Sekuyisikhathi eside zinganakwa ubandlululo lomphakathi olwaluphawula ukuhleleka kwenkathi, kodwa-ke, yize ubunzima bezinganekwane, abesifazane abaningi baphakamisa amazwi abo futhi bagqama ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene lapho bekungafanele bakwazi ukwenza lokho .
Ngenxa yabo, namuhla abesifazane bajabulela inkululeko nokwamukelwa, ngoba izenzo zabo zenza umehluko, zishiya uphawu olujulile emhlabeni. Ngemuva kwalokho sikunikeza imishwana yabesifazane abadume kunabo bonke:
Uhlu lwamabinzana abesifazane adume kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi
UMarie Curie: Usokhemisi odumile wasePoland owathola i-radium, futhi ungomunye wabantu abambalwa abaklonyeliswe ngezigaba ezimbili kuNobel Prize. Wayengowesifazane wokuqala ukuthola isikhundla sokuba nguprofesa oqashwe e-University of Paris.
- Asikho isidingo sokwesaba, kufanele nje uqonde.
- Impilo enhle kakhulu akuyona ende, kepha yileyo ecebe kakhulu ezenzweni ezinhle.
- Ubuntu budinga amadoda asebenzayo awusebenzisa ngokunenzuzo umsebenzi wawo, futhi athi, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa okuhle okujwayelekile, abhekele izintshisekelo zawo. Kepha ubuntu nabo budinga abaphuphi abo ukukhula kwabo okungenabugovu kothando olubavusa kakhulu kangangokuthi akunakwenzeka ukuthi babhekele ukuzuza kwabo ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo.
UGeorge Sand: U-Amantine Dupin, wayengumbhali odabuka eFrance, ekhunjulwa ngokusebenzisa izembatho zesilisa (uGeorge Sand, kwakuyigama lowesilisa elaziwa ngalo) ukuze akwazi ukungena emibuthanweni yobuhlakani baseParis, okwakungowesifazane njengaye alikho ilungelo lokufinyelela, imicabango yakhe yenkululeko nokukhululwa ibonakala emazwini akhe:
- Umsebenzi wami ukukhululeka.
- Owesilisa nowesifazane bayinto efanayo kangangoba inani lokuhlukaniswa nokucabanga okucashile umphakathi ongena kukho kule mpikiswano akuqondakali neze.
- Uthando ngaphandle kokunconywa ubungani.
- Ubuhle obubhekiswe emehlweni kuphela ubuthakathi besikhashana, amehlo omzimba akuwona njalo omphefumulo.
U-Emily Dickinson: Wayeyimbongi yaseMelika enesizungu, ebonakala ngokugcina ubungani ngembalelwano. Ubhekwa njengomunye wabalobi abakhulu bezincwadi zaseMelika:
- Ukuhamba ibanga elide, awukho umkhumbi ongcono kunencwadi.
- Asazi ukuphakama kwethu kweqiniso size sime.
- Uma ngikwazi ukuvimbela inhliziyo ekuhluphekeni, ngeke ngiphile ngesandla.
- Ukufa ungafi, nokuphila ngaphandle kokuphila kuyisimangaliso esinzima kakhulu esiphakanyiswa ukholo.
- Ithemba yile nto enezimpaphe ehleli emphefumulweni futhi ecula ngokungapheli.
UMargaret Thatcher: UNdunankulu wase-United Kingdom, owaziwayo Owesifazane wensimbi, wayengumuntu owasebenza isikhathi eside kunabo bonke kulowo mkhakha wezepolitiki, ngaphezu kokuba ngowesifazane wokuqala ukuphatha lesi sikhundla. Abaphathi bakhe ababedla ngoludala babekwazi ukuthola igama lesidlaliso elithi "Thatcherism" kanti amabinzana akhe abesifazane ayaziwa emhlabeni wonke.
- Uma ufuna okuthile kushiwo buza indoda, uma ufuna kwenziwe, buza umuntu wesifazane.
- Indlu kufanele ibe yisikhungo, kodwa hhayi umkhawulo, wempilo yowesifazane.
- Ayikho inkululeko ngaphandle kokuthi kube nenkululeko yezomnotho.
- Akudingekile ngokuphelele ukuvumelana nomngenisi ukuze athole ulimi olufanayo naye.
UGabrielle "Coco" Chanel: Wayengumqambi waseFrance owangenisa inkathi entsha yemfashini, lapho ubulula nobukhazikhazi kwakuyinto evamile yosuku. Wayethathwa njengomunye wabantu abanethonya elikhulu ngekhulu lama-XNUMX, impilo yakhe egcwele impumelelo ingumthombo wokhuthazo:
- Isenzo esinesibindi ukuzicabangela wena, futhi sikwenze ngokuzwakalayo.
- Izikhathi ezinzima zivusa isifiso esingapheli sobuqiniso.
- Uma udabukile, faka i-lipstick bese uhlasela!
- Ubuhle buqala lapho uthatha isinqumo sokuba nguwe.
- Umuntu wesifazane yiminyaka emfanele.
UVirginia Woolf: Umbhali waseBrithani, uthathwa njengomuntu ohamba phambili ekulweleni amalungelo abesifazane. Ubekhuluma ngezihloko ebezingazange zicatshangelwe isikhathi esifana nalezi: i-neurosis, izimpi zamakilasi kanye nomphakathi waseBrithani:
- Akunasithiyo noma ilokhi ongayibeka enkululekweni yengqondo.
- Impilo iphupho, ukuvuka yikhona okubulalayo.
- Uthando luyinkohliso, indaba eyakhiwa ngumuntu engqondweni yakhe, azi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi akulona iqiniso, ngakho-ke kuyathathwa ukunakekelwa ukuze kungabhubhiswa inkohliso.
- Kusobala ukuthi izindinganiso zabesifazane zivame ukwehluka kuzindinganiso ezidalwe obunye ubulili, kepha yizindinganiso zabesilisa ezihamba phambili.
- Abesifazane baphila wonke la makhulu eminyaka njengabafazi, ngamandla omlingo futhi amnandi okukhombisa isimo sendoda, ephindwe kabili ubukhulu bayo bemvelo.
U-Audrey Hepburn: Owesifazane obalulwe njengobuhle bemvelo besikhathi sonke, akagcinanga ngokugqama ngobuso bakhe obuhle, kepha ngenxa yesizwe sakhe esimangalisayo njengenxusa leZizwe Ezihlangene e-Afrika:
- Kungani ushintsho? Wonke umuntu unesitayela sakhe, uma usuthole esakho kumele unamathele kuso.
- Ngake ngafunda: "Injabulo impilo nokukhumbula okuncane." Bekufanele ngabe ngiyenzile ngoba iyiqiniso.
- Uthando aluhlangene nakancane nalokho ofuna ukukufeza, kuphela lokho onethemba lokukunikeza; okungukuthi, konke.
- Uma ulandela yonke imithetho, uphuthelwa yibo bonke ubumnandi.
- Abesifazane abajwayelekile bazi kakhulu ngamadoda kunabesifazane abahle. Kepha abesifazane abahle abadingi ukwazi ngamadoda, ngabantu besilisa okufanele bazi ngabesifazane abahle.
UDiana waseWales: Inkosazana yabantu, ngesibindi sayo yavuselela umqondo wobukhosi baseBrithani, yafinyelela ezinhliziyweni zabantu bayo:
- Uma uthola umuntu omthandayo empilweni yakho, bambelela kulolo thando.
- Angiyilandeli incwadi enemithetho, ngiqondiswa inhliziyo nenhloko yami.
- Ukusiza labo abadinga kakhulu yingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yami, uhlobo lwesiphetho.
- Ukugona kungasiza kakhulu, ikakhulukazi ezinganeni.
I-Sor Juana Ines De La Cruz:
Wayeyindelakazi elingumKatolika le-oda leSan Gerónimo, ongumphumeleli omkhulu walokho okubizwa ngeSpanish Golden Age. Imisebenzi yakhe yahlolisiswa ngesikhathi sakhe, kepha unemishwana yabesifazane abahlala emlandweni wokugwema ukucwaninga
- Ngaphandle kokucaca alikho izwi lokuhlakanipha.
- Angifundeli ukwazi okuningi, kepha ngiziba okuncane.
- Ukubonakala okuqhakazile kungamboza okungcolile kakhulu kwamaqiniso.
- Ngitshele umnqobi onqobayo, onqotshiwe ekubekezeleni kwami. Ukuzikhukhumeza kwakho kutholeni ekuphazamiseni ukuthula kwami okuqinile?
- Lokhu kuhlushwa ngothando okungabonakala enhliziyweni yami, ngiyakwazi engikuzwayo, kepha angazi ukuthi kungani ngizwa.
UDoris Ukufunda: Umbhali waseBrithani wokuthambekela kwesifazane, ubulili bakhe obuchazwe ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe endaweni yase-Afrika, nangokudumazeka kwakhe. Wathola umklomelo weNobel Wezincwadi:
- Izinto ezincane zijabulisa izingqondo ezincane.
- Kepha yini okufanele uyenze? Ukufa kukhona, kuzofika, akunakugwenywa.
- Ubuciko yisibuko semibono yethu ekhashelwe.
- Ungafunda kuphela ukuba ngumbhali ngokubhala.
U-Anna Frank: Emhlabeni wonke owaziwa ngokubhala iphephabhuku elazamazamisa umhlaba. U-Anna Frank, umbhali waseJalimane ongowesizukulwane samaJuda, washiya uphawu lwakhe emhlabeni ngokulandisa ngamava akhe, ngenkathi efihliwe phakathi neMpi Yezwe Yesibili.
- Inqobo nje uma ungabheka isibhakabhaka ngaphandle kokwesaba, uzokwazi ukuthi umsulwa ngaphakathi nokuthi noma yini eyenzekayo uzojabula futhi.
- Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isikhali esibukhali ngumoya onomusa nobumnene.
- Angicabangi ngosizi, kodwa ngobuhle obuseyimi.
- Kuhle kanjani ukuthi akekho okufanele alinde umzuzwana ngaphambi kokuqala ukwenza ngcono umhlaba!
- Nginomuzwa wokuba yinyoni evalelwe, enamaphiko ahlukaniswe ngamandla, futhi ebumnyameni obukhulu impela, ishayisana nemigoqo esehokweni layo elincane lapho ifuna ukundiza.
U-Emilly Brönte: Washicilela umsebenzi wakhe wobuciko obhekwa njenge "Wuthering Heights" ngaphansi kwegama lomlobi u-Ellis Bell. Eminyakeni edlule, ubelokhu ebonwa njengesithonjana esibalulekile semibhalo yesiNgisi:
- Ukukhohlisa nobudlova ukuzibeka obala ekusebenziseni isikhali esika nhlangothi zombili esingalimaza umuntu osiphethe.
- Ngingafingqa ubukhona bami ngemisho emibili: ukulahlwa nokufa.
- Angazi ukuthi imiphefumulo yenziwa ngani, kodwa eyakho neyami yinto efanayo.
- Lapho kungashiwo lutho, futhi kungekho okwaziwayo, akukho nkampani.
UFrida Kahlo: Umculi waseMexico, waba yisithonjana sabesifazane ngenxa yempilo yokuhlupheka ephawulwe yimicimbi eyahlukahlukene engeyinhle, kepha wabonakala ngokuthuthukisa umbono oqondile, lapho amashwa ayengalinganiseli khona izenzo zakhe:
- Izinyawo, kungani ngizifuna, uma nginamaphiko okundiza?
- Lapho ungeke uthande khona, ungalibali.
- Yize ngithe "Ngiyabathanda abaningi benu", futhi ngike ngathandana, futhi ngaqabula abanye, ekujuleni kwenhliziyo ngikuthandile kuphela.
- Ngangicabanga ukuthi ngingumuntu ongaxakile emhlabeni, kodwa-ke ngacabanga, kunabantu abaningi emhlabeni, kufanele kube khona umuntu onjengami, ozizwa exakile futhi elimele, ngendlela engizizwa ngayo. Ngiyamcabanga, futhi ngicabanga ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi wayekhona lapho ecabanga ngami.
- Dokotela, uma ungangivumela ngithole le tequila, ngiyathembisa ukuthi ngeke ngiphuze emngcwabeni wami.
Elizabeth Allende: Umbhali waseChile, owabaleka ezweni lakubo ngesikhathi sikahulumeni ka-Augusto Pinochet ngokuba ushushiswa ngokwezepolitiki. Uwine umklomelo kaHans Christian Andersen, ngoba izindaba zakhe zibe namandla okubamba abafundi bakhe futhi lapho izinkulumo zakhe ezibhekiswe kwabesifazane zihlala emlandweni.
- Ukufa akukho, abantu bafa kuphela uma bekukhohliwe; Uma ungangikhumbula, ngiyohlala nginawe njalo.
- Ngifunde kusenesikhathi ukuthi lapho ufuduka ulahlekelwa yizinduku ezisebenze njengokwesekela kuze kube yileso sikhathi, kufanele uqale phansi, ngoba okwedlule kuyasulwa ngohlangothi, futhi akekho onendaba nokuthi uvelaphi nokuthi wenzeni ngaphambilini.
- Ngibe ngumngcele impilo yami yonke, isimo engisamukele ngoba anginayo enye indlela.
- Ngiyazisola ngokudla, izitsha ezimnandi ezinqatshelwe ize, njengoba nje ngizisola ngezikhathi zokwenza uthando engikuphuthelwe ngenxa yokwenza, noma ubuhle be-puritanical.
U-Alfonsina Storni: Wayeyimbongi yase-Argentina enemvelaphi yaseSwitzerland, aziwa ngephrozi lakhe lobufazi. Uzibulale eMar de Plata, ngenxa yokudangala okukhulu okwamhlukumeza ngenxa yokuxilongwa umdlavuza webele. Izinkondlo zakhe ezinokuthinta kwezothando zakhanga umhlaba:
- Angizange ngimbulale ngezikhali, ngamnika ukufa okubi kakhulu: ngamanga kamnandi ngaphula inhliziyo yakhe.
- Namuhla inyanga ingibuka, imhlophe futhi ayihlukani. Kuyafana nobusuku bokugcina, kuyafana nakusasa.
- Yimiphi imihlaba enginayo ngaphakathi komphefumulo wami ebikade ngiyicela isikhathi eside ukuba indize?
- Ngacela izinkanyezi izilimi ezicacile, amagama amahle kakhulu. Izinkanyezi ezimnandi zinginike impilo yakho, futhi ngithole iqiniso elilahlekile emehlweni akho.
ULouise Hay: Umbhali odumile waseMelika ongowenhlangano entsha yobudala, izincwadi zakhe zibe neqhaza elikhulu ekwelapheni okucabangayo okuhle:
- Ukube abazali bakho bebengazi ukuthi bangazithanda kanjani, bekungeke kwenzeke kubo ukuthi bakufundise ukuthi uzithande kanjani. Benza konke ababengakwenza ngalabo ababefundiswe besebancane.
- Amandla ahlala ekhona okwamanje.
- Uma ngifuna ukwamukelwa njengoba nginjalo, ngidinga ukuzimisela ukwamukela abanye njengoba benjalo.
- Funda kokudlule futhi ukudedele, phila esikhathini samanje.
- Lapho kunenkinga, akukho okumele kwenziwe, kukhona okumele ukwazi.