Imishwana yokuthuthuka komuntu ingaphezu kwemisho elula ... Yileso sikhuthazi esincane ongasidinga uma usesikhathini esincane empilweni yakho. Le misho ifana nemithamo emincane yokugqugquzela ezokuvumela ukuthi ubone impilo ngenye indlela, ukubona ukuthi izinto akudingeki ukuthi zibe ngendlela ozibona ngayo manje nokuthi impilo, empeleni ... inemibala ehlukahlukene ama-nuances. Ngayiphi i-nuance ofuna ukubona impilo yakho?
Eqinisweni, imishwana yokuzithuthukisa imvamisa ikhuluma amaqiniso afana nezibhakela, okungukuthi, amaqiniso ajulile anomyalezo onamandla ozokwenza uzizwe unamandla ngaphakathi. Lawo mandla azwakala cishe kusukela ngesikhathi ufunda amagama okuqala womusho okukhulunywa ngawo.
Cabanga bese uqhubeka
Umusho, uma uwufunda ngesikhathi esifanele empilweni yakho, okuwukuthi, ngesikhathi lapho udinga ukufunda lowo musho hhayi omunye, uzokwazi ukuzibonakalisa futhi uzikhumbuze ukuthi kufanele uqhubekele phambili endleleni yakho . Kukusiza ukuthi ukhumbule ukuthi unamandla nesibindi ngaphakathi kuwe ukufeza lokho obukuhlelile ukukwenza, njalo futhi nini, ufuna ukukwenza futhi ukuthole.
Ungase ube nezikhathi zokumuka ngokomzwelo, into ejwayelekile impela empilweni namuhla. Ngeke uhlale umomotheka futhi izinto ngeke zikuhambele kahle ngaso sonke isikhathi, impilo ifana ne-roller coaster… ngokukhuphuka okuthokozisayo, kepha futhi nokwehla kwe-vertigo. Lapho uzwa ukuthi umkhathizwe ususibekele futhi awukwazi ukubona ukukhanya ekugcineni komhubhe, ke yisikhathi esihle sokuthi ube "nomthamo" omncane wemishwana yokuzithuthukisa.
Zifunde nsuku zonke
Ungafunda imishwana yokuzithuthukisa nsuku zonke ukuze ube nalokho kukhula kwansuku zonke. Itiye. Zizokusiza ukuqhubekela phambili, ukunqoba lezo zikhathi ezinzima kakhulu ngempumelelo ... Ngezansi uzokwazi eminye yemishwana ezokufanela kahle, ngoba nakanjani uzothola ezinye ezizokuvumela ukuthi uzwe umlilo wakho wangaphakathi . Yini enye, Zizokuvumela futhi ukuthi uqhubeke nokukhula ezingeni lomuntu futhi ufunde nokuba umuntu ongcono.
Uma ufuna ukuwafunda nsuku zonke, kufanele ubhale phansi lawo owathanda kakhulu, lawo ocabanga ukuthi akunikeza okudingayo njengamanje. Ungathumela futhi imishwana oyicabangayo kulabo bangane noma emndenini ocabanga ukuthi uzokwenza kahle ukufunda le misho emihle. Ungazenzela nezinto ezenziwe ngezifiso zakho ukuze ukwazi ukuhlobisa ikhaya lakho ngalezi zigatshana, njenge, yenza ishadi ngezinye zezisho ezikugqugquzela kakhulu.
Kusukela manje uye phambili ungashintsha umqondo wakho ukuze uhlale ucabanga okuhle! Uma uphumelela, impilo yakho izoba ngcono kakhulu. Ngoba khumbula, ukuba nomcabango omuhle akusho ukushiya eceleni ubunzima, kepha ngenxa yalezi zinhlobo zemicabango, uzokwazi ukubhekana nobunzima ngobuqotho obukhulu futhi ubunqobe ngempumelelo.
Amabinzana wokuthuthuka komuntu siqu
- Yiba ushintsho ofuna ukulubona emhlabeni.
- Lapho singeke sashintsha isimo esibhekene naso, inselelo ukuthi sizishintshe.
- Uma ufuna into ongakaze ube nayo, kufanele wenze into ongakaze uyenze.
- Empini yethu yokulwela inkululeko, sinesikhali kuphela: iqiniso.
- Lowo onesizathu sokuphila angabhekana nazo zonke izindlela.
- Yinye kuphela into eyenza iphupho lingenzeki: ukwesaba ukwehluleka.
- Qala ngokwenza okudingekayo, lapho-ke kungenzeka, futhi ngokuzumayo uzozithola wenza okungenakwenzeka.
- Izenzo ezincane nsuku zonke zenza noma zihlukanise uhlamvu.
- Isifunisi sangempela siyakhula futhi sifunde, bese sithola ukuthi ngaso sonke isikhathi sibhekene ngokuyinhloko nokwenzekayo.
- Ungenzi okwenziwa abanye. Yenza lokho abanye abangathanda ukukwenza kodwa ungalinge.
- Ungazinzi ngalokho okudingayo, lwela lokho okukufanele.
- Izinto ezinhle zenzeka kulabo abazilindeleyo. Okuncono? Kulabo abaya kubo.
- Umehluko phakathi kwendawo obukuyo izolo nokuthi uzoba kuphi kusasa yilokho ocabanga ukuthi uyakusho futhi ukwenze namuhla.
- Ungalibizi iphupho, libize ngohlelo.
- Inselele yempilo yami kwakungeyona enye ngaphandle kokuthola ukuthi ngingahamba kangakanani ukwenza lokho engikuthandayo.
- Konke empilweni bekungokwesikhashana, uma izinto bekukuhambela kahle, bekufanele ukujabulele. Futhi uma izinto bekukuhambela kabi, besingekho isidingo sokukhathazeka ngokweqile, ngoba bekungeke kuhlale unomphela.
- Munye kuphela umuntu onganquma ukuthi ngizokwenzani, futhi yimina uqobo.
- Bhekana nelanga futhi izithunzi zizobe sezingemuva kwakho.
- Inkazimulo enkulu akukhona ukuwina, kepha ukusukuma lapho sesiwile.
- Ulwazi oluncane olusebenzayo lubaluleke kakhulu kunokuthola ulwazi ungenzi.
- Umuntu akalokothi azi ukuthi uyakwazi ini aze azame.
- Ukuthanda umuntu ukufunda iculo enhliziyweni yakhe bese umculela uma esekhohliwe.
- Noma ngubani oyeka ukulwela iphupho lakhe unikela ngengxenye yekusasa lakhe.
- Ngikholelwa ngobuqotho ukuthi kungcono kakhulu ukwehluleka entweni oyithandayo kunokuphumelela entweni oyizondayo.
- Abanye bazokhohlwa okushilo, abanye bazokhohlwa okwenzile, kepha abasoze bakhohlwa ukuthi ubenze bazizwa kanjani.
- Ngaphambi kokuthola umphefumulo wakho kufanele uqale uthole owakho.
- Ongakuyekeli, uyakuphatha. Lokho okuphethe kukusinda. Futhi okusindayo, kuyakucwila. Zijwayeze ubuciko bokuyeka, uthethelele, futhi uyeke.
- Noma ngubani ofuna ukubona uthingo kumele azimisele ukubekezelela isivunguvungu.
- Uma kungenjalo thina, ngubani? Uma kungenjalo manje nini?
- Ukuzethemba kuyimfihlo yokuqala yokuphumelela.
- Ungahlali nje ulinde izinto eziza kuwe. Lwela okufunayo, zenzele umthwalo wemfanelo.
- Abantu abajabule ngokungaqiniseki. Kufanele ufunde ukuhlala nayo.
- Esikhundleni sokukhathazeka ngokuthi abazi, zikhathaze ngokuthi ufanele ngempela ukwazi.
- Kungcono ukwenza izinto uziveze ukuze uzisole, kunokuzisola ngokuthi awenzanga lutho.
- Kufanele ulwele ukuphila impilo, uyihlupheke futhi futhi uyijabulele. Impilo ingaba mnandi uma ungayisabi.
Le misho kanye ne imishwana yefilosofi, bangakusiza ucabange ngempilo yakho futhi ucabangisise ngezinto ... ngethemba elikhulu!