Ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo kubhekwa njengesici esibalulekile sempumelelo nenjabulo, hhayi emsebenzini kuphela kepha ebudlelwaneni bethu nakwezinye izingxenye zempilo yethu.
Yini echaza abantu abahlakaniphe ngokomzwelo? Ngemuva kwalokho ngikushiya nale mikhuba eyisikhombisa yabantu abanokulingana okuphezulu kwemizwelo.
1) Gxila kokuhle.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi abazinaki izindaba ezimbi kodwa lokho benza isinqumo esihlakaniphile sokungachithi isikhathi esiningi namandla ezinkingeni.
Esikhundleni salokho, bagxila kokuhle esimweni futhi bafune izixazululo zenkinga. Laba bantu bagxila kulokho abakwaziyo ukukwenza, okulawulwa yibo.
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2) Zizungeze abantu abahle.
Abantu abanenani eliphakeme lokuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo bachitha isikhathi bengalaleli izikhalazo futhi bathambekele ekugwemeni abantu ababi.
Abantu abanegegetive bachitha amandla. Abantu abahlakaniphile ngokomzwelo bachitha isikhathi nabanye abantu abanethemba futhi babona uhlangothi oluqhakazile empilweni.
Ungababona kalula laba bantu njengo bavame ukumamatheka kakhulu futhi bahehe abanye abantu abahle.
3) Babeka imingcele yokuqina lapho kudingeka.
Ngokuya ngemvelo yabo enobungane futhi evulekile, bangabonakala bengazikhohlisi kwabanye abantu. Kodwa-ke, abantu abane-quotient yemizwelo ephezulu bayakwazi ukusetha imingcele futhi baqinise lapho kudingeka.
Zibonisa imfudumalo nokucabangela, kodwa zime phansi ngasikhathi sinye.
Azenzi izitha ngokungadingekile. Balinganisa izimpendulo zabo ezimeni lapho kungahle kube khona ukungqubuzana. Bacabanga ngaphambi kokuba bakhulume futhi bathathe isikhathi ukwehlisa umoya.
4) Bacabanga ngekusasa, hhayi esidlule.
Abantu abane-quotient ephakeme ngokomzwelo bamatasa kakhulu bacabanga ngazo zonke izindlela ikusasa elibaphathele zona ukuchitha isikhathi ezintweni ezazingasebenzi esikhathini esedlule.
Bafunda emaphutheni abo adlule. NAbaboni ukwehluleka njengokuhlala unomphela.
5) Babheka izindlela zokwenza impilo ibe mnandi kakhulu, ijabule futhi ithakazelise.
Kungaba semsebenzini, ekhaya, noma nabangani, abantu abane-quotient ephezulu ngokomzwelo Bayazi ukuthi yini ebenza bajabule futhi bafuna amathuba okwandisa injabulo yabo.
Bayajabula ukubona abanye abantu bejabule futhi benelisekile, futhi benza konke okusemandleni abo ukwenza usuku lomuntu othile.
6) Bafunda ngokuqhubekayo.
Abantu abane-coefficient ephezulu yemizwa bangabafundi bempilo yonke, bekhula njalo, bathuthuka, bavuleleke emibonweni emisha futhi bahlala bekulungele ukufunda kwabanye.
Bavulekile ukushintsha imiqondo yabo uma othile enombono ongcono.
Lo mbhalo ushintshwe kowokuqala, «Imikhuba engu-7 Yabantu Abahlakaniphe Ngokomzwelo»Kusuka ku-Fsibongile.
Uma ngabe uyithandile le ndatshana, cabanga ukuyaba nalabo osondelene nabo. Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokungeseka.[i-mashshare]
Kuhle lezi zinhlobo zosizo nezihloko zokufunda noma ezabantu abadala nezingane zihalalisela bonke abafundi.