Ngangivame ukuba mubi uma kukhulunywa beka izaba. Ngisasebenza ngakho. Uma usuyekile ukwenza okuthile ngenxa yezaba ezingenasisekelo (ukuze ususe umthwalo wakho wemfanelo) uqala ukwakha umkhuba empilweni yakho ongaphikisana nokufeza izintshisekelo zakho. Ungaba yinkosi yangempela yezaba.
Uma ufuna ukuphatha impilo yakho futhi ubhekane nomsebenzi wakho ngokuzimisela nangogqozi, kufanele ukuvume lokho izaba azinasisekelo sanhlobo. Ziyisithiyo sakho ukuzithuthukisa.
Izibonelo zezaba
"Angikwazi ukuthola umsebenzi ongcono ngoba angifanele"
"Angikwazi ukunciphisa umzimba ngoba anginaso isikhathi sokuzivocavoca"
"Akufanele ngikhulume nalowo muntu ngoba angimthandi", njll.
Isakhiwo esiyisisekelo sinje:
"Angikwazi ukwenza {okuthile engikufunayo} ngoba ngicabanga ukuthi {kukhona okungikhawulelayo}."
Sikhuluma ngokunciphisa izinkolelo ezilawulwayo. Ungashintsha indlela ocabanga ngayo.
Kukhona ividiyo ka Tony Robbins eza kahle kulolu hlobo lwesihloko. Ngikushiya nevidiyo: (ungakhohlwa ukusebenzisa imibhalo engezansi ngeSpanishi)