Khawufane ucinge ukuba uzivalele kwinqaba kwaye ufuna ukuphuma. Hayi, kungcono, cinga ukuba umntu uzivalele kwinqaba. Ngale mbonakalo ukhuthaza amandla akho okuyila: kuyacaca ukuba siyila ngakumbi xa sisombulula iingxaki zabanye kunokusombulula ezethu.
[Skrolela ezantsi ukuze ubone iVidiyo "Umzekelo weNtengiso yoyilo"]
Utitshala UEvan Polman, ovela kwiYunivesithi yaseNew York kunye noProfesa UKyle emich, osuka kwiDyunivesithi yaseIthaca, wenza isifundo ukuze azi, kancinci, phantsi kwaziphi iimeko ukwanda kokuyila kwethu.
Ukwenza oku, baqhuba isifundo apho bacela khona abafundi abayi-137 baseyunivesithi ukuba basombulule iphazili elandelayo:
«Ibanjwa lalizama ukubaleka kwinqaba. Wafumana intambo kwisisele sakhe, ubude baso sisiqingatha somgama ukufikelela emhlabeni ngokukhuselekileyo. Wayiqhekeza intambo phakathi, wazibopha zombini, wasinda. Wenza njani loo nto? »
[Inokuba nomdla kuwe: Ukusebenza phantsi koxinzelelo akulunganga kuyilo]
Abafundi bahlulahlulwe baba ngamaqela amabini: iqela lokuqala kwafuneka lisombulule iphazili bezicingela ukuba ngabo ngokwabo abasentolongweni. Elinye iqela kwakufuneka lifumane isisombululo ukucinga ukuba ibanjwa ngomnye umntu.
Yeyiphi imbonakalo esebenzayo ngokukuko? Ukusuka kwiqela lokuqala (abo babecinga ukuba libanjwa), ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha (48%) yabathathi-nxaxheba basombulula iphazili. Nangona kunjalo, kwiqela lesibini, phantse isibini kwisithathu (66%) basifumene isisombululo.
UPolman noEmich bafumene iziphumo ezifanayo Kwezinye izifundo ezinxulumene noko:
Kwenye yazo, abathathi-nxaxheba bacelwa ukuba bazobe umfokazi oza kuthi kamva abhale ibali elifutshane.
Kwesinye isifundo, bacele abathathi-nxaxheba ukuba beze nezimvo zesipho sabo, umntu osondeleyo kubo, okanye umntu ababengamazi.
Njengakwiqhina lenqaba, abathathi-nxaxheba bavelise izimvo ezingaphezulu zokuyila kunye nezisombululo ezingcono, xa bejolise komnye umntu kunokuba bajonge bona.
Ezi ziphumo azikho ngenxa "yamandla okuyila yokuzincama", kodwa endaweni yoko yomeleza ithiyori yokuba xa sicinga ngeemeko esizifumana sikuzo, siye sicinge ngendlela ethe kratya kwaye kusibiza ngaphezulu ukuvelisa izimvo ezintsha. Nangona kunjalo, xa sicinga ngeemeko abanye abazifumana bekuzo (ngakumbi iimeko ezingekho kwinyani yethu), sihlala sithanda ukwandisa umbono wethu kunye nokuvelisa izimvo ezingaphezulu (ngakumbi uyilo).
Lisa Bodell, CEO yeNkampani yeFuturethink, yenza imisebenzi "yokuvelisa umbono" elandela le ithiyori yoyilo: Ubuza amaqela osebenza nawo ukuba acinge ngomntu okhuphisana naye okwimeko efanayo naleyo yombutho abasebenza kuwo, (Oko kukuthi, unamandla afanayo, ubuthathaka kunye neemeko zentengiso ezifanayo).
Amaqela emva koko enza uluhlu: kwelinye icala, ngeendlela zonke abanokuthi basebenzise ngazo amathuba okuphucula ishishini kwaye, kwelinye icala, ngazo zonke izoyikiso ezinokunyanzela inkampani ukuba ivale iingcango zayo .
UBodell uyakukholelwa oko Ukukhuthaza olu tshintsho kumbono kuvelisa izimvo ezingcono kunokwenza ngokwesiko.
Umbono kaBodell wokuvelisa "umdlalo" usebenza ngobuchule njengephazili yenqaba: Guqula imeko yokwenyani ibe yinto ebambekayo; ukunceda ingqondo ukuba ivelise izisombululo ezingaphezulu zoyilo.
Ngaba unengxaki yokusombulula kwaye awazi ukuba ungajongana nayo njani? Yandisa imbono yakho ngokucinga ukuba ngomnye umntu onengxaki ... Ungasifumana kwangoko isisombululo kunokuba ubulindele.
(Ukuba usavaleleke kwinqaba kwaye ungazi ukuba liphume njani ibanjwa, nasi isisombululo: Wahlula intambo ngesiqingatha ubude, wabopha iihafu ezibini kunye wabaleka).
Ukuba ulithandile eli nqaku, yabelana ngalo nabahlobo bakho!