Njengoba uGustavo Cerati ake asho "Ukukwazi ukuvalelisa ukukhula", futhi lokhu kunikeza isithombe sokuthi ukwahlukana kuyinqubo elula. Noma kunjalo, asihlali silungele lezo zikhathi, noma kunalokho, asikaze sibe njalo! Imishwana yokuvalelisa ingaba ukhiye ngomzuzwana, futhi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi ziqinisekisa ukubaluleka "kwemijikelezo yokuvala" yokukhula komuntu. Singakuqinisekisa ukuthi kuyisenzo sesibindi esikhulu, ngoba akulula neze ukuzikhipha kulokho okwakuyingxenye yeqiniso lethu okwesikhashana. I- Ukuphendula kwabaningi kuqukethe ukubambelela, emzameni oyize wokugcina izimo kuze kube manje bezizinzile kubo..
Kepha kukhona okungenakuphikwa, lapho kufika isikhathi sokuvalelisa, indlela ebuhlungu kakhulu inkululeko. Uma ukhetha ukwelula okungasenakwandiswa, ukuhlupheka kuzoba khona.
Ngakho-ke, sabelana ngemishwana ehlakaniphile kunazo zonke ezake zaphinyiselwa.
Izinkulumo eziningi zokuhlekisa
Ukwenza lowo mzuzu ukhumbuleke, kufanele usho ibinzana elisiza ukuchaza umvuthwandaba wesikhathi, yingakho sethula imishwana ehamba phambili yokuvalelisa:
Ukuphikiswa
Kwesinye isikhathi umzuzu wokuvalelisa ufinyelela kithi futhi asilungele wona, nayi eminye imishwana eyikhombisayo:
- "Hamba kahle? Cha cha ngiyacela, asikwazi ukuvula ikhasi bese siqala kabusha? " UWinnie ibhere
- "Indoda ayisoze yazi ukuvalelisa, owesifazane akazi ukuthi uzokusho nini" uHelen Rowland
- "Asikho isikhathi esikahle sokuvalelisa" uChris Brown
- "Ukufa akuhambi kahle" uTitte Kubo
- "Ibanga nesikhathi abazi ukuthi wenze okubi enhliziyweni yami" u-Abel Pintos
- "Nomaphi lapho uya khona, ngiyakuya khona nami, futhi lapho efuna ukuba uhlale khona, ngiyakuhlala khona" uRuthe 1:16
- "Angikaze ngithi ukuvalelisa, ngoba ukuvalelisa kusho ukuhamba, futhi ukuhamba kusho ukukhohlwa" uJM Barrie
- "Ngivalelisa kuwe, futhi mhlawumbe ngale ndlela yokuvalelisa, iphupho lami elihle kakhulu lifela ngaphakathi kimi ... kodwa ngivalelisa kuwe impilo yonke, noma ngiqhubeka ngicabanga ngawe impilo yami yonke" uJosé Ángel Buesa.
- "Izinhlungu zokwehlukana azinakufaniswa nenjabulo yokuhlangana futhi" uCharles Dickens
- “Ngikuthanda ngomoya, ukumamatheka nezinyembezi zempilo yami yonke! Futhi uma uNkulunkulu evumela, ngizokuthanda kakhulu emva kokufa. ”U-Elizabeth Barret Browning
- Ama-Goodbyes awahlali unomphela. AmaGoodbyes awawona ukuphela, asho nje: Ngizokukhumbula size siphinde sihlangane. ”Anonymous
- "Noma ngubani owasungula ibanga akazange ezwe ubuhlungu bokulangazelela" uFrancois de la Rochefoucauld
- "Umphefumulo wami awunelisekile ngokuthi ulahlekile. Yize lokhu kungubuhlungu bokugcina angizwisa bona, futhi lawa amavesi okugcina engimbhalela wona ”uPablo Neruda
Ukwesula emsebenzini
Lapho sifinyelela kuleso simo sokuphakama esivumela ukuthi siqonde isidingo sokuvalelisa, ngokusobala singakubonisa ukubaluleka kokuvalelisa.
- "Mhlawumbe ngizokutshela ngelinye ilanga ukuthi ngayeka ukukuthanda, yize ngisaqhubeka nokukuthanda ngaphesheya kokufa, futhi mhlawumbe awuqondi, kulokho kuvalelisa ukuthi, yize uthando lusihlanganisa, impilo iyasihlukanisa" uJosé Ángel Buesa.
- "Akukho okwenzeka ngenhlanhla, izinto zilandela uhlelo oluyimfihlo, yize singakuqondi" uPlaton
- "Futhi lapho ngihamba, la kuzoba amagama ami okugcina: ngiyahamba, ngishiya uthando lwami ngemuva" uTagore.
- "Asibona abenzi bomlando, singabenzi bomlando" uMartin Luther King jr.
- "Nginenhlanhla engakanani, nginokuthile okwenza ukuthi ukuvalelisa kube nzima" uWinnie the bear
- “Ukufa akukho, abantu bafa kuphela uma bekukhohliwe; uma ungangikhumbula, ngizohlala nginawe njalo ”Isabel Allende.
- Noma uzizwa ubuhlungu ngenxa yokuvaleliswa, bheka futhi enhliziyweni yakho futhi kufanele ubone ukuthi ukhalela lokho obekujabulisa kakhulu.
- “Umunwe ohambayo uyabhala; ukuba nokuthuthuka kwe-oda; futhi isihawu sakho, noma ubuhlakani bakho, ngeke kumenze abuyele emuva ukucindezela uhhafu womugqa, futhi izinyembezi zakho ngeke zisule igama elilodwa "Omar Jayyam
- "... ekugcineni, ngemuva kwakho konke okubi owangcwaba, nalokho okuqede ubuhwaba bakho, ingunaphakade izokwamukela intokozo yethu ngokusanga ngathi ngamunye" uJohn Milton
- "Akuvaleliswanga, lokhu" ngiyabonga "uNicholas Sparks
- "Okunzima kakhulu akukhona ukuqabula kokuqala, kodwa okokugcina" uPaul Géraldy
- "Ubuciko bokuqala bukhulu, kepha ubuciko bokuqeda bukhulu" uHenry Wadsworth
- “Ngijabule kakhulu, Jane. Kukhumbule lapho uthola ngokufa kwami, futhi ungazihluphi ngakho. Akukho lutho lokuzisola ... ingqondo yami inokuthula ”uCharlotte Brönte (Jane Eyre)
- "Akukho ukuqabula okungesona isiqalo sokuvalelisa, ngisho nokufika nje" uGeorge Bernard Shaw
- "Uthando lwalufushane kakhulu, futhi ukungakhohlwa yinde kakhulu" uPablo Neruda
- "Lonke usizi emhlabeni aluyilutho, lapho kufika ukuvalelisa" uDaniel Balavoine
Ukuhlelwa kabusha
Kwesinye isikhathi sisuka eqinisweni ngoba sidinga ukubuyela esimweni esifanele. Kulokhu, asisho ukuvalelisa, siyavala umnyango, siyavalelisa, kepha sishiya umnyango uvulekile ukuze sibuye:
- "Hlala kude ngezikhathi ezithile, phumula kancane, ngoba lapho ubuyela emsebenzini, ukwahlulela kwakho kuzobe kunembe kakhudlwana" uLeonardo Da Vinci
- "Bavalelisile kanti ekuvaleliseni bekuvele kukhona ukwamukelwa" uMario Benedetti
- "Uzohlala ungow Sawubona engimthandayo, futhi ngizovalelisa kanzima" uCecelia Ahern
Usale kahle ezingomeni
Ngoba izingoma eziningi ziveza umuzwa walezo zinto zokuvalelisa:
- "Akukho okuhlala njalo, ngiyaxolisa, angikwazi ukuphelela" Uhlelo Oluhle, Olulula
- "Cha, ngeke ngikwazi ukukuyeka uhambe, uyingxenye yami, ngibhajwe ukunambitheka kokwanga kwakho" Kukhuphuka izindonga, Abafana Basemuva
- "Noma ngicabanga ukuthi useduze, ngidinga wena kude, ukwakha indlela entsha" Heal, Westlife
- “Ushiya u-Alfonsina nesizungu sakho, uhambe ufuna ziphi izinkondlo ezintsha? Izwi lasendulo lomoya nosawoti, lifudumeza umphefumulo wakho, futhi liwuphethe. Futhi uya lapho njengasephusheni, u-Alfonsina elele, egqoke olwandle ”Alfonsina nolwandle” Alfonsina nolwandle, Mercedes Sosa.
- "Okuthile kumile futhi lokho kuthula bekukukhulu kakhulu, ukudabuka kwenhliziyo bekukukhulu kakhulu, izinsalela zomkhumbi obushayeke phansi, bengikuthanda, bengikuthanda, angazi ngempela ukuthi kwenzekeni" Farewell, Fito Páez
- “Thumela uthando lwami kusithandwa sakho esisha, siphathe kangcono. Kufanele sidedele zonke izipoki zethu, asisizona izingane, futhi ”Thumela uthando lwami (kwisithandwa sakho esisha) u-Adele
- "Usale kahle sithandwa sami, usale kahle mngani wami, bekunguwe wedwa, bekunguwe wedwa kimi" usale kahle sithandwa sami, uJames Blunt
- “Lapho ngihamba, ukuqabula nokuvalelisa, a ngiyakuthanda, ukuphululwa nokuvaleliswa; ngumthwalo olula wohambo olude kangaka, usizi lusinda kakhulu enhliziyweni "Ukuqabula nembali, uNino Bravo.
- "Usale kahle, yeka ukuthi kudabukisa kanjani ukuvalelisa engikutshele kona ngenkathi ngihamba, angisakhali" Plácido Domingo
- "Uhambeleni? Kungani afa? Kungani inkosi yamthatha? Uye ezulwini futhi ukuze ahambe, nami kumele ngiqine ukuze ngibe nawe, sithandwa. ”Kungani ahamba, Leo Dan
- "Ingishiyile nelanga, ngaphandle kokukhuluma, ngaphandle kokuvalelisa" Ihambile, uMiriam Hernández
- "Ingakho ngiyahamba, yini ebuhlungu, kodwa nisale kahle, ngivalelisa kuwe futhi sengiyahamba" ngiyahamba, uJulieta Venegas
- "Akekho owake wathi kuzoba nzima kanjena, ngicela ungibuyisele ekuqaleni" Usosayensi, uColdplay.