Ngingathanda ukuthi ubuke kuqala le vidiyo elandelayo engiyilungiselele njengesingeniso.
Imayelana nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uLaura Royo futhi kule vidiyo usimema ukuba sithole amakhono ethu okuthuthukisa izimpilo zethu:
[i-mashshare]Ukuthola nokuthuthukisa amakhono ethu kungasinikeza ugqozi nomdlandla, futhi ngenxa yokwazi ukuthi ziyini, singazibuza ukuthi singathanda ukwenzani ngazo futhi thola ukuthi yini inhloso yethu kule mpilo.
Uma siphila impilo ehambisana namakhono ethu esazalwa nawo noma lokho kusishiya nesikhala ukuze sikuthuthukise, sizozizwa singenile ukuvumelana y ngijabule nosuku lwethu usuku nosuku futhi lokhu kuzoba nomthelela oqondile ne ukwaneliseka komuntu y injabulo.
Ngiyakubuza futhi IMIBUZO EMITHATHU ukuthi ngikuphonsa kuvidiyo ukuze ukwazi ukuzifunda futhi uthathe isikhathi sokuphendula ngokuzola:
1) Yimiphi leyo misebenzi, imisebenzi noma izenzo othi uma uzenza zikwenze uzizwe ukhululeke uze ulahlekelwe ngumkhondo wesikhathi?
2) Yiziphi izinto ozenzayo ezihlaba umxhwele abanye abantu futhi okulula ukuthi uzenze futhi ezingadingi mzamo omkhulu?
3) Ucabanga ukuthi yini ongayinikela emphakathini uma uthuthukisa amakhono akho owazalwa nawo?
Ukuze ukwazi ukuthola amakhono akho okuzalwa, kubalulekile ukuthi uzivumele uthathwe ngu:
- ukuthi uzizwa kanjani unentshisekelo, ukuthi
- itiye kuyathakazelisa y
- itiye xhuma nesikhathi samanje futhi kukwenza ukhohlwe konke okunye phakathi kwalowo msebenzi.
Ngizokunikeza isibonelo sansuku zonke:
Ake sithi uthanda ngempela ukuya kuma-movie. Lapho uhleli esihlalweni sobukhosi egumbini lokuphumula ubukele i-movie futhi indaba ikukopisha, ungena ngokugcwele esikrinini, ukhohlwe konke okunye bese ukhomba ngomlingiswa oyedwa noma abaningi, uyahleka, wesabe noma ukhale ukube ubuphila ngendaba abakutshela yona.
Yilokhu engikushoyo uma ngikhuluma ngokuba kuxhunywe ne- the here and now futhi kungenye yezinto ezibonisa kakhulu okwenzayo okuthile okubandakanya wena ngo-100% futhi uyayithanda.
"Ithalente, ubukhulu obukhulu, yindaba yokuphikelela."
UFrancisco Umbral
Lesi sibonelo sebhayisikobho singachazwa ngempilo yakho yangempela lapho, uxhunywe namathalente akho ozalwa nawo, ukwazi ukuzinika isikhala zithuthukise, uzijabulele futhi uze uphile impilo oyifunayo ngokwenza amakhono akho abe yindlela yakho yokuphila noma umsebenzi wakho.
Ungakhohlwa iqiniso lokuthi lokhu akusilo umbhede wama roses nokuthi ukuthuthukisa impilo oyifunayo ezingeni lobungcweti kuzobandakanya umzamo omkhulu nokuzibophezela kokungayeki ukuzama nokubhekana nobunzima ongahlangabezana nabo.
Ngincoma ukuthi uphuphe okukhulu kepha ugcine izinyawo zakho phansi.
UKUQALA ungamaka i- ilitshe elincane futhi ulwe ukuze uzinike isikhathi sokuyithuthukisa futhi lapho uzobona.
Kungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe wesaba ukwehluleka noma ukuthi bazothini njengoba ngakutshela kwividiyo edlule lapho sabona khona isihloko sokunganeliseki ngokuphila, futhi kungaba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukuthola ukuthi yini ngempela ekwenza ukwenze ngijabule.
Umuntu ngamunye wehlukile futhi ayikho ibhukwana elisho ukuthi yini ezovumela umuntu ngamunye ukuthi azuze ukugcwaliseka komuntu siqu.
Kuzofanele uzitholele wena futhi uma ungakwazi, uhlobo lomsebenzi we-psychoanalytic luzokuvumela ukuthi uphinde uzithole futhi uqede ukwesaba kwakho.
Ngifuna ukwabelana nawe ngesilinganiso sokubonisa:
"Ukuhlakanipha okukhulu ukuthi sibe namaphupho amakhulu ngokwanele ukuthi singalahlekelwa yiwo njengoba siqhubeka nawo."
William Faulkner
Ukubingelela okuhle,
ULaura Royo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo