Ngaphambi kokuthi ubone lezi zeluleko eziyi-11 ezisheshayo zokuzinakekela, Ngikumema ukuthi ubuke le vidiyo ka-Elsa Punset lapho asikhombisa khona ukuthi singazinakekela kanjani ngendlela ebonakalayo ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo aziphakamisayo.
Kule vidiyo, u-Elsa usitshela ukuthi asidingi kuphela umuntu ozosinakekela lapho sisebancane, kuyadingeka futhi ukuthi sifunde ukuzinakekela lapho sesibadala:
[i-mashshare]Ngikushiya nalezi zeluleko eziyi-11 ezimfushane zokuzinakekela:
2) Gwema ukuziqhathanisa nabanye.
3) Yakha iqembu elincane labantu ongaphendukela kulo ukuze uthole ukusekelwa okungokomzwelo.
4) Zinike isikhathi sokuzijabulisa. Khumbula ukuthi izinto zokuzilibazisa yimisebenzi oyenzayo ukuze uzizwe kahle.
5) Ungakhohlwa ukuhleka. Sesha Amahlaya okuzungezile.
6) Funda ukukhululeka. Ungathola izincwadi, ama-CD, amakilasi, noma abafundisi bokukufundisa ukuthi ungakhululeka kanjani. Ukuphumula kuthuthukisa ingqondo futhi isiza umzimba ukuthi uhlale usesimweni esifanele.
7) Funda ukuthi "cha." Yithi "cha" ngokulindela okungenangqondo, izicelo, noma izimfuno.
8) Shintsha imisebenzi uma ungazizwa ukhululekile ukuyenza. Zama ukuthola ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ukufanele yini noma unethezekile nozakwenu. Zama ukugxila ezintweni ozithandayo kakhulu ngomsebenzi wakho futhi unganaki kakhulu izinto ongazithandi. Khumbula ukuthi yonke imisebenzi inezici ezingathandeki.
9) Yenza ukuzivocavoca. Thatha uhambo lokuhambahamba ngezinyawo, ugibele ibhayisikili lakho, uthathe izitebhisi. Awudingi ukugqoka i-tracksuit ukuzivocavoca umzimba. Ukusebenza kakhulu empilweni yakho yansuku zonke kuyindlela enhle yokuqala.
10) Zama ukusiza abanye. Kuhle kubo nakuwe.
11) Naka impilo yakho yezikamoya. Yehlisa kancane ijubane. Ahlale athule. Lalela izwi lakho elingaphakathi. Zinike isikhathi sokucabanga ngezinto ezikulethela ukuthula, ubuhle nokuthula empilweni. Thola isibindi sokulandela indlela yakho yokomoya uma ingekho inkolo ekufeza.
ungazigcini ngaphakathi. Yabelana ngokudabuka nokudumala kwakho nomuntu omethembayo.
Imibono emihle kakhulu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke ngiyithande kakhulu ividiyo ka-Elsa Punset (siba ngokungenangqondo lokho esikubonile kubazali bethu). Ukwanga, uPablo
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