Ukuhlanganiswa o ukuxhumana kwentsha Lokhu akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela elula, ngenxa yezimo ezahlukahlukene ezidala uchungechunge lwemizwa, kufaka phakathi amahloni abenza bahoxe kubantu abangabazi.
Lokhu akuhlali kuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngoba kubhebhethekisa ukungazethembi, kungathinta ukuzethemba futhi kukhulise namathuba okuthi umuntu omusha abe nobuntu futhi angazizwa amukelekile. Kuphinda kuthinte kakhulu lapho kwenziwa umsebenzi weqembu, kungaba ngokwesikhungo noma kwenye indawo.
Ngakho-ke kunezinombolo eziningi ze- amasu, amasu nemisebenzi lokho kugxile kakhulu kumaqembu, kuhlose ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu, kulokhu abantu abasha, ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuma ngokungabi nalwazi lwangaphambili. Eqinisweni, ukubamba iqhaza kungaba isenzo esiholela ekwethulweni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kudala imiphumela emihle eminingi, njengokudala indawo enobungani evumela abantu abasha ukuthi bafune ukubamba iqhaza. Njengoba sishilo ngaphambili, kuyasiza futhi ukweqa lawo mabhulokhi nemingcele yomuntu siqu, ebekwe ngokungazi nangamandla amakhulu.
Iqiniso lokuthi abantu bafunda ngokufakwa, ngokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu, alinakushiywa ngaphandle. Ngaphezu kwalokho ngeke bafunde nje kuphela kepha bazokuzwa nokubaluleka kokusebenzisana.
Ngezansi, sikhetha amandla weqembu wabantu abasha esikholwa ukuthi athandwa kakhulu futhi asebenza kahle. Ungathola okubonisiwe ngokuya ngesidingo sakho.
Amandla weqembu ahamba phambili
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Lokhu kuhle ngokuphula iqhwa futhi uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala sokuzama ukuthuthukiswa kwezokuxhumana phakathi kwentsha. Kodwa-ke, kufanele ube nokuhleleka okuhle futhi ube nobuchule bobabili lapho usiphakamisa futhi kufinyelela ezingeni lesifundo sakho. Isizathu ukuthi kungenza ukuthi kungakhululeki kwabaningi, ngakho-ke umuntu omusha kufanele akhuthazwe ukuba yingxenye yobungani obedlula bonke, okumenza azizwe ezethemba futhi ngaleyo ndlela abeke ihlazo eceleni.
Enye yezinto ezenziwa iqembu labantu abasha ngokususelwa ekulingiseni lapho uzokwenza khona isethulo sakho kwamanye amalungu eqembu. Ngendlela efanayo, okuqukethwe kungahlukahluka futhi esikhundleni sokwenza i-auto-biography ungenza isethulo ngemibono yakho noma iziphetho zokuzivocavoca noma isihloko sokufunda phambi kwezithameli ezingaphinde zenziwe kabusha futhi zibonwe ngenye indlela kunontanga.
Ukwenza lezi zinhlobo zezinto kubalulekile ngoba ngaphezu kwamanani okulethayo, uzofunda nokwenza isakhiwo embukisweni wokuqukethwe futhi wazi ukuthi ungazethula kanjani ngendlela ebumbene, okusho ukuthi, icace, icacile.
Ungakwenza kanjani? Zazise kwabanye abazama ukuphendula le mibuzo (isuselwa kubantu abasha, kepha ingahle ilungiswe ngokuya ngeminyaka nangokomongo): ube yini umuzwa wakho wangaphambilini? Kungani unqume ukuba yingxenye yaleli qembu? Yini ongayinikela noma ongakwazi ukuyinikela kwabanye?
Ungangeza nemininingwane yakho efana negama lakho eligcwele, iminyaka, indawo ohlala kuyo nokuthi ziyini izintshisekelo zakho ezifundweni, emsebenzini nasekuzijabuliseni.
Ukulingiswa kwengxoxo
Lo msebenzi uqukethe ukuzibeka njengomuntu ozongenela ukhetho ukuze ufeze indima yokuba nenhlolokhono esimweni esithile esisunguliwe, omunye umuntu kube ngundabuzekwayo bese kuthi yena, abe ngumlingiswa ofanelekile kokuqukethwe okwenziwe kabusha.
Phakathi kwezibonelo ezisetshenziswe kakhulu yilezo zomthengisi okhuluma nekhasimende; futhi lokho komphathi ozoqasha isisebenzi noma angadlala uthisha nomfundi. Inhloso yalokhu kuvivinya ngokwemiyalo ukubeka i-hamakhono okuxhumana ongaba nayo, ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezibafunayo.
Ngabe usuvele unomsebenzi wakho wokulingisa futhi awazi ukuthi uzobuza ini? Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungowesikhundla esiphakeme noma kunalokho, obuza imibuzo, imibuzo engcono kakhulu ongayenza yilena: Uzibonakalisa kanjani? Yimiphi imibuzo oyibuzayo? Iyiphi inhloso oyifunayo ngemibuzo yakho? Ngabe ubuza imibuzo efanele? Noma ezinye ezinjalo.
Ekuthuthukisweni komdlalo bazokwazi ukubona izindlela eziningi ezingasetshenziswa ukubikezela ukusebenza, izimpendulo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bazi ubuntu bomlingani. Ekugcineni, inhloso njengehlaya yalolu hlobo lokuguquguquka kweqembu kubantu abasha, kuya ngokuthi iyini indima, ukunquma ukuthi ngabe ungumuntu olungele yini noma cha. Futhi inhloso yayo yangempela ukukusiza ubhekane neqembu elinamandla, unethuba lokukhombisa amakhono akho namakhono akho.
Ukuzivocavoca Ukuzivocavoca
Lokhu kusekelwe kufayela le- ukwenza ukuhlaziywa kungaba ngawodwana, njengombhangqwana noma ngamaqembu amancane. Isihloko singaba yinoma yini, noma kunjalo, ukuheha kungaba ulwazi oluyinkimbinkimbi oluphathelene nezindaba, isimo samanje sezwe, izinkolelo nezindlela zokucabanga (ngokwesibonelo, uyavumelana nomthetho wakamuva osunguliwe? Ucabanga ukuthi yini kwenzeke?, phakathi kwabanye).
Kungakhathalekile ukuthi isihloko sithini, izidingo zalokhu: ukukhomba imininingwane efanele noma imininingwane, ukuthi imininingwane yakhiwe ngendlela ezwakalayo futhi ishukumise iziphetho maqondana nalokhu okungenhla, kufanele kubhekwe. Kungacelwa futhi ukuthi amaphuzu wokubuka abaluleke kakhulu akhonjwa ngemibuzo.
Udinga izibonelo? Enye yezindawo zokuzijabulisa ezithandwa kakhulu futhi ezisetshenzisiwe ukukholwa ukuthi useNkampanini lapho kwenzeke okuthile okuphawulekayo okumele bakunakekele, kepha okokuqala banochungechunge lobuthakathaka namandla angenakushiywa ngaphandle lapho kukhethwa isinqumo. Okushoyo kunembile kakhulu? Kungani kufanele kube lokhu hhayi okunye? Ingabe kufanele uqondiswe ubuthakathaka noma amandla? Sibhekana kanjani nesimo
Futhi uma kwenzeka kumayelana nesihloko esithile, isimo sangempela noma izindaba: kwenzekeni? Ngubani okushoyo? Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi kuliqiniso? Ucabanga ngani? Futhi vumela ingxoxo igeleze ukuphakamisa imibuzo eminingi iyodwa.
Dynamics yeqembu noma Ingxoxo
Ngenye yezinto ezisebenza kahle kakhulu kubantu abasha futhi icishe ifane naleyo eyedlule, kepha inokuthile okuyisici sayo futhi ukugqamisa noma ukuveza imibono ephikiswa ngabantu eqenjini abangahlanganyeli ukucabanga okufanayo.
Kulokhu, kuvela isimo esiyinkinga esiphonsa imithombo ehlukahlukene yokuqonda ukuze iqembu lixoxe ngalo lize lifinyelele kwisisombululo ngokuhlanganyela. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi, kulezi zivivinyo, imvamisa akukho mpendulo "eyiyo" noma "engalungile", ngoba lokho akuyona into emayelana nayo, noma ngabe kukhona efana nayo; izoqhubeka nokwabiwa ngabathile hhayi abanye. Ngokuvamile, kumayelana nokuba sezimweni eziyinkimbinkimbi lapho ukungabi khona kwemininingwane kuvumela ingxoxo phakathi kwabantu okumele bathole isixazululo, kuya ngokuthi inkinga noma umehluko uhlaselwa kanjani.
Izibonelo? Iqembu lihlangana ukwenza umsebenzi, kepha kulokhu kunemithetho ethile esebenza, njengokusebenzisa amathuluzi amane kuphela kwali-4, ungakhetha yiphi? kungani? Ngokufana nale ndlela kunezibonelo ezingapheli nobunzima obukhulu nakakhulu.
Kungaba futhi ukuveza isihloko esilula kepha esinengxabano, njengobukhona bukaNkulunkulu, ukwamukelwa kobungqingili nezihloko ezahlukahlukene ezingangaholela esiphethweni esithile, kepha uma ukugqugquzela ukubekezelelana phakathi kwabantu, kanye nenhlonipho nokunemba kwezinye izindlela zokucabanga ngaphandle kweyakho uqobo.
Ukuzivocavoca "kubhasikidi"
Emandleni weqembu labantu abasha akusebenzi kangako. Kuqukethe ukukunikeza ngemibhalo eminingi ongayithola nganoma yiluphi usuku olujwayelekile empilweni yakho yokufunda, yobungcweti noma yangasese; Kulokhu, lezo ezihambisana nomongo zikhethwa kakhulu, futhi njengoba zingabantu abasha, kungaba ukusebenza noma ukutadisha okufana nezincwadi, amanothi angaphakathi, ama-invoyisi, ukufingqwa kolwazi lokuphatha, amanothi obuchwepheshe nezikhalazo. Ngakho-ke inhloso ukuhlela kahle konke okulethiwe, ngokuya ngemigomo yakho, ngaphezu kokukwenza ngesikhathi esilinganiselwe.
Isibonelo? Kufanele u-ode ngemizuzu emibili yonke imibhalo onayo etafuleni uyenze ngendlela othanda ngayo, inqobo nje uma uhambisana nesikhathi onikezwa sona. Ngabe uyi-oda kanjani? Yiziphi izindlela ozilandelayo? Uqala ngaphi
Imidlalo Yamabhizinisi
Iyaqhubeka ukulingisa izimo nezimo, kulokhu kukuthize kwezebhizinisi nakwebhizinisi, lapho kufanele kwenziwe khona eqenjini noma izinqumo ezilukhuni nezilandelanayo ngazinye, okusho ukuthi, enye iholela komunye kuze kutholakale umphumela. Imvamisa unokwesekwa kwamathuluzi ekhompyutha nawokuxhumana akhona endaweni yebhizinisi njengamakhompyutha, amathebulethi, ucingo, ifeksi, phakathi kokunye.
Kungomunye wemisebenzi yeqembu yabantu abasha ehlose ukusungula ukuxhumana kokuhlukahluka okuvelayo lapho kunesimo esinzima futhi "sangempela", okwenza isinyathelo ngasinye osithathayo siholele kokulandelayo futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuthi izinqumo ebezithathwa kwasekuqaleni, yilezo ezibeka umkhawulo wokugcina womsebenzi.
Isibonelo? Okunye okusetshenziswe kakhulu ukuzinika uchungechunge lwemisebenzi ukubona ukuthi wenzani kuqala. Ukuzilibazisa okusetshenziswa kakhulu nokunconywayo ukucabanga ukuthi usehhovisi onakho konke okusetshenziswayo futhi kuzofanele ugcwalise ngaphansi kwemizuzu emi-2 uhlu lwemisebenzi ebandakanya ukwenza amakhophi amathathu edokodo lomhlangano ozoqala ngo imizuzu embalwa, shaya ucingo oluphuthumayo, wenze iziprints ozozisebenzisa emhlanganweni bese uthumela ifeksi kwiklayenti elinamahora alindile. Ungazihlela kanjani? Yini ongayibeka kuqala? Ukuzivocavoca okungakuvumela ukuthi ubonge izinto ngobuntu bakho lapho wenza izinto, uvumela abanye ukuthi babone ubuhle bakho futhi bakunikeze izincomo zokuthi wena uqobo ulungise lokho okubheka njengokuyiphutha.
Imidlalo yeqembu yokuguquguquka
Konke akukwazi ukuba kubucayi noma ngenhloso yokufunda ukwenza imisebenzi kusetshenziswa izindlela ezithile okuthi, noma kungenzima, kepha kube semngceleni wesicefe.
Kukhona futhi nemidlalo ehlukahlukene yokuzilibazisa efuna ukujabulisa nokwenza amandla weqembu kubantu abasha futhi iqembu lisesimweni esimnandi futhi ngenxa yalokho lisiza ukuhlangana - ngendlela engaphoqiwe- phakathi kwabo.
Ibhola lokubuza
Ngokufana nomdlalo wokwethula, kulokhu ibhola kufanele lidluliswe lisuka esandleni liye ngasikhathi sinye lapho kuhlatshelelwa ingoma, kuze kube yilapho okhethiwe eqenjini (evale amehlo) kunguye ophakamisa isandla ukumisa ukuzivocavoca umzimba. Noma ngubani othole ibhola kumele asho igama lakhe, ubudala, lapho ahlala khona nezinto azithandayo. Futhi qhubekani kuze kufike iningi; Ngaphandle kokuthi kube ngumuntu osezethule futhi, iqembu lelo linelungelo lokumbuza umbuzo.
Ngekhanda amagama
Lo mdlalo uqukethe ukwakha umbuthano onemibuzo futhi umholi weqembu kufanele aqale ngokusho igama lakhe, abize omunye umdlali. Isibonelo, "uMaría ubiza uPedro" futhi uPedro kufanele aphendule ngokushesha ngokubiza omunye asebenza naye ngegama.
Noma ngubani ongaphenduli ngokushesha noma owenza iphutha, kufanele akhokhe imali yokuhlawuliswa imali, okuvame ukuthi kube ukutshela ihlaya, ukucula noma ukwenza umusa phakathi kweqembu (gwema ukubhuqa). Inhloso yalokhu kushukumiseka ukubenza bazane ngokukhumbula amagama, ubuso, ukushukuma komzimba noma ukusabela okuthile abanye abangaba nakho ezimweni ezahlukahlukene.
Amazwi
Emandleni weqembu labantu abasha inhloso yawo ukwethula nokugqwayiza, ngakho-ke kufanele kwenziwe kusetshenziswa amathuluzi afana namakhadi abenezicucu ezibhalwe phambilini. Kokunye isisho siyaqala futhi kwesinye siyaphela.
Izinto eziguquguqukayo zizoba ukusabalalisa ikhadi emphakathini futhi bona, ngesisho abanaso, kumele bathole abalingani babo abazoligcwalisa. Kamuva, lapho sebendawonye bese benza izithandani, kufanele bethule isisho sokuthi bobabili banaso.
Lokhu kungangaYize le ndatshana inikezelwe ngamandla weqembu labantu abasha, kungumsebenzi obuye uguqulelwe izingane nabantu abadala. Kungumdlalo ongahlala phakathi kwemizuzu eyi-10-15, kuya ngenani lamalungu.
Wonke amalungu eqembu ahlala azungeza futhi azoqala ngokulandelana futhi ngamunye ngamunye, abuze umuntu ohlezi ngakwesokunene sakhe ngokuzwakalayo, uyazi ukuthi yini i-hug? Umuntu ohlezi ngakwesokunene salowo obuza umbuzo kufanele aphendule ukuthi abazi. Bese bayanga, bese umuntu ophendulile waya kumuntu owedlule bese ephendula, "Angiqondanga, unganginika omunye?"
Kamuva baphinde babambane, umuntu obemgonile ubuza umbuzo ofanayo kumlingani wakhe ongakwesokudla, enza umsebenzi ofanayo ababekade bewenza naye ngaphambili nokunye kuze kube wonke amalungu eqembu sebekwazile futhi sebekwazile.
I-grill kagesi
Ngalokhu kufanele ufake iqembu ngaphakathi kwendilinga ozoyenza ngentambo futhi kufanele umise umthetho, wokuthi kufanele bahambe ngaphandle kokuthinta intambo, noma insimu engabonakali ephakathi komhlaba nentambo.
Yiliphi ikhambi elingcono kakhulu? Dlula lapho futhi uma ungazi ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani, cabanga kancane, akunzima. Ngalo msebenzi, uzoba nethuba lokubona nokuhlaziya ikhono umuntu ngamunye analo ekuxazululeni izinkinga, kanye nokusebenzisana kwabo kanye nentshiseko yokubamba iqhaza. Futhi uma kuyinkinga yokuba nezinkinga, yenza iziphakamiso futhi ubasize, umkhondo omuhle kungaba ngowabantu abadala ukusiza ukuhambisa abancane.
Umdlalo webhaluni
Impela usuyayazi vele ukuthi iyiphi lena, kulena ungaqala ngokuhlelwa kwamaqembu amabili abantu ababili lilinye, futhi umbhangqwana ngamunye kufanele uhambe noma uhambe ngokushesha okukhulu, ngebhaluni phakathi kwawo ngaphandle kokuthi liwele phansi iflethi.
Futhi uma bekwazi ukufinyelela enhlosweni, engeza ilungu elisha kuzithandani, bese ufaka elinye ibhaluni nokunye. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ibhaluni liyohlala liyilokho okuphakathi komuntu ngamunye futhi kufanele lisondele ngokwanele ukuze kungabikho mabhaluni awe, noma ukuze angaqhumi.
uyazi! Khetha indlela okufanele bayenze futhi akulula kangako, futhi ayide kangako ukuze ingadinisi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi iqembu ngalinye kufanele likhule nelungu elisha njalo.
Lokhu kuyisimo esinamandla esingajabulisi nje kuphela, kodwa futhi sinikeza nethuba lokufundisa izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi ezivame ukushiywa ngemuva, njengevelu lokulinda ukubumbana futhi sisebenze njengeqembu ukufeza inhloso.
Ngena kugebe!
Kunemidlalo eminingi esiza ukukhuthaza ukwethembana phakathi kwabantu abakha iqembu futhi ukuxhumana kuyisisekelo. Omunye wemisebenzi ethandwa kakhulu ukuwela ezandleni zomlingani onomsebenzi wokukuxhasa ukuze ungawi phansi.
Akufanele uphoqe noma ngubani ukuthi abambe iqhaza, zama nje ukugqugquzela futhi uphikelele ngobuqili kuze kube yilapho bezizwa bekulungele futhi bevuma ukudlala ngentando yabo.
Uma sebebambe iqhaza futhi baphonse emuva futhi nabalingani babo bayakusekela. Uqala ukubuza ngakho konke abake babhekana nakho, lokho kwesaba ukuwa, ukuhlangabezana nento entsha, ukugxuma esikhaleni, ukuzilimaza kanye nokunye ukungabaza okungabavumeli ukuthi bavele.
Kamuva, udinga ukukhuluma ngokuthi bazizwa kanjani lapho bezizwa bephephile ezandleni zozakwabo, abangabazi ngokuphelele.
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuvivinya umzimba okusiza kakhulu ekusebenzisaneni, ukwethembana nezinye izinqubo zokwenza intsha ihlangane, njengeqembu eliyilo futhi elenziwe.