Imicabango engama-35 yezikhathi ezinzima

Ngaphambi kokubuka le micabango engama-35 ngezikhathi ezinzima, Ngingathanda ukuthi ubuke okufushane ngokomzwelo mayelana nokudangala kwentsha.

Kulesi sifushane basikhombisa indaba yensizwa okumele ibhekane nobunzima endaweni ebimvimbe ekufezeni amaphupho ayo:

Lapho impilo iba nengcindezi, sikhohlwa izinto esidinga ukuzikhumbula futhi sikhumbule izinto okufanele sizikhohlwe. Ngikushiya nalaba Imicabango engama-35 ongayikhumbula lapho uyidinga kakhulu:

1) Awukwazi ukuguqula lokho owenqaba ukubhekana nakho.

2) Akekho umuntu ophelele. Ngamunye wethu unezinkinga ngakho ungazibukeli phansi. Wonke umuntu ulwa impi yakhe ehlukile.

3) Ukukhala akusho ukuthi ubuthakathaka. Selokhu kwazalwa, bekulokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi uyaphila futhi ugcwele amandla.

4) Empilweni akudingeki ulinde isivunguvungu sidlule, kufanele ufunde ukudansa emvuleni.

5) Amagqubu ayisithiyo enjabulweni yakho. Bayeke bahambe.

6) Ungalokothi uvumele impumelelo ifike ekhanda lakho futhi ungavumeli ukwehluleka kufinyelele enhliziyweni yakho.

7) Impilo ingu-10% okwenzeka kuwe no-90% ukuthi usabela kanjani kulokho okwenzeka kuwe.

8) Ungafunda izinto ezinhle emaphutheni akho lapho ungekho matasa ukuwaphika.

9) Yekela ukukhathazeka ngokuthi abanye bacabangani ngawe. Lokho abakucabangayo akubalulekile. Okubalulekile ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngawe.

10) Lapho abanye abantu bekuphatha kabi, hlala wedwa. Ungalokothi uvumele ukufutheka kushintshe ukuthi ungubani.

11) Kufanele wamukele ukuthi ezinye izinto azisoze zaba ezakho futhi ufunde ukwazisa izinto ezingezakho kuphela.

12) Kwesinye isikhathi sivumela izinkinga ezincane zibuse izimpilo zethu. Ukukhokhiswa ngokweqile kuyacasula, kepha ungakuvumeli ukuthi kukuchithe usuku lwakho. Kuzohlala kunezinkinga ezincane ezikucasulayo, imfihlo ukwazi ukubanikeza izinga le-miniscule lokubaluleka okufanelekile.

13) Ukudela akusho ukuthi ubuthakathaka ngaso sonke isikhathi, kwesinye isikhathi lokho kusho ukuthi unamandla ngokwanele futhi uhlakaniphe ngokwanele ukubuyela emuva.

I-14) Zibuze ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho nobunye budonsela phansi noma bukuphakamise. Zizungeze nabantu abahle nabaphumelelayo.

15) Chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nalabo abakwenza umomotheke futhi ungasichithi isikhathi nalabo abazizwa becindezelwe ukubabonisa.

16) Kunezinto ezimbalwa ezingcono empilweni ngaphandle kwengxoxo emnandi, ukufunda okuhle, ukuhamba okuhle, ukwangana okuhle, ukumamatheka okuhle, noma umngane omuhle.

17) Ungagxili kokudlule noma ukhathazeke ngekusasa isikhathi eside kakhulu. Phila okwamanje.

18) Akunandaba ukuthi ukhetha amagama akho ngokucophelela, kuzohlala kukhona umuntu oseduze kwakho okuhumusha kabi okushoyo. Zizwe ukhululekile ukusho okufunayo.

19) Ukuze sibe nobuciko, kufanele silahlekelwe ukwesaba ukuthi singalungile.

20) Ukungakutholi okufunayo kwesinye isikhathi ukushaywa yinhlanhla okumangalisayo.

21) Ukuba mkhulu akusho ukuthi kufanele ubuse abanye. Kusho ukuthi kufanele ulisebenzise kahle ikhono lakho.

22) Uma unentshisekelo ethile, yiphishekele, noma ngabe abanye bacabangani. Yile ndlela amaphupho afezwa ngayo.

23) Uma uqhubeka nokwenza lokhu okwenzayo, uzoqhubeka nokuthola lokho okutholayo.

24) Ukuthethelela kungenye yezikhiye ezinkulu zenjabulo.

25) Ukuziphindiselela okuhle yinjabulo ngoba akukho lutho olulimaza abaphikisi bakho ngaphezu kokukubona umomotheka.

26) Gcina isimo sengqondo esihle lapho uzungezwe ukunganaki. Mamatheka lapho ubona abanye behwaqabele ubuso. Kuyindlela elula yokuzenza ube mkhulu.

27) Uma umuntu efuna ukuba yingxenye yempilo yakho, bazokwenza umzamo osobala wokukufeza. Ungazihluphi ngokubeka isikhala enhliziyweni yakho kubantu abangawenzi umzamo wokusiwina.

28) Awuzisoli ngobudlelwano obungasebenzi ngoba buzokusiza kuphela ekutholeni umlingani ofanele wena.

29) Umhlaba wangempela awubaniki umvuzo abaphelelisi. Klomelisa abantu abenza izinto. Ukuphela kwendlela yokwenza izinto ukungapheleli isikhathi esingu-99% wesikhathi.

30) Ungalokothi uqambe amanga, ngisho namanga amhlophe. Thembeka, ube yiqiniso, futhi ukhulume iqiniso. Lokhu kuzibophezela kukuphoqa ukuthi uthathe izinqumo ezingcono futhi ube ngumuntu onamandla.

31) Ungazizwa unecala ngokuthukuthela. Zizwe unecala ngokuba nonya.

32) Ungathandazi uma lina uma ungathandazi lapho ilanga likhanya.

33) Amaphutha akufundisa izifundo ezibalulekile. Iphutha elilodwa elingakulimaza ngempela ukhetha ukwenza lutho, ngoba nje wesaba kakhulu ukwenza iphutha.

34) Imali isisetshenziswa esivuselelekayo. Uma ulahlekelwa yimadlana, ungakhathazeki. Ungahlala wenza okuningi. Isikhathi sibaluleke ukwedlula imali.

35) Akukho okukuvimba, ngaphandle kwakho. Munye kuphela umbuzo okufanele uzibuze wona: "Ungenzenjani uma ungesabi?" Cabanga ngakho.