Ngikushiyela iqoqo imishwana yokwandisa ukuzethemba:
1) "Ukuzethemba idumela esizitholela lona."
2) "Umbono wabanye ngawe akudingeki ube ngokoqobo."
3) "Akekho ongabuyela emuva ayoqala into entsha, kodwa noma ngubani angaqala namuhla futhi akhe ikusasa elisha."
4) “Ubunzima nokubekezela kungaklama impilo yakho. Banikeza inani kanye nokuzethemba okungenakuqhathaniswa.
5) “Ungalokothi ube yisisulu. Ungayamukeli incazelo yempilo yakho ngalokho abanye abakutshela kona. Zichaze."
6) “Umuntu othatheka kalula ozokhuluma naye usuku lonke nguwe. Qaphela-ke ngalokho okushoyo kuwena. I-Zig Ziglar
7) "Inhlonipho iqala ngawe."
8) “Phila ngobuqotho, uhloniphe abanye, futhi ulandele inhliziyo yakho.”
9) "Ngenxa yokuthi awufani nomunye umuntu, awunakuqhathaniswa."
I-10) "Impumelelo enkulu kakhulu ukuzamukela."
11) "Unakho konke okudingayo ukuze unqobe izinselele zempilo."
12) "Abantu bavame ukusho ukuthi lo muntu akazitholi. Kodwa yena uqobo akatholakali. Yinto oyidalayo."
13) “Ngiya ngokuba muhle kimi nsuku zonke. ngiyaqala ukuzithanda."
zithande noma ngabe abantu bakutshela ukuthi uwena hhayi ukuthi abanye bafuna ube kanjani
Sanibonani nginezinkinga zokuzethemba ngidlulisa okufanayo endodakazini yami ena 13 years, ngingelapha kanjani ukuze ngisindise indodakazi yami ukuze ibe nekusasa elihle?
Nami ngisebenzela into efanayo, ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele uqale x ukuzamukela. Kuwe, zithande futhi ubhale incwadi yothando eqondiswe kuwe ngobuhle bakho nezinto ezinhle. Gqoka okungcono kakhulu ongakwenza futhi uziphathe njengendlovukazi