Imikhuba Eyisi-7 Yabantu Bangempela

Impela ungathanda ukuba ngumuntu oqotho, onokwethenjelwa, onobuntu. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi imfundo etholakele ibamba iqhaza elibaluleke kakhulu kepha akuyona yonke into. Izici zobuntu zalolu hlobo lwabantu ziye zahlaziywa futhi bathola ukuthi amaphethini athile ayafezeka kuningi labo.

Lapha sihlanganise ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuze ufunde kuzo.

Lezi ngamathiphu amancane angasisiza ukuba sibe ngabantu beqiniso futhi ngalokho senze abanye basazise futhi basithande ngalokho esiyikho.

1. Abantu beqiniso basho njalo abakucabangayo

umuntu wangempela

Bathatha isikhathi sokuzazi bona, ukuthi iyini imibono yabo ehlukene kanye nemibono yabo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kukhulunywa ngokwabelana nabo, abanamahloni futhi bangaziveza ngokukhululeka. Lokho kubanikeza amandla akhethekile okukholisa abanye ngalokho abakufunayo.

Ividiyo: "Ungalinge uphikisane nesilima":

2. Banemigomo engaguquki

Bayakwazi ukuma baqine ezinhlosweni zabo yize kungekho noyedwa ongakholelwa kuzo. Kodwa-ke, futhi bakwazi ngokuphelele ukufunda emaphutheni futhi bawasebenzisele ukuzizuzisa bona. Bayakwazi ukukhetha indlela futhi bagcine leyo ndlela kuze kube sekupheleni.

3. Bangaziqambela indlela yabo

Abantu beqiniso bangathembela kubaphathi beziphathimandla ukuthola ukuthi baphumelele kanjani, kepha yibo abalandela indlela yabo ukufeza izinhloso zabo. Lokhu kuxhunyaniswe nephuzu langaphambilini: ngokuba nemibono engaguquki, bayakwazi ukubenzela indlela efanelekile.

4. Bayakwazisa isilinganiso sobungozi / sempumelelo

Abantu beqiniso bakhetha ukukhetha izindlela eziyingozi ezibavumela ukuthi baphumelele. Lokho akusho ukuthi azikho izikhathi lapho benquma ukubeka engcupheni isinqumo, kodwa-ke, zonke izinqumo ezilandelwayo zenzelwe ukucabanga okunengqondo nokufeza izinhloso ezithile.

5. Bavuma amaphutha abo

Sonke senza amaphutha amaningi ezimpilweni zethu zonke. Yini okunzima ngempela ukwazi ukuthi ungazibona kanjani. Abantu abaphumelelayo kumele bathembeke kubo uqobo ukuze babone wonke amaphutha abawenzile. Lapho sebazazi bona uqobo, bazokwazi ukubabona kwabanye.

Kusuka ekubonweni kwamaphutha lapho kuzokwazi ukuvela khona ukuze ungaphindi ukwenze ngokuzayo.

6. Bayazi ukuthi abangahluleli abanye

Enye yezimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu zabantu abaqotho nabaphumelelayo ukuthi bafundile ukungabahluleli abanye. Bemukela umuntu ngamunye njengoba enjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, banomkhuba wokuzwela. Lokho kusho ukuthi: amandla esinawo okuzibeka endaweni yabanye abantu. Ngakho-ke bazi kahle ukuthi bazizwa kanjani lapho bebhekene nesimo noma inkinga ethile.

7. Ukuzethemba okukhulu

Enye imininingwane ephawula laba bantu ukuthi bahlala njalo benesibonelo se- ukuzethemba okuphezulu. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi sonke sinezikhathi zethu ezincane zobuthakathaka, kepha bakwazile ukuthola indlela yokususa yonke leyo micabango emibi ezingqondweni zabo.

Ngale ndlela bayakwazi ukuphendula impilo ngokumomotheka futhi bahlale benokuzethemba okuphezulu kakhulu.


Shiya umbono wakho

Ikheli lakho le ngeke ishicilelwe. Ezidingekayo ibhalwe nge *

  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.

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  3.   UJulissa kusho

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