyona nto uyifunayo.
Ndikushiya apha 5 imigibe yeemvakalelo:
1) Musa ukuphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela.
Ngokuphuma kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela, uya kufumanisa ukuba yintoni kanye kanye onakho ukuyenza. Imiqobo ikubeka kuvavanyo. Khumbula ukuba abona bantu banamandla ngabo baziva iintlungu, bayamkela kwaye bafunde kuyo. Emanxebeni abo bafumana ubulumko kunye nokukhula komntu.
I vidiyo: "Phuma kwindawo yentuthuzelo"
2) Ukuzisola ngexesha elidlulileyo.
Ungazivumeli ukuba ulawulwe lixesha elidlulileyo. Mhlawumbi ubuya kuyenza ngokwahlukileyo, okanye mhlawumbi hayi. Ngayiphi na imeko awungekhe uguqule elidlulileyo kwakhona gxila ekuphuculeni okwangoku. Xolela abo bantu bakwenzakalisileyo kwaye uzikhulule kwizinto ezingathandekiyo.
3) Yenza izizathu.
Ubuvila bunokubonakala bunomtsalane, kodwa Ukuzinikezela kunye nomsebenzi kukhokelela kulwaneliseko kunye nolonwabo lwexesha elide. Ukuba ufuna ukwenza into ngenene, uyakufumana indlela, kwaye ukuba awufuni nyani, uya kufumana isingxengxezo.
4) Gxila kwinto ongenayo.
Awusoze ube nexesha elaneleyo, izixhobo, okanye imali eyaneleyo. Kungekudala uyakuqonda ukuba Ayisiyiyo le nto uyisweleyo ebalulekayo, kodwa yinto oyenzayo ngento onayo.
Abona bantu bonwabileyo nabaphumeleleyo ayingabo abanethamsanqa kodwa basebenzise ngcono oko banako. Isizathu sokuba abantu abaninzi banikezele kukuba bajolise kwinto abangenayo.
5) Uloyiko lokusilela.
Ukuba woyika kakhulu ukusilela, awusoze ufezekise into exabiseke ngokwenene. Umnqweno wakho phu melela Kuya kufuneka ulwazi uloyiko lwakho lokusilela.
Yamkela into onayo, beka ecaleni uloyiko lwakho kwaye unokholo kwinto onokuyiphumeza. Ngokuqinisekileyo uza kwenza iimpazamo ezininzi kwaye uzive ubuhlungu, kodwa ebomini, iimpazamo zikwenza ukuba ukrelekrele kwaye iintlungu zikwenza womelele.
Okukwintsusa: ungakhathazeki kakhulu malunga neempazamo zakho kuba ezinye zezinto ezintle esizenzayo ebomini zivela kutshintsho esilwenzayo emva kokusilela.
Molo Daniyeli,
Ndiyakuvuyisana neengcebiso zakho ezintle osinike zona, kodwa ungayisebenzisa njani? Sele isaziwa into yokuba ukusuka kuthiwe inyani inde indlela! Iposi elinemibuzo malunga nokubeka izimvo ezinkulu ekuhambeni linokulunga.
Enkosi kakhulu kwakhona!
Molo Daniyeli!
Ndiyithandile iposti yakho. Kwimeko yam kukho into esilelayo kum, kwaye inxulumene nenqwelomoya yokusebenza. Okwangoku andisenzi msebenzi wam kwaye ndiziva ngathi "ndidiniwe" kwaye ndinesithukuthezi, nangona imeko yam yokusebenza ingekho mbi kwaphela ... andoyiki ukutshintsha, okanye ukusilela, okanye ukuzama ukufezekisa into kwakhona, ndikhangele phambili kuyo ... Inye kuphela ingxaki "encinci" kwaye andiyazi into endifuna ukuyenza ...
Molo David, okokuqala, enkosi ngokundibhalela.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kuyo yonke imisebenzi, into yokuba bonke abantu badlula kumzuzu wokuthotywa amandla xa besenza imisebenzi yabo. Nokuba ungathandeka kangakanani umsebenzi wakho, kuye kufike ixesha apho uyeke ukuziva unomdla kunye nomdla osebenza ngawo. Ndikuxelela kuba kwenzeke into efanayo nakum.
Bendisebenza kule bhlog kunye neminye imisebenzi enxulumene nentengiso ekwi-Intanethi iminyaka emi-6. Ekuqaleni, into endandiyiva ngalo msebenzi ngumnqweno ococekileyo. Ndiphakame kwaye into yokuqala endiyenzileyo kukuthatha ikhompyuter kwaye ndiqale ukujonga ukuba zingaphi iindwendwe endandinazo kwibhlog ngalo mzuzu. Ndisenza nangoku kodwa hayi ngenkuthazo efanayo njengangaphambili.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukufumana imiceli mngeni emitsha okanye inkuthazo emsebenzini wakho. Kukukhangela okuqhubekayo ukuzama ukufumana into ekukhuthazayo. Ngaba unabo usebenza nabo ecaleni kwakho? Kutheni ungancokoli nabo kwaye uzame ukonwaba ngelixa usebenza?
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