Ngaphambi kokubona le mikhuba engu-9 yomcabango wokukhula kwakho, ngikumema ukuthi ubone le mizuzu emi-4 ekhuthazayo ezokukhuthaza impela.
Le vidiyo iyi-classic yamavidiyo ashukumisayo futhi impela usuvele ukubonile ngezikhathi ezithile; nokho, kuhle ukuyikhumbula ngezikhathi ezithile.
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Isici esibaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwethu funda ukucabanga kahle ukuze sifeze izinhloso zethu.
Ukucabanga kwethu okuningi kuyazenzakalela futhi kaningi asazi ngesivunguvungu semicabango egcwala ezingqondweni zethu.
Kuhle ukuzama lawula kancane lokho esikucabangayo futhi sisebenzise imikhuba emisha yokucabanga ukuze impilo yethu iguquke ibe ngcono.
Imikhuba engu-9 yokucabanga ezokusiza ekukhuleni kwakho
1) Sebenzisa umcabango wakho bese udala
Esinye sezipho ezinkulu esinazo kungukuqamba nokucabanga kwethu. Ngeshwa impilo esinayo iyazicisha lezi zimfanelo. Kungakho kufanele ubheke umsebenzi ozokusiza ukuvusa lezi zimangaliso ezimbili esinazo sonke.
Unganikela ngesikhathi semisebenzi yobuciko efana nokudweba, umculo, ukubhala, ... Kubalulekile enjabulweni yakho ukuthi uthole okukufezayo, yini ekwenza ulahlekelwe isikhathi futhi ikuphoqa ukuthi usebenzise umcabango wakho ukudala izinto ezinhle.
2) Hlaziya ukuthi indlela yakho yokucabanga ikanjani
Ukuqaphela, noma ukucabanga ngokucabanga, kusivumela ukuthi sithole i- amaphethini wokucabanga nokuthi lokhu kuthonya kanjani i- imizwelo nokuziphatha.
Lapho siqala ukwazi imicabango yethu singaqala ukuhlela kabusha imicabango ekhawulelayo yemicabango ekhuthazayo.
3) Fundisa umcabango onelukuluku
Lapho ngifunda okwengeziwe kulapho ngibona khona ukuthi kuncane kangakanani esikwaziyo. Impilo igcwele okuhlangenwe nakho okuyithuba loku thola ubuciko obuningi uma sazi ukuthi silikhipha kanjani lonke ijusi labo kuzo.
Thola izihloko ezintsha onentshisekelo kuzo futhi ufunde amakhono amasha.
4) Cabanga ngokuvumelana nezimo
Enye yemikhuba eyingozi kakhulu yokucabanga ukugxeka ngokweqile thina nabanye.
5) Thola amahlaya
Amahlaya angaba usizo ezimweni eziningi ezinciphisa umthwalo ongokomzwelo futhi avuse ukucabanga okukhiqizayo.
6) Yiba oqondayo nozwela
Ukukhula njengomuntu onozwela kumele sifisele abanye okuhle. Lokhu akuyona into etholakala ngobusuku obubodwa. Kudinga ekuqaleni kwe- umzamo wansuku zonke ukuze kuthi kancane kancane kugxile ebuntwini bethu.
7) cabanga ngokuzimela
Funda ukubuza izinto esikhundleni sokujoyina umhlambi. Ngokuzayo lapho uphikisana nento ethile, ungesabi ukuyiveza. Ekukhuleni kwethu uqobo kubalulekile ukuthi sicabange ngale kwemibono ejwayelekile.
8) Hlakulela ukubabaza nokumangala
Ezingqondweni zethu kuhlale kunendawo yokumangala ngakho konke okusizungezile. Vele udinga bhekisisa imininingwane, yamukele umbono omusha, wokuzithokozisa nokucabangisisa ngezinto. Le yindlela esibuthola ngayo ubuhle noma bungabalulekile kakhulu futhi singamangala.
9) Zindla futhi uthandaze
Le mikhuba efuna ukweqa zinikela ngokuthula okukhulu. Zisisiza ukuthi sikuqonde kakhulu esikucabangayo futhi zisinikeza a ukuhlakanipha esingazifaka ekuthathweni kwezinqumo zethu.
Ngikushiya nevidiyo ekhuthazayo kakhulu:
Sithemba ukuthi uyayithanda!