Kunezinto eziningi empilweni ezenza abantu bacabange: "Lokho akusoze kwenzeka kimi."
Mhlawumbe ngezinye zalezo zinto, kuliqiniso. Kodwa ngobuqotho, sonke sithinteka ekubeni nokuhlukumezeka okuthile, amanye amashwa, okunye kuguquke kungazelelwe empilweni. Angiyena umlandeli wokuphila impilo ngokwesaba. Umbono wokuthi "kungenzeka kunoma ngubani" uhlobene kakhulu nokuba nozwelo oluncane kubantu ababhekwa "njengabanye":
Kuyisimemezelo esenziwe yi Umfelandawonye Kazwelonke Wabangenamakhaya ("I-National Coalition for the Homeless") inhloso yayo ukuvimbela nokuqeda ukungabi namakhaya. Bazama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izidingo eziphuthumayo zabangenamakhaya ziyahlangatshezwa nokuthi amalungelo abo omphakathi ayavikelwa.
«Sinombono we umhlaba lapho wonke umuntu enezindlu ezisezingeni elifanele, ezingabizi futhi eziphephile. Sizibophezele ekwakheni izinguquko ezinhlelweni nasezimweni zengqondo ezidingekayo ukuvimbela nokuqeda ukungabi namakhaya. "