Okufanele ngikwenze ngempilo yami

Baningi abantu abazithola besesikhathini esithile ezimpilweni zabo lapho bezizwa bemile khona, abangazi ukuthi bakhethe yiphi indlela noma benzeni ukuze bashintshe isimo sabo samanje, okungenzeka ukuthi asibenelisi ngokwanele ukuba bajabule. Kunabantu abalandela 'indlela' yezenhlalo empilweni yabo, okungukuthi, lokho okufanele bakwenze emphakathini; funda, thola umsebenzi, uqashe noma uthenge indlu, ube nezingane, uqhubeke usebenza ...

Futhi ngokuzumayo bayabona ukuthi lo msebenzi awubanelisi, ukuthi bavuka bekhathele ekuseni nokuthi impilo yabo ibingeyona into ababeyiphupha emashumini eminyaka adlule. Kepha impilo iyadlula futhi kungcono ukungachithi isikhathi ezintweni ezingasenzi sijabule.

Yini engingayenza ngempilo yami? Lo mbuzo ubuzwa yizigidi zabantu, abantu asebebonile ukuthi izimpilo zabo azikho lapho bekufanele babe khona, abazizwa bebambelele ngokungathi abakwazi ukuqhubekela phambili, abazizwa benelisekile ngempilo yabo yansuku zonke. Uma uvame ukuzibuza lo mbuzo, naka, ngoba lapho uqeda ukufunda le ndatshana uzoba nombono ocacile wokuthi kufanele uye kuphi.

Chaza ukuthi yini okukuqhubayo

Ukwazi okufanele ukwenze ngempilo yakho kufanele ucabange ngezinto okuthi uma uzenza zifake ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho. Bheka amathuba okwenza uzizwe ujabulile ngokuwenza. Udinga ukucabanga ngomsebenzi wempilo yakho hhayi imali kuphela, kodwa nokuthile othanda ukukwenza futhi okujabulelayo nsuku zonke. Akukho lutho olubi ukwedlula ukuya emahoreni ayi-8 (noma ngaphezulu) nsuku zonke emsebenzini ongakuletheli lutho, ngoba uma lokhu kwenzeka kuwe, uzovuka nsuku zonke ungafuni lutho. Umsebenzi wakho kufanele ukwenze uzizwe kahle.

Inselele yemizuzu eyi-10

Cabanga, usisebenzisa kanjani isikhathi sakho samahhala? Zama lezi zinselelo eziyi-10 izinsuku eziyi-10 ukuthola ngokusobala ukuthi wenzeni ngempilo yakho.

• Imizuzu engu-0 kuye kwengu-5: Zindla Hlala buthule uvaliwe ngamehlo bese ugxila ekuphefumuleni kwakho noma ekuhambeni (awukho umculo) imizuzu emi-5 njalo ekuseni noma kusihlwa. Kepha uma uthatha isinqumo sokuhamba, kwenze ngamehlo akho avulekile.
• Imizuzu emi-5 kuya kwengu-10. Buyekeza lokho okucabangile phakathi nemizuzu engu-5 edlule ngemuva nje kokuzindla. Bese ubhala uhlu lwemisebenzi oyijabulele emahoreni angama-24 edlule.

Ayikho kuphela 'indlela elungile' yokuphila impilo

Mhlawumbe bakufundisile ukulandela indlela yezenhlalo futhi ngaleyo ndlela 'uqinisekise ikusasa'. Kepha empeleni, ayikho indlela eyodwa kuphela efanelekile yokuphila impilo, kukhona okungaphezu kweyodwa futhi okubalulekile ukuthi uthole indlela ekwenza uzizwe kahle. Uma ungafuni ukuphuma ekhaya uye emsebenzini nsuku zonke ngoba ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nezingane zakho, cabanga ngokuthi uzosebenza kanjani ekhaya. Uma okufunayo kungumsebenzi osiza abanye abantu, funa ukuqeqeshwa okuzokukhomba kulokho ... Cabanga ngalokho okwenza uzizwe kamnandi bese uqala ukuhlwanyela indlela yakho.

Mhlawumbe lapho ufuna ukufunda izinto ezintsha uyakuyeka uhambe ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi uzobe ungalungile Mhlawumbe ukungashiyi indawo yakho yokunethezeka nokugwema amaphutha kukwenza uzizwe uvikeleke kakhulu kepha empeleni lokho kuzoholela ekwehlulekeni kuphela. Kepha ukwehluleka akukona ukwehluleka kukodwa, ngoba uma ungake wehluleke, kuzoba yindlela yokufunda indlela entsha bese uvela. Ukuthola okuthandayo kulula kakhulu uma uthola ongakuthandi nalapho ungesabi ukuthi uzokwenza iphutha.

Uma ngokwesibonelo uthanda ukuthumela ku-Instagram, kepha ungalokotha ube ngumphathi wezokuxhumana? Mhlawumbe uyakuthanda ukupheka, kodwa ubungakwazi yini ngempela ukuhamba impilo yakho ube ngumpheki omuhle? Kunendlela eyodwa kuphela yokuthola, lokho ukuzama. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala bese bonke abanye bazolandela. Khumbula ukuthi akunandaba ukuthi uneminyaka engama-20 noma engama-50 ubudala, uma ufuna ukuvuselela impilo yakho uhlala usesikhathini esifanele sokwenza lokho.

Izinselelo ngemizuzu eyi-10

Yenza lezi zinselelo zemizuzu eyi-10 ezinsukwini eziyishumi ezizayo futhi uzokwazi ukubona indlela ofuna ukuyikhetha maqondana nempilo yakho.

• Imizuzu engu-0 kuye kwengu-10: Cabanga ngokuthi umsebenzi wakho wephupho ungaba yini, noma ngabe ucabanga ukuthi awukho, yenza uhlu lwemisebenzi ongathanda ukuyenza bese ubheka izinkampani ezinikele kuwo. Futhi uma ingekho ... ungayidala kanjani?
• Imizuzu engu-0 kuye kwengu-10: Dala i-imeyili bese uyithumela ezinkampanini ezinikele emisebenzini oyithandayo. Kungenzeka bangakuphenduli, kepha usuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala ukuthola ukuthi yini oyithandayo nokuthi ufuna ukuyaphi. Ungacabanga ukuthi bayakuphendula futhi bakuqondise ukuze ufinyelele umgomo wakho?

Phuma endaweni yakho yokududuza

Ukuze wandise ama-horizons akho, kuzofanela uzame izinto ezintsha. Zama into obukade uyifuna kodwa ongakaze uyizuze, into ofuna ukuyenza kepha iyakwethusa nokuthile okuhluke kakhulu kulokho ojwayele ukukwenza.

Mhlawumbe awazi ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani ngoba awukazami okufanele ukwenze okwamanje. Futhi ngeke wazi ukuthi lokho kuliqiniso noma cha uze uphume lapho bese uqala ukulawula izinto. Kulula ukungena enkingeni futhi uzizwe sengathi awunakho okunye ongakwenza ngaphandle kwalokhu okwenzayo manje. Kodwa-ke, lapho uphuma ngaphandle kwendawo yakho yokunethezeka, uzomangala ukuthi uzogcina uthande kangakanani into ongakaze, eminyakeni eyizigidi, ucabange ukuthi ungayithanda.

Khumbula ukuthi ukwenza iphutha akulungile

Uzodinga ukufunda amakhono adingekayo ukufeza lokho ofuna ukukufeza. Isikhathi esiningi yehluleka ekuzameni kokuqala. Ungaqhubeka uhluleka, ufunde, futhi ukhule. Iphuzu okufanele likhunjulwe ukuthi lesi yisikhathi sokufunda, ukuzama, ukukhula, nokuhluleka ngaphandle kokulimala okukhulu.

Okungakukhubaza futhi kukuqinise empilweni yakho ukwesaba ukwehluleka, uma usudlulile, ngakho-ke akumele kube khona noma ngubani ozokumisa endleleni yakho yokuphila, ajabule futhi azizwe anelisekile ngalokho okwenzayo njalo usuku, noma ngabe kuyini. Noma ngabe kusebenza ekhaya, ukunakekela izingane zakho, ukufuna umsebenzi okwenza uzizwe wenelisekile noma umsebenzi ongakwenzi udinga iholide noma ngabe unawo. Awusoze wanquma ukuthi yini ekujabulisa uma ulahla konke ngoba kuzwakala kunzima.