Ngabe ukufuna ukuphelela kuhle noma kunokubekelwa eceleni? Ngikucacisile. Kunezinhlobo ezi-2 zokuphelela: i-neurotic futhi iphilile. Namuhla ngizokhuluma kafushane ngemikhawulo emi-6 yokuphelela kwe-neurotic:
1) Ukwehla komkhiqizo.
Bavame ukusebenzisa kabi iPareto Principle, okungukuthi, banikela ngama-20% emizamo yethu yokwenza imiphumela yethu engama-80%. Bakwenza ngenye indlela ezungezile: banikela ngemizamo yabo engama-80% ukukhiqiza imiphumela engama-20%.
2) Ukuhlehlisa izinto.
Kulindeleke ukuthi kutholakale isisombululo esihle kunazo zonke, umongo kanye nesikhathi esifanele sokwenza okuthile okwenziwa ngaso ukubambezeleka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
3) iMyopia.
Njengoba bebanjwa yimininingwane emincane, isithombe esikhudlwana nohlaka lwezinto kuyalahleka.
4) Ukujama kokukhula.
Abafuna ukupheleliswa babanjwa yimikhuba yokwenza izinto ngendlela ethile. Lokhu kubaphuca amathuba amaningi okukhula.
5) Isimo esibi kakhulu sempilo nenhlalakahle yengqondo.
Bahlala njalo bezithoba emhubheni wemizwa engemihle futhi badele ukulala kwabo befuna umsebenzi.
6) Ukwehla kobudlelwano bezenhlalo.
Ukungaguquguquki kwabo kwenza kube nzima ngabo ukuxhumana kahle nabanye abantu.