Impilo elinganiselayo idinga ukuthi sinakekele hhayi kuphela izidingo zomzimba, imizwa kanye nengqondo, kepha futhi nomoya, futhi lokhu kuyindima yokukhula ngokomoya. Ngethula Imihlahlandlela engu-8 ongayilandela ukuthuthukisa ukukhula kwakho ngokomoya namavidiyo ayi-7 athakazelisayo.
1) Funda izincwadi ezingokomoya nezakhayo.
Cabanga ngokuthi lokho okufundayo kungasetshenziswa kanjani empilweni yakho ukuze kungakhuli endizeni yasemhlabeni kuphela kepha nakwezindiza ezihamba phambili.
Njengenjwayelo, uma kukhulunywa ngokufunda, khetha izincwadi zakho ngokucophelela. Chitha ingxenye yesikhathi sakho ukuthola ngezincwadi ezaziwa kakhulu kanye nalabo abanezinkomba ezinhle. Sebenzisa i-inthanethi ukuthola ukuthi ibaphi ababhali abahamba phambili emkhakheni wabo.
2) Ukuzindla kuyindlela enhle yokufeza ukukhula ngokomoya.
Uyayazi imiphumela emihle yokuzindla? Zindla okungenani imizuzu engu-15 nsuku zonke. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungazindla kanjani, kulula ukuthola izincwadi, amawebhusayithi, noma othisha abangakufundisa ukuthi ungazindla kanjani.
3) Lazi iqiniso lokuthi ungumoya onomzimba wenyama.
Ungumoya onomzimba wenyama, hhayi umzimba wenyama onomoya. Uma ungawamukela ngempela lo mbono, uzoshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo ngezinto eziningi empilweni yakho.
4) Bheka ngaphakathi kuwe kaningi.
Ukuzama ukuthola ukuthi yini ekwenza uzizwe uphila. Xhuma nalezo zici ezikwenza ubone ngaphezu kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Lezi zinto yizona ezikufanele ngempela.
5) Cabanga okuhle.
Uma imicabango yakho ingemihle, qala ngokushesha ukucabanga okuhle. Naka okungena emqondweni wakho. Vula umnyango wezinto ezinhle empilweni bese uthayipha okungekuhle.
6) Thuthukisa umkhuba wenjabulo.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi funa uhlangothi oluhle lwempilo bese uzama ukujabula. Injabulo ivela ngaphakathi. Ungavumeli izimo zangaphandle zinqume injabulo yakho.
7) Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kuhle emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakho.
Udinga umzimba ophilile nengqondo efanelekile ukuze ukwazi ukubuza ngemibuzo ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni, nokuyinto ezokwenza ukuthi uhlangane nendiza engokomoya ethe xaxa.
8) Thuthukisa ukubekezelelana.
Ukubekezela, ukubekezela, ukungacunuli nokucabangela abanye kubalulekile enqubweni yakho yokukhula ngokomoya.
Ngenza ushintsho endleleni engiphila ngayo.
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Abantu abazama ukukhula ngokomoya, ngeke siziswe yilabo abangekho… Sizoba yizimanga… Kodwa akumele siphelelwe yithemba. Kunzima, ikakhulukazi kulezi zikhathi zesiyaluyalu nokuswela ngokomoya. Uma siphilile ngokomoya, umthetho wokuheha uzosisiza futhi usiqondise kule ndlela. Izolo ngibuyele ekuzindleni ngemuva kwesikhathi eside… Bekufana nokubuya ekhaya. Indawo obekungamele ngiyishiye, yize bekukhona okunye ukulahlwa (kunjalo)… Ngizokwabelana nawe ngomusho owangehlela ngelinye ilanga ngenkathi owesifazane engxoxisana nomsakazo: «Indlela yomculi akudingeki qala emsebenzini wakhe, kepha kunalokho umsebenzi wakhe, kufanele uqale emgwaqweni ». Kunzima, kepha okufanelekile yikho okuzokukwenza uzizwe ujabulile futhi unokuthula, ukuthi njengomuntu futhi ungumuntu kamoya, uyisifo esikhethekile, ukuthi uma ubhekisisa futhi uhlaziya iPanjali, uzobona ukuthi ukuqala ukufunda ukuthi "ungakhulumi ukuze ukhulume nje", ingqondo yakho izoqala ukusebenza ngendlela ehlaziya kakhulu, ukunikeza indawo eyeqile. Umgomo ukuqeda ukuzazisa. UNick Vujcic utshele iqiniso elikhulu futhi kuyisifundo esihle lesi: "Akunandaba ukuthi uqala kanjani ukuba yilokho ongeyikho, kubalulekile ukuthi ugcina usuyilokhu oyikho.
Kimi ama-5, ama-6 no-8 ayisisekelo. Futhi-ke ngiyazindla, bengizama isikhathi eside futhi akusikho ukuthi sengivele ngingochwepheshe kepha lokho akufike kunginikeza ukulinganisela kwengqondo nengokomzwelo okungavamile. Ukuzindla akukuyisi ndawo emhlabeni, kepha kukunikeza okuhlangenwe nakho "kwasezulwini" lol.