Wake wazibuza yini egqugquzela abantu ukuthi baqhubekele phambili beshiya konke ukwesaba kwabo ngemuva? Bakwenza kanjani lokhu? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi nawe ungakwenza?
Olunye lwamaketanga amakhulu esizabela wona ukuthi asikwazi ukwenza izinto ezintsha ngoba sinokwesaba okunamandla kokungaziwa.
Impela wake wayizwa le nkulumo "Lolu usuku lokuqala lwempilo yami yonke". Kuyinkulumo ekhuthazayo kakhulu ezosisiza ukuthi sithole lawo mandla esiwadingayo ukuze sikwazi ukuqhubeka.
Ngokulandelayo sizokunikeza amaqhinga amancane ayi-10 azosisiza ukuba sikhulelwe impilo ngendlela ehluke kakhulu.
1. Hlakulela ubuntu bakho
Hlala uthembekile ezimisweni zakho futhi uzofinyelela ezinhlosweni zakho. Funda emaphutheni ukudala ubuntu bakho obunamabhomu. Ngale ndlela uzokwazi ukuthuthukisa ubuwena.
Uyazikhethela ukuthi uzokwakha kanjani ubuntu bakho futhi akudingeki wesabe ukuthi uzokwazi ukucasula othile ngakho.
2. Thatha isikhathi sakho
Ukuthatha noma yisiphi isinyathelo kulokhu kuphila kulula ukuthatha isikhathi esithile ... kepha hhayi kakhulu. Kufanele ugweme kokubili ukushesha nokungabaza.
3. Yiba ngumlingiswa ophambili wempilo yakho
Khohlwa bonke laba bantu abathi awusoze wafinyelela enhlosweni yakho. Uyi-protagonist yempilo yakho futhi uyazi ukuthi uzokwazi ukufeza konke obeka ingqondo yakho kukho.
4. Hlola izingozi
Kule mpilo kubalulekile ukuzibeka engcupheni ukuze uzuze ... kodwa-ke, qiniseka ukubala zonke izingozi ukuze ubone ukuthi zinenzuzo ngempela yini ngokususelwa kunhloso ofuna ukuyifeza.
I-5 Funda
Yize kweyokuqala sathi kufanele sinamathele ezimisweni zethu, kuyathakazelisa ukuthi "sizivuselele" ngolwazi olusha olungasisiza.
6. Imicabango emihle
Susa kuwe yonke leyo micabango emibi ekhombisa ukuthi awukwazi ukufeza indlela yakho. Layisha phezulu imicabango emihle futhi uzobona ukuthi into eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu igcina ilula kanjani.
7. Ukwenza ngcono
Leli phuzu lixhumanisa nelangaphambilini. Zama ukuzazi ngokujulile futhi uhlaziye zonke izici zobuntu bakho ongazithuthukisa. Ukuzazi wena kuyisinyathelo sokuqala esithathwa njengesiyinhloko lapho kunqunywa isu noma elinye isu lokukwazi ukufeza inhloso oyifunayo.
8. Naka imininingwane
Le mpilo igcwele imininingwane emincane engaziwa uma siyiphila ngokushesha ngaphandle kokuyinaka. Impilo ayiqukethe ikusasa noma okwedlule, kodwa eyamanje. Sebenzisa yonke imvelo yakho ukukhipha imininingwane eminingi ngangokunokwenzeka.
9. Sungula izibopho
Akudingeki sesabe ukukhombisa uthando lwethu kwabathandekayo. Akunandaba ukuthi usemndenini, othandweni noma endaweni yobungani. Hlala utshela abantu ukuthi uzothini kubo. Ngeke wazi ukuthi yiliphi ithuba elingavela engxoxweni.
10. Bingelela bese uvalelisa
"Sawubona" kanye "nokuvalelisa" kuyindlela edingekayo yokuxhumana. Funda ukusondelana nanoma ngubani, noma ngabe awumazi. Ngale ndlela ungangenisa abantu abasha empilweni yakho abangaba nendima efanelekile.