Amathiphu ayi-12 ngempilo efanelekile

Impilo ingumgwaqo omazombezombe, Kunzima, ikakhulu uma sizinikezela ekubeni yizilima. Ukukhetha izimo zengqondo ezizolawula impilo yethu kubalulekile.

Ngikushiyela le miyalo eyi-12 ebalulekile uma ufuna ukuphila impilo efanele futhi ekulethela ukwaneliseka okungapheli:

1) Vumela okwedlule.

Okwenzile kwenziwe. Khumbula ukuthi izinhlekelele azivamile ukuba zimbi ngendlela ezibonakala ngayo, futhi noma zikhona, zisinikeza ithuba lokuqina.

Njalo umzuzu onzima empilweni yethu uhambisana nethuba loku ukukhula komuntu siqu. Kepha ukufeza lokhu kukhula, into yokuqala okufanele uyifunde ukuyeka okwedlule.

2) Thola isifundo.

Yonke impilo iyisifundo esihle.

Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukwamukela isifundo, ikakhulukazi lapho izinto zingahambi ngendlela yakho. Uma ungawutholi umsebenzi owufunayo, noma ubudlelwano bungasebenzi, kumane kusho ukuthi kukhona okunye okukhona okulindile. Kukhona ezinye izinketho ezikuvulela iminyango emisha engapheli.

3) Lahla isimo sengqondo esingalungile.

Ukucabanga okungekuhle kudala imiphumela emibi. Ukucabanga okuhle kwenza imiphumela emihle. Kulula kanjalo.

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4) Yamukela umthwalo wemfanelo ngesimo sakho samanje.

Wena kuphela onesibopho ngempilo yakho. Konke okwenzeka kuwe kunqunywa yizenzo zakho nezinqumo zakho. Kukuwe ukuthi uzilawule futhi uqondise impilo yakho endleleni efanele, uhambisane nemicabango yakho.

Akulula ngoba uzohlangabezana nezithiyo eziningi kepha ake ngikutshele ukuthi ngaphandle kwalezi zingqinamba impilo ibingaba yisicefe kakhulu, ikunikeze ithuba lokuzinqoba. Yithathe njengenselelo futhi uzobona ukuthi impilo iwuzuzisa kanjani umzamo wakho.

5) Gxila ezintweni ongazishintsha.

Kunezinto ezingaphezu kwamandla ethu, siyabonga uNkulunkulu ngoba uma kungenjalo besizoba nesibopho sakho konke okwenzekayo okusizungezile. Khululeka ngalezo zinto ezingaphezu kwamandla akho bese ugxila kulezo ongakwazi ukuzilawula.

Sebenzisa ithalente lakho namandla akho angokomzwelo ukuze uqhubeke ukhula. Uneminyaka eminingi ngaphambi kwakho, uma wenza umzamo nsuku zonke impilo yakho izoba lula.

6) Thola ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela.

Khomba uthando lwakho, into ekwenza ukhule futhi ugxile kuyo. Zama ukuba ngongqondongqondo kokuthile.

Sonke sinethalente esizalwa nalo lokuthile, thola ukuthi, kungakuthatha iminyaka ukuyithola kepha uzoyibona lapho ubhekene nakho.

7) Thola ukuthi yini ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni.

Kule mpilo kunodoti omningi, izinto ezingakufanele ukulahlekelwa ngumzuzwana. Esikhundleni salokho kunezinye izinto ezibalulekile ezifana nomndeni, abangani ngisho nomsebenzi wakho. Lezi zici ziyithuba lokukhula.

8) Gxila ekunakekeleni kwakho.

Kwesinye isikhathi izingqondo zethu zigcwele imicabango ekhanyayo esikhubazayo. Udinga ukufunda ukukhulula ingqondo yakho futhi ubheke ukunaka kwakho entweni eyodwa kuphela. Uma wenza izitsha, gxila kukho… uzoqala ukujabulela imisebenzi engemnandi neze.

9) Sebenza.

Abafileyo kuphela abangasebenzi. Ungabi ongafundile, ulwe nalo, wenze izinto, uzivocavoca umzimba, uhlangane nabangane, ufunde ... noma yini efika engqondweni, kodwa wenze okuthile (ukubukela ithelevishini kancane, ngaphandle kokuthi kuyinto ekulethela okuhle).

10) Gcina isimiso.

Kungazwakala kuyisicefe kepha ukuphela kwendlela yokufeza izinto ezinkulu: ngokuqondiswa ubugwegwe.

11) Gcina ukuzithiba.

Lesi seluleko sihlobene kakhulu nenombolo 8: gxilisa ukunaka kwakho. Uma sazi konke esikwenzayo, sizolawula izingqondo nezenzo zethu. Shiya okuthile ukuze uthuthukise futhi kodwa ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ukulawula.

12) Khohlwa ngokuhlaba umxhwele abantu.

Impilo yakho ingeyakho kuphela futhi nezenzo zakho zinqunywa nguwe ngokukhululeka, kufanele zikhululeke ezibophweni ezinjengokujabulisa abanye.