Singaziqinisa ngokungadingekile. Ukuzigxeka kungaba yinto yethu yesibili uma singaqapheli. Ngikushiya no Izeluleko ezi-4 ezizokusiza ukuthi uhlole amandla akho.
Amavidiyo ama-3 ozowathola kulesi sihloko anenhloso eyodwa kuphela: ukujabulisa.
1) Bona amakhono akho.
Sonke silungile entweni ethile noma sinokuthile esithanda ngakho. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukwazanga kepha osukwini lwethu nosuku sizinikela ekusebenziseni isikhathi sethu samahhala senza lokho esikuthandayo. Uma kungenjalo, kukhona okungahambi kahle.
Kufanele ubeke eceleni amahora ambalwa ngosuku ukwenza okuthile okuzuzisayo okuthandayo, onethalente lakho. Kufanele uqale uqaphele ukuthi yini onekhono elihle kuyo futhi uzinikele emzimbeni nasemphefumulweni wakho ukuze ube umhlabeleli.
2) Yabelana ngezinjabulo zakho.
Uma ujabulile kumele kube ngenxa yento ethile oyenze kahle empilweni yakho. Ukwabelana ngenjabulo yakho kuyindlela yokuthola ukuqashelwa ngalokho okwenze kahle.
3) Yazi ukuthi izinkanuko zakho zinomthelela kulokho oyikho.
"Yebo! Ngithanda ukupenda futhi ngibona umsebenzi wami ulenga kugalari yendawo. " "Kunjalo! Ngijabule kakhulu ukudlala ibhola kahle »« Ngingumpheki onekhono ». Konke ukuzilibazisa kwakho kuyingxenye yobuntu bakho.
4) Khumbula izinto ozenza kahle lapho ubhekene nenkinga.
Lokhu kuzokhulisa amandla ethu angaphakathi futhi sibhekane nezinkinga ezinjalo ngemimoya evuselelwe.