Phambi kokubona la maQhinga ama-7 okomeleza ukuzithemba kwakho, ndiyakumema ukuba ubukele ividiyo efuna ukwazi apho umqeqeshi wokomelela komzimba uthathe isigqibo sokufota umzimba wakhe ukuze abone ukuba oku kungonyusa ukuzithemba kwakhe emva kokugxekwa akufumanayo malunga nokubonakala kwakhe.
Le vidiyo isimema ukuba sizamkele njengoko sinjalo, kunye neziphene zethu. Ndiyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha akukho lula (Amacebo okuQinisa ukuzithemba okulandela ividiyo kuya kukunceda kancinci):
[imephu]Yomeleza ukuzithemba kwethu yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufikelela kwinqanaba eliphezulu lobomi kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu kwaye ufezekise ukuziphucula esikulangazelelayo.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ukuphumelela ebomini bakho kunxulumene ngqo nokuzithemba okusempilweni? Usenokuba uvile iklikhi: "Siyinto esiyityayo." Uninzi luphikisa ukuba "Siyile nto siyicingayo."
UNathaniel Brandon, enye yeengcali zengqondo ezizimeleyo wathi kakuhle: "Akukho xabiso lubaluleke ngakumbi ekugwebeni umntu kunokuba uqikelelo azenzayo ngaye."
Ukuba uyakwazi ukomeleza ukuzithemba kwakho, uya kuba nakho ukumelana noxinzelelo. Uya kuphumelela kwaye awuzukufuna nokuqhayisa ngayo. Ukuzithemba kwakho, nangona kunjalo, kuyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumhla weveki. Luvakalelo lwethutyana. Imeko yendalo esingqongileyo inokudlala indima kwindlela ozibona ngayo.
Iindlela zokuqinisa ukuzithemba kwakho
Makhe sijonge ezinye zeendlela ezisetyenzisiweyo ukubona ukuba zikhona na okanye zonke zikubeke kwindlela yokuphuhlisa okanye yokomeleza ukuzithemba kwakho:
1. Khupha inkunkumaOku kuthetha ukuba nantoni na ethe yathethwa kuwe ikwenzakalisile kwaye engakhiyo kufuneka ithathwe ngengqolowa yetyuwa.
2. Bhala phantsi zonke izinto ezimbi ocinga ngazo ngaweNdimdala kakhulu, ndityebile, akukho mntu undithandayo, andikaze ndonele, njl. Lihleke elaa phepha ulibhalileyo nje emva koko ulikrazule udlulele kwiqhinga elilandelayo.
3. Usenokuba ulivile ibinzana: »Kuzelwe kakuhle ukubulelas ». Bhala phantsi izinto ekufuneka unombulelo kuzo; Ungabandakanya izinto abantu abazithatha kancinci, njengokutya nendawo yokuhlala, ukufikelela kwikhompyuter, njl.
4. Bhala uluhlu lweempawu ezintle kunye neetalente onazo. Cinga. Yenza umgudu. Sonke silungile kwinto ethile. Cinga ngabantu abadlulile ebomini bakho kwaye bathethile into entle kuwe.
5. Yenza uluhlu lwezinto othanda ukuzenzaZama ukufumana ixesha lokuyenza ubuncinci kube kanye ngemini.
6. Bhala izinto ezintathu ungathanda ukuba nesibindi sokwenza.
7. Zijikeleze nabantu abanethemba: Ii-NGOs okanye ezinye iintlobo zokuvolontiya zigcwele ngabantu abathembekileyo. Zijikeleze nabantu abanomdla onjengawe.
Ukuba akukho nanye kwezi zicwangciso zomsebenzi ezihlawulwa ngokuhamba kwexesha, ezinye izinto zinokudlala ezingaphaya kwenqaku.
Ukusebenzisa ezi zicwangciso kuya kwenza kube lula kuwe ukuba uqhubeke nangona ukuhamba kuya kuba nzima. Xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle ebomini kwaye uzive ungalunganga awuzami ukuzama ukuyikhanyela. Kodwa yazi ukuba la maxesha mabi azodlula. Kuya kukunceda uyazi ukuba ukuzola kuza emva kwesiphango.
Ndikushiya nenye yeVIDIYO ezikhuthazayo endizibonileyo ebomini bam:
Ukuzithemba lixabiso umntu azivisa ngalo, esithi ndiyazithanda kwaye ndiyazixabisa ngento endiyiyo, ndiya kuba nesiphene kodwa nditsho nobuhle ukuze uzithande kwaye uzixabise, ungaxhomekeki mntwini, kuphela ngokwakho nakuThixo sonke singabantu abadalwe nguthixo.
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Nibuliso!
Zininzi iindlela zokuphucula ukuzithemba nangona ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sibuyele kwingcali ukuze isincede. Inqaku elilungileyo!
Ukuzithemba kuxhomekeke ikakhulu kwinto abanye abayicingayo ngawe, yiyo loo nto inxulunyaniswa ngokusondeleyo nezinto ezibonisa ukuba ngumntu olungileyo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Ukuba awumhle, mde, ulumkile, unendlu entle, imali ... Njengokuba ukholelwa ukuba kufuneka ube ngumnini wezinto ezininzi nangaphezulu, uya kuya kude ekufumaneni. Ke ndicinga ukuba okokuqala, into efunekayo kukonwaba. Ukonwaba kufezekiswa ngokucinga ukuba ungubani, unantoni na kwaye uyonwabele. Ukusuka apho, andiqondi ukuba ufuna okungakumbi. Kuya kukunceda kakhulu ukuba ungqongwe ngabantu abakuthandayo hayi abanye abayingozi. Yonwabela ukuba unjani kwaye ngaphezulu kwazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo onazo ezikungqongileyo. Bonke abanye baya kuza. Akukho nto imbi inokwenzeka ukuba ilikhulu leminyaka. Ngethamsanqa kuni nonke.
zeziphi iindlela zokwandisa ukuzithemba