Abantu abanenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid abakholelwa ukuthi kukhona okubi okwenzeka kubo. Bajwayele ukungabi nandaba nobudlelwano bezenhlalo kanye nokukhuluma okuncane ngokomzwelo. Kepha lokhu kubo akuyona inkinga, empeleni, bacabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi inkinga, abanye banayo hhayi bona. Uma ufuna ukwazi kabanzi mayelana nokuphazamiseka kobuntu be-schizoid, ungaphuthelwa yikho konke esikutshela khona ngezansi.
Yini isifo se-schizoid
Lapho igama elithi 'ubuntu' lifakwa enkingeni, kuyacaca ukuthi lesi sifo sinamaphethini wokuziphatha agxile kakhulu endleleni abantu ababona ngayo, abaxhumana ngayo, nabazicabangela ngayo kanye nomhlaba. Izici zobuntu yizindlela ezihlala njalo zokubona, eziphathelene, nokucabanga ngemvelo kanye nesiqu sakho.
Lokhu kukhonjiswa ezinhlakeni ezahlukahlukene zezenhlalo nezomuntu siqu. Ukungezwani kobuntu kuyindlela ehlala njalo yokuziphatha nokuziphatha okungafani nokulindelwe yisiko.
Endabeni yokuphazamiseka kobuntu be-schizoid, kuyindlela yokunganaki abantu noma ubudlelwane bezenhlalo. Abantu abanalesi sifo abavami ukuveza imizwa yabo noma babelane ngamava abo.
Imvamisa lokhu kuphazamiseka kuqala ebudaleni bokuqala, umuntu uqala ukuziqhelelanisa nabantu abaseduze naye futhi ukungabi nakho kwakhe ukukhuluma ngokomzwelo kumvimbela ekubeni nobudlelwano obuseduze. Abantu abanesifo se-schizoid bangasebenza impilo ejwayelekile ngokuphelele, kepha ngeke babe nobudlelwano obunenjongo nabanye.
Bangabantu abanesizungu, ngakho-ke imisebenzi ngaphandle kozakwethu inhle kakhulu kubo futhi bayenza ngokuphelele. Kungenzeka ukuthi i-schizoid disorder iyisandulela (yize kungenjalo kuzo zonke izimo) zokuhlushwa i-schizophrenia ngokuzayo, noma ngabe iphansi kanjani. Abantu abanenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid athintana neqiniso ngaphandle uma eba ne-schizophrenia.
Izimpawu
Isifo sobuntu se-schizoid, njengoba ubonile ngenhla, sibonakala njengesixhumi esivela ebudlelwaneni bezenhlalo futhi sikhombisa ukuzizwa okuncane ngokomzwelo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zesici ukuthola ukuthi ngabe wena noma omunye umuntu kungenzeka noma nihlushwa yilesi sifo.
- Intshisekelo encane emisebenzini yokuzilibazisa komphakathi
- Ayifuni noma ijabulele ubudlelwano obuseduze (kufaka phakathi umndeni)
- Kukude ngokomzwelo
- Gwema imisebenzi yomphakathi
- Uhlala ekhetha imisebenzi eyedwa noma cishe noma nini lapho enethuba
- Intshisekelo encane noma engenayo nhlobo yokuya ocansini nomunye umuntu
- Awunabo ubudlelwano obusondelene ngaphandle kokuthi bayizihlobo eziseduze
- Akunandaba nokudunyiswa noma ukugxekwa kwabanye
- Ibonisa ukubanda ngokomzwelo noma iqembu
- Zimbalwa izinguquko ezibonakalayo kumzwelo
Izimbangela
Akwaziwa ukuthi kungani ukuphazamiseka kobuntu be-schizoid kukhona, kepha Kusolwa ukuthi ufuzo nemvelo kuthonya ukukhula kwalesi sifo.
Kungenzeka ukuthi imbangela ingenxa yezinkinga zobuntwana, ngenxa yokungakwazi ukuba nothando olufudumele oluvela kubazali noma kubantu okukhulunywa ngabo. Umuntu uzoba nengozi ephezulu yokuhlushwa yile nkinga uma kune-schizophrenics emndenini wakhe.
Izibonelo zokuphazamiseka kobuntu be-schizoid
Isibonelo somuntu onenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid kuzoba ngulowo ongabujabuleli ubudlelwane bezenhlalo. Uzokhetha ukusebenza wedwa kungekho muntu eduze kwakho, uyogwema ukuya emibuthanweni yokuzijabulisa ngokwenza izaba, futhi ungahle ungabi nobudlelwano obuzinzile ngoba awufuni ukuxhumana nabanye ngokomzwelo noma ngokomzimba. Umuntu uzibona njengomuntu ongafanele emphakathini futhi ukholelwa ukuthi usebenza kangcono uma enganciki kothile ngaphandle kwakhe. Ngeke babe nabangane abaseduze.
Bazothanda ukusebenza bodwa, imidlalo yezibalo noma ikhompyutha. Eminye imisebenzi abangayikhetha futhi ngabaphathi bezokuphepha ebusuku, abasebenza emtatsheni wezincwadi, noma abasebenza elabhorethri.
Esinye isibonelo ukuthi njengoba laba bantu bekuthola kunzima ukukhombisa imizwa yabo, bavame ukuba nobunzima bokuziveza ezimweni zomphakathi. Kunzima ukumamatheka noma bangavumi ngisho nokuvuma ngekhanda engxoxweni lapho omunye umuntu ekhuluma nabo. Futhi abakwazi ukusabela ekudunyisweni noma ekugxekweni kwabanye abantu, ngisho nabanye abantu bangazizwa sengathi abanandaba nanoma yini abatshelwa yona ... kuba sengathi abakhathazekile ngalokho abanye abakucabangayo ngabo, ngoba empeleni, bayakwenza anginandaba.
Ngabe isifo se-schizoid siyelapheka?
Uma umuntu ophethwe yilolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka ebona futhi efuna ukunqoba ngempela, yebo ungayithola. Kuyadingeka ukwazi ukuthi ufuzo lubeka phambili kepha alulahli. Uma umuntu onesifo sobuntu se-schizoid ekhulele endaweni evinjelwe ezenzakalweni zenhlalo noma zomzwelo, bangafuna ukukujabulela lokho ngesikhathi esithile sempilo yabo futhi bafune ukushintsha indlela yabo yokuba, ngoba empeleni banenkinga isikhathi sokubona abanye abanobudlelwano obuzinzile.
Yize ngokujwayelekile abantu abajwayele ukucabanga ukuthi banezinkinga futhi bazizwa kamnandi ngaphandle kokuphuma endaweni yabo yokunethezeka. Ngakho-ke kukhona ikhambi, kepha kuphela lapho umuntu evuma ngempela ukuthi bafuna ukwenza ngcono ebudlelwaneni babo nabanye abantu.
Ukwelapha
Umuntu onenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid uzodinga ukwelashwa kwengqondo noma ukukhuluma ngomuthi owelapha onolwazi lokwelapha lezi zinhlobo zokuphazamiseka kobuntu. Kwesinye isikhathi, umelaphi angakhombisa njengokufanele ukuthi ngokuqhubekayo umuntu ubamba amaseshini eqembu ukuqala ukuxhumana okukhulu nabanye. Kungaba nzima ekuqaleni kumuntu onenkinga yobuntu be-schizoid, kepha uzodinga ukuholwa nokusekelwa kusuka kochwepheshe. ukwazi ukuthuthuka ngempumelelo kule ngxenye yokwelashwa. Kuzoba isakhiwo sokweseka ukwenza ngcono amakhono omphakathi.
Imithi futhi kwesinye isikhathi ingabekwa ukuthi isize ngokungaphatheki kahle nangezimpawu ezikhubazayo umuntu angazizwa empilweni yakhe yansuku zonke, njengezimpawu zokukhathazeka noma zokudangala.