U-2017 usondela ngokushesha Futhi sekuyisikhathi sokubheka izinto esifuna ukuzishintsha ezimpilweni zethu ngonyaka ozayo. Kwabaningi bethu, lezi zifiso ziza ngendlela yezinqumo zikaNcibijane. Kepha ukugcina lezi zinqumo kuvame ukubonakala kungenakwenzeka.
Nawa amanye amathiphu wokukufika lapho.
1. Chaza ngokusobala izinhloso.
[Ungaba nentshisekelo «Ungazibekela kanjani izinhloso zoNyaka Omusha ... bese uhlangabezana nazo"]
Inkinga yabantu abaningi ukuthi ababeki imigomo efanele. Ukuze wandise amathuba akho okuphumelela, setha imigomo ehlakaniphile:
- Izinjongo zidinga ukuba nemiphumela ethile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kulula ukuthola izaba noma ushintsho lapho izimo zishintsha.
- Udinga ukuba nendlela yokukala imiphumela. Ngakho-ke ungakwazi ukukala intuthuko yakho futhi uhlale ukhuthazekile.
- Izinjongo kufanele zibe ngokoqobo futhi zifinyeleleke. Ngaphandle kwalokho, uzolahlekelwa ukugxila futhi ugcine unikezele.
- Izinhloso ezinhle ziyahambisana. Uma umgomo ungasebenzi, asikho ngempela isisusa sokuqhubeka nokuhlangabezana nawo.
- Izinhloso kumele zikhawulelwe ngesikhathi. Umgomo kufanele ube nosuku lokuphela oluchaziwe. Endabeni yesinqumo seMinyaka Emisha, kungaba maphakathi nonyaka noma ekupheleni konyaka.
Ngokubeka imigomo ehlakaniphile, amathuba akho okuhlangabezana nezinhloso zakho ayanda.
2. Sungula izindawo zokulawula.
Kuyinto eyodwa ukusetha umgomo othi into efana nale: «Ngifuna ukwehlisa amakhilogremu ayi-12 ngaphambi kukaDisemba 31, 2017». Enye into ukusho: "Ngifuna ukwehla ngekhilo ngenyanga, njalo ngenyanga onyakeni". Lesi sinqumo sokugcina siyakhuthaza kakhulu futhi siyabiza. Ikhilo ngenyanga akubonakali, i-priori, inzima kakhulu.
3. Gcina ikhalenda enezikhumbuzi.
Uma ungumuntu obukwayo, udinga ukuba nekhalenda enezikhumbuzi kulo. Thola ikhalenda oyithandayo, lilengise odongeni lwakho bese beka amanothi amancane nemibiko yenqubekela phambili kuwo. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uqhubekele phambili futhi ubone ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe nganoma yiliphi isonto noma inyanga ukuze ikusize ufeze izinhloso zakho zonyaka.
4. Vumelana nezimo.
Inkinga ejwayelekile ngabantu ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi izinhloso zabo "konke noma akulutho."
"Umehluko phakathi kokwenza okuthile ngaphezu kwanoma yini mkhulu kakhulu"kusho umqeqeshi ngobuholi Kevin Kruse . “Uma ungenalo ihora lokuzivocavoca ejimini, imizuzu engu-20 ingcono kunokuthi ungabi nalutho. Uma unokulimala okuncane noma umkhuhlane, nquma ukumane uhambe amakhilomitha ambalwa. Uma unesimo esiphuthumayo sezezimali futhi ungakwazi ukonga u-10% womholo wakho, gcina ongakwenza. Okusemqoka ukuthi, noma imuphi umzamo oya enhlosweni yakho ungcono kunokungazami..
5. Yiba nomlingani ophendulayo.
Ithiphu lokugcina ukuthi ube nomlingani ophendulayo. Lapho othile azi ngezinhloso nezinqumo zakho, maningi amathuba okuthi anamathele kubo. Xhuma nomuntu omethembayo umcele akuphathe.
Ungakwena lokhu!
Ukufeza izinqumo zakho Zonyaka Omusha, ikakhulukazi ezithinta ingqondo nezifuna amandla ngokomzimba, kungabonakala kungenakwenzeka. Noma kunjalo, Ngalokhu kuhlela esikubonile, kungenzeka, kunomvuzo futhi kujabulise.
Landela lezi zeluleko futhi ungaqiniseka ukuthi uzozifeza izinhloso zakho ngo-2017.
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