Abazali abanenkinga yokukhathazeka komphakathi Banamathuba amaningi kunabazali abanezinye izinhlobo zokukhathazeka ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni kwezingane zabo futhi bazibeke engcupheni enkulu yokuhlaselwa ukwesaba emphakathini, ngokusho kocwaningo olwenziwe eJohns Hopkins Children's Center.
Ukukhathazeka komzali bekulokhu kuxhumene nokukhathazeka kwezingane, kepha bekungacaci ukuthi kunjalo Abantu abanezinkinga ezithile zokukhathazeka baqala noma bakhuthaze izindlela zokuziphatha ezikhathazayo ezinganeni zabo. Lolu cwaningo olusha luyakuqinisekisa lokhu.
Ngokuqondile, abacwaningi baseJohns Hopkins Children's Center bathole isimilo sokuziphatha kubazali abanenkinga yokukhathazeka komphakathi (uhlobo oluvame kakhulu lokukhathazeka). Lokhu kuziphatha kufaka phakathi ukuntuleka noma ukuntuleka kothando namazinga aphezulu okugxekwa nokungabaza okwenziwa enganeni. Ukuziphatha okunjalo, ngokusho kwabaphenyi, kuyaziwa ngokwanda kokukhathazeka ezinganeni futhi kungaholela ezinganeni eziba nokukhathazeka okugcwele, kusho abacwaningi.
«Ukukhathazeka kwabazali kwezenhlalo kufanele kubhekwe ingozi ebangela ukukhathazeka kwengane, futhi odokotela abanakekela abazali abanalesi sifo kufanele baxoxe ngale ngozi neziguli zabo. "Kusho omunye wabaphenyi.
Ukukhathazeka kungumphumela wokuxhumana okuyinkimbinkimbi phakathi kofuzo nemvelokusho abacwaningi, futhi yize kungekho okuningi okumele kwenziwe emkhakheni wezofuzo, ukulawula izinto zangaphandle kungaba yinto ebalulekile yokunciphisa noma yokuvimbela ukukhathazeka ezinganeni zabazali abakhathazekile.
“Izingane ezinokuthambekela okuzuze njengefa kokukhathazeka azimane nje zikhathazeke ngenxa yezakhi zofuzo zazo, ngakho-ke esikudingayo izindlela zokukhathazeka vimba izici zemvelo (kulokhu, isimilo sabazali) »Kusho omunye wabaphenyi.
Abaphenyi bahlaziye ukuxhumana phakathi kwabazali abangama-66 abakhathazekile nezingane zabo ezingama-66 (phakathi kweminyaka engu-7 no-12 ubudala). Phakathi kwabazali, abangu-21 bake batholwa ukuthi banexhala emphakathini, kwathi abangu-45 batholakala benenye inkinga yokukhathazeka, kufaka phakathi ukukhathazeka okujwayelekile, ukuphazamiseka kovalo, kanye nokuphazamiseka okucindezela ngokweqile.
Izimbhangqwana zomzali nengane zacelwa ukuthi zisebenze ndawonye emisebenzini emibili: lungiselela izinkulumo ngabo futhi baphinde benze imiklamo eba nzima ngokwengeziwe besebenzisa idivayisi yokuqopha I-TeleSketch. Ababambiqhaza banikezwe imizuzu engu-5 ngomsebenzi ngamunye futhi basebenza kumagumbi aqashwe ngamakhamera.
Kusetshenziswa isikali esingu-1 kuye ku-5, abacwaningi balinganise uthando noma ukugxekwa kwengane, ukubonakaliswa kokungabaza ngokusebenza kwabo, amandla abo okuqedela umsebenzi, ukunikezwa kokuzimela kanye negunya labazali lokulawula.
Abazali bathola ukuthi banexhala emphakathini Bakhombise uthando oluncane ezinganeni zabo, babagxeka kakhulu futhi banokungabaza okwengeziwe ngekhono lengane lokwenza lo msebenzi.
Ukuvimbela ukukhathazeka ebuntwaneni kubalulekile ngoba ukuphazamiseka kokukhathazeka kuthinta ingane eyodwa kwezinhlanu e-United States, kepha kaningi kunganakwa, abacwaningi bathi. Ukubambezeleka kokuxilongwa nokwelashwa kungaholela ekusetshenzisweni kabi kwezidakamizwa, ukudangala, kanye nokusebenza kabi kwezemfundo ebuntwaneni nasebudaleni.
Abazali okutholwe ukuthi banexhala emphakathini babonisa uthando oluncane ezinganeni zabo, babagxeka kakhulu futhi baba nokungabaza okwengeziwe ngekhono lengane lokwenza lo msebenzi.