Uthando ngumqondo ovame ukudideka, futhi ngukuthi kufanele sikucacise lokho kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zothando, ngendlela efanayo naleyo esetshenziswa ngayo njenge-eksisi lapho kuvela khona ukuphuka kwenhliziyo ngisho nezinye izinhlobo ezinobuthi ezilimaza abantu. Ngakho-ke, kulokhu sizozama chaza ukuthi luyini uthando futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke sizohlaziya ukwehluka okubaluleke kakhulu.
Incazelo yothando
Okokuqala nje sizoqala ngokuchaza uthando njengomqondo ojwayelekile, okungukuthi, asizogxila ekucaciseni izinhlobo, kepha sizoluphatha ngombono ojwayelekile, futhi ngalokhu bakhuluma ngomqondo ogxile ku- ubuhlobo obusondelene obukhona phakathi kwezidalwa ezahlukahlukene, kusungula umuzwa wothando okusiholela ekusabeleni kulokho kuba ngenye indlela uma kuqhathaniswa nokunye.
Ngalo mqondo, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi alukho uthando kuphela phakathi kwabantu, kepha kubuye kubhekwe njengothando lapho ubudlelwano busungulwa phakathi kwezilwane noma ngisho naphakathi kwabantu nezilwane, inqobo nje uma kunokuxhumana phakathi kwazo okuziholela ekubeni nobudlelwano obushubile futhi obuhlukanisiwe.
Vele akufanele sicabange ukuthi uthando lusho ukuthi kukhona ukusondelana ngokobulili, kepha sizokhuluma ngokuhlukile imizwa kuye ngohlobo lothando esibhekise kulo, ukuze kuthiwe uthando noma umuzwa we-asexual okungaba, ngokwesibonelo, lowo ozizwa engubaba wendodana noma okuphambene nalokho.
Ngendlela efanayo sithola nezinye izinhlobo zothando ngokuya ngejubane elenziwa ngalo, lapho-ke singakhuluma ngakho uthando lukaPlato, futhi nangokombono wenkolo besizosungula uthando oluhlukile.
Ngalo mqondo, uthando siluqonda njengochungechunge lwemizwa ekhiqizelwa umuntu othile, olungaguquka ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene kuye ngobudlelwano obusungulwe nalowo muntu.
Yazi zonke izinhlobo zothando
Ngokuya ngencazelo eyedlule, kufanele sikuqonde ukuthi kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zothando, esizomela ngezansi ukuqonda kangcono umqondo wothando nendlela olukhula ngayo ngokuya ngemigomo namagugu.
Uthando lomndeni
Kuyinto uthando olusungulwa phakathi kwabazali nezingane nakuzo zombili izinkomba, okubandakanya nezinye izinhlobo ezinjenge uthando lobuzalwane ubezoba yini uthando phakathi kwezelamani ezimbilinoma ngabe bayizelamani zegazi noma cha.
Uthando olungenamibandela
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, sinothando olungenamibandela, okungukuthi lapho umuntu ezinikela ngokuphelele komunye ngaphandle kokulindela ukubuyiselwa okuthile, futhi isibonelo esihle salolu hlobo lothando ukuthi okholwayo uzizwa ebheke kuNkulunkulu wakhe, noma ngisho uthando oluzwakala kulabo abathembekile komunye nomunye ngokusekelwe enyunyaneni esungulwe inkolelo yenkolo.
Kulokhu futhi singagcizelela ukuthi uthando lobuzali ngokuvamile luthando olungenamibandela, ngoba kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ubaba anikele ngakho konke ezinganeni zakhe ngaphandle kokulindela ukuthi kuzobuya.
Uthando lukaPlato
El uthando lukaPlato kungenye inhlobo yothando egxile kuyo Umbono kaPlato ngalo muzwa, yize kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi kuvame ukudideka nothando oluhlehlisiwe noma uthando olungenakwenzeka, kepha lokhu kuyiphutha kusukela Uthando lukaPlato lugxila esidingweni sokucabanga ngobuhle, futhi yingakho lapho sizizwa thanda ekuqaleni kokubona, sikubiza ngothando lweplato.
Isibonelo esihle yilapho sibona intombazane ebonakala ikhanga kakhulu kithi futhi enhle, futhi yize sihlangane nayo nje futhi asikho isizathu sangempela sokuthi sizizwele ngento ethile, iqiniso ukuthi kukhona okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kwethu, kepha uthando lukaPlato alugcini ngokugxila kulokho esizokubiza ngokuthi uthando lwe-eros, kepha singakwazi uzizwe uthando lweplato ngisho nezilwane, izinto nokunye nje lokho kusizungezile, inqobo nje uma kukhiqiza lobo buhle obusidonsela ngandlela thile.
Kubalulekile ukuthi unake othandweni lweplato akukho sici socansi, ngoba ayihlosile ukugxila kulowo muntu, kepha iqondiswe ku- ingqikithi edlulele yobuhle efanelekile.
Uthando eros
Yilokho esikwazi njengothando ngokwencazelo, okungukuthi, yiyona uthando lwezithandani lokho kuvame ukuqondiswa kumuntu othile futhi kwehluke kakhulu othandweni noma emizweni esingazizwa ngayo ngokunye.
Kusho ukuqina okukhulu futhi kusunduza ekujuleni kokubili emazingeni angokomzwelo nangokomzimba, kwakheka okuvelayo okwehlukile kunezinye izinhlobo zothando ngoba futhi kunemvelo evame ukuba yi-monogram, ngoba akunakwenzeka ukuthi izwakale kanjalo. abantu ababili ngasikhathi sinye.
Kunjalo akumele sididanise uthando lwe-eros nokuheha ngokomzimba, ngoba yize lolu hlobo lothando luchaza ubulili, alugxili ngqo kulo, kepha lusebenzisa njengethuluzi lokukwazi ukujulisa ubudlelwano.
Uthando lukaLudus
Futhi-ke kukhona nalolu hlobo lothando olugxile ku ubuhlobo bokudlala, okungukuthi, lapha besizokhuluma ngakho la ukukhanga ngokomzimba nokuya ocansini kuphela, ukuze kungabikho thando lwe-eros kepha kube kuphela ukudlala ngocansi phakathi kwabantu ababili noma ngaphezulu.
Imvamisa, abantu abalandela lolu hlobo lothando baba nobunzima ekusunguleni lokho okuthiwa uthando lwe-eros, yize kungenxa yokuziphatha kwezenhlalo kujwayelekile ukuthi bazame ukukufeza, kepha kuyacaca ukuthi akuyona into engaphoqwa, ukuthi singakuzwa ukuheha komuntu kepha lokho akusho ukuthi sithandana ezingeni lothando lwe-eros.
Ngale ndlela, abalandeli be-ludus love ngokuvamile baba nobunzima bokuzibophezela, futhi ngokomzwelo bavame ukuba kude kakhulu nabantu ababazungezile.