Mnye kuphela utata, kodwa ukuzibophelela, uxanduva lokuba ngutata kothando olungenamiqathango lwabantwana oluthetha ukuba ukuzincama kunzima ngakumbi ukulusebenzisa kwaye kumaxesha amaninzi kuyabonakala ngokungabikho kwalo.
Yenzelwe oko Ndifuna ukunikezela le vidiyo yeemvakalelo kubo bonke abo bazali baphuma endleleni yabo yabantwana babo. Ividiyo yenziwe ngamathuba amafutshane apho abazali banomzuzu omnandi wokuphikisana nabantwana babo.
Ndikushiya nale vidiyo intle eqaqambisa umfanekiso katata, ophambili ophambili kubomi babantwana bakhe. Imvakalelo kakhulu:
Iingcebiso ezi-3 ezibaluleke kakhulu endinokuzixelela umzali.
1) Khathalela impilo yakho.
Ukuba uphilile kwaye uzele amandla, unokuba kwisimo esiphakamileyo sokuzinika umzimba nomphefumlo kwinkathalelo nakwimpilo-ntle yabantwana bakho.
2) Nikela ixesha lakho lasimahla ukuba ubenabo.
Thatha ithuba ngoku lokuba babancinci ukuba ube nabo kangangoko unakho kuba kuyakufika umhla apho bakhetha ukuba kunye nabahlobo babo kunawe. Yiba khona kumava abo amatsha, ubakhokele ebomini kwaye, ngaphezu kwako konke, dlala uhleke kunye nabo.
3) Yiba nomonde.
Ukuba ngutata akukho lula kwaye uza kuhamba namaxesha anzima: ubusuku ungakhange ulale kuba begula, umlo phakathi kwabantakwenu xa udiniwe ngokwasengqondweni, ... Kula maxesha apho kufuneka uvumele ubomi buphumle Kancinci, oko kukuthi, mabalwe okanye benze nantoni na oyifunayo. Umhlaba awuzukuphela kuba uthatha imizuzu embalwa ukuphefumla nzulu. Nje ukuba uphinde ulawule ingqondo yakho, yiya kusombulula ingxaki.