Yintoni ukwazi, ukuyinyusa kwaye ziziphi izibonelelo zayo?

"Ukukruquka kuyanyangeka ngokufuna ukwazi. Ukufuna ukwazi akuyi kunyanga nantoni na. " UDorothy Parker

Ukufuna ukwazi yimfuno yolwazi, inento yokwenza noseto lweemvakalelo, iimvakalelo kunye nezizathu, ezinxulumene nokuchongwa kunye nokukhangela amava amatshas. Ngokufuna ukwazi, amava amava amatsha abangela umngeni ayakhuthazwa.

Ukuthanda ukwazi kumalunga neendlela eziqhelekileyo, ukufuna ukwazi kukarhulumente kuhambelana nomzuzu othile kwangoko.

Ku uphando weYunivesithi yaseGeorge Mason, eqhutywa nguT Todd Kashdan kunye nabasebenzisana naye, abathathi-nxaxheba abangama-90 (amadoda angama-45 kunye nabasetyhini abangama-45) babuzwa ukuba bayavumelana na namabinzana anje ngala "Ukuba nomdla wento ethile, akukho nzima ukuba ndiphazamise". Ngalesi sifundo, kwagqitywa kwelokuba abantu abanomdla banamanqanaba aphezulu olwaneliseko ebomini babo, ukuze abantu abanamanqanaba aphezulu okufuna ukwazi babonakale befumana injongo ebomini babo kwaye ke begcwele ngakumbi, banxibelelana ngcono nabantu. Ngokwahlukileyo, abo banamanqanaba asezantsi okuthanda ukwazi, bafumana ulwaneliseko kulonwabo lwexeshana ngezinto abazenzileyo.

Abantu abanomdla bahlala bejikelezwe yimisebenzi emitsha kunye nenkuthazo, ekuthi bavuzwe kuyo ixesha elide, njenge bahlala bemangalisiwe yinto entsha kwaye oku kubangela ukwaneliseka okukhulu.

Ukuthanda ukwazi kuyaziwa kuchaphazela nempilo. Ngo-1996, a kufunda kwijenali Psychology kunye nokuguga, apho ngaphezulu kwe-1,000 yabantu abadala abathathe inxaxheba, ababengaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu yokujonga, Kwafunyaniswa ukuba abona bantu banomdla kakhulu babenobude obuphakathi bexesha lokuphila, aba bantu babedla ngokuphila ixesha elide kunabantu abangenalo ulwazi.

Kwintsimi yobudlelwane boluntu, abantu abanamanqanaba aphezulu okufuna ukwazi ngokubanzi banempumelelo enkulu, kuba babonisa umdla omkhulu kunye nokuvuleleka ekudibaneni nabantu abatsha kwaye bayayazi indlela yokugcina lomdla kubantu esele besaziwa abafuna ukuqhubeka nokudibana nabo. Kaninzi. Kulula ukunxibelelana nabantu abanomdla kakhulu, kuba babuza imibuzo kwaye banomdla wokunxibelelana nabanye.

Enye inzuzo yokuba nobuntu obunomdla bubomi obuzeleyo nobonwabisayo, Banandipha amava ngakumbi, banesikhundla esikhulu sokuvula kubo kwaye bahlale bemangalisiwe, kwaye banxibelelana ngcono nabantu kwaye oku kwenza kube lula kubo ukuba babe nolwalamano olusondeleyo kunye nokudibana nabantu abatsha. Konke oku kuqinisa ifuthe lokufuna ukwazi ebomini bethu, kuba likhuthaza ulonwabo.

Ukuthanda ukwazi kunxulumene kakhulu nempumelelo yezifundo, ukuyiqonda njenge ukunxanelwa ukufunda kunye nolwazi olutsha, ukwazi kuyasikhuthaza ukuba sandise inkcubeko yethu Ngokusebenzisa idatha entsha, iyanceda ukwandisa impumelelo kwizifundo.

Abanye abantu bathambekele ekufuneni ukwazi kunabanye bakubonisa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukuthanda ukwazi yinto enokuphuhliswa, oko kukuthi, amandla ethu okufuna ukwazi anokusetyenziswa. Ukwanda komdla kuxhomekeke kwisizathu sethu, Kubalulekile ukuba ujonge ngakumbi kwimixholo evusa umdla wethu kwaye sizikhulise kuyo, ukuze sikwazi ukubhentsisa kwimiceli mngeni emitsha kunye namava asityebisa ngakumbi.

Ukuphucula umdla wethu wokufuna ukwazi, kubalulekile baphulukane noloyiko lokungaqiniseki kunye nolungaziwayo. Kuya kuba bubulumko ukuzama ukufunda ukonwabela ukungaqiniseki, Kubonakala kunzima, kuba ivelisa ngokwethuko ixhala kwaye ukuqiniseka kusenza sizive sinqabisekile kwaye sikhululekile. Singaziqeqesha ukuba siphulukane noloyiko lokungaqiniseki ukuba sihlala sizichanaba kwimisebenzi emitsha enezicelomngeni ezincinci kuthi, keUkuziva simangalisiwe kwaye sonwabile kuya kusenza sizive sinomvuzo kwaye siqonde ukuba akukho nto siyoyika kwindawo engaziwayo.

Akufuneki sivumele ubandlululo lusilinganisele, omnye umsebenzi onomdla wokukhulisa umdla, kukufumana okungaziwayo kwinto eyaziwayo, kuba oku kuyasebenza ukulibala malunga nokulindelweyo, izigwebo, iikhonsepthi kunye nokuqonda kwangaphambili ukuvumela ukuba siphinde simangaliswe.

Khumbula ukuba xa sasingabantwana, indalo yethu isikhuthaza ukuba sibe nomdla, sibuze zonke iintlobo zemibuzo, sifune ukujoja, ukuchukumisa, ukuva nokubona yonke into, besifuna ukuba izivamvo zethu zihlolisise okusingqongileyo, ukunxanelwa kwethu ukufunda kwakungabonakali . Njengokuba sikhula siphulukana nolu thando, kuba siqhele izinto ezininzi ngakumbi, kodwa kuya kuba yinto enomdla ukuba sizama ukuphinda simangaliswe, ngaphandle kokuvumela abantu abadala kunye nobomi obuqhelekileyo busitshabalalise unomdla,