Sonke sifuna ukuzidlula thina, empeleni, ukwenza ngcono komuntu kuyadingeka kubantu ukuze ukwazi ukuthuthuka. Kunezikhathi lapho impilo isinika imigodi eyenzeka cishe singanakile. Angamaqhubu anganciphisa amandla akho kepha uma wazi ukuthi ukuzithuthukisa kungakusiza kanjani, akukho lutho oluzokwazi ukukusiza.
Kwesinye isikhathi, sidinga ukukhuthazeka okuncane ukufeza lokhu kuthuthukiswa noma izikhumbuzo ezikuvumela ukuthi uphinde ubeke indlela okufanele uyilandele. Le mishwana noma imilayezo kufanele ihambisane nawe empilweni yakho ngoba amaqiniso ajulile afihla umlayezo onamandla futhi okhuthazayo kumuntu owufundayo.
Lapho uthola ibinzana elihle, kuzokusiza ukuthi ucabange futhi ukhumbule okubaluleke kakhulu empilweni ... noma ngabe izikhathi ziyinkimbinkimbi. Uma uzizwa sengathi umile futhi noma ngabe ufuna ukuqhubeka nokukhula, awu ... Bese kungenxa yokuthi udinga ukufunda le misho futhi ukwazi ukubhala futhi uhlale useduze kwakho leyo milayezo ekwenza uzizwe okuthile okukhethekile ngaphakathi kwenhliziyo yakho.
Kungani Imilayezo Yokuzithuthukisa Ibalulekile Kuwe
Lapho uzwa ukuthi udinga umfutho ukuze uqhubekele phambili, kuzofanela ukuthi ube nale milayezo isondele ukuze uye phambili. Ungaphuthelwa yilokhu kuhlanganiswa kwemishwana ezokusiza ukuthi uqhubeke nokukhula njengomuntu, ngoba ingaphakathi lakho ngeke lize liyeke ukukhula uma ubheja ekuthuthukisweni komuntu siqu.
Uma uthanda imishwana, Unganqikazi ukwabelana ngawo nalabo bantu obathandayo noma ucabange ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zemishwana zizohamba kahle ukwenza ngcono izimpilo zabo. Isisusa sokuguqula impilo sibe ngcono singaqala khona manje. Thola le milayezo eguqulwe yaba amabinzana amahle nokubonisa okuvela emiqondweni yalabo ababazi ukuthi ukulandela amaphupho nenjabulo kwakuyisinyathelo esihle kakhulu sokwenza ngcono ubuntu bakho. Le milayezo inamandla amakhulu, ngoba izokunikeza amandla wokufeza izinhloso zakho futhi ubone impilo ngenye indlela.
Imiyalezo yokuzithuthukisa okufanele uyazise ingunaphakade
- Uwe phansi kasikhombisa uvuke ayisishiyagalombili (isaga saseJapan)
- Ungazigwebi ngokwedlule; awusasahlali kuwo (Ifeanyi Enoch Onuoba)
- Uma ungenakho ukuthula, akukhona ukuthi othile ukuntshontshele; Yingoba umyekile wahamba Angeke ukwazi ukulawula okwenzeka kuwe ngaso sonke isikhathi, kepha uyakwazi ukulawula okwenzeka ngaphakathi kuwe (John C. Maxwell)
- Yiba ushintsho ofuna ukulubona emhlabeni (Mahatma Gandhi)
- Ngokuhefuzela uzobona ukuthi yonke imizamo etshaliwe ibifanele, ngandlela thile (Anonymous)
- Ushintsho ngumthetho wempilo. Noma ngubani obheka okwedlule noma okwamanje uzolahlekelwa ikusasa (uJohn F. Kennedy)
- Ukudalelwa kuhlanganisa amakhadi, bese siwadlala (u-Arthur Schopenhauer)
- Impumelelo iqukethe ukusuka ekuhlulekeni kuye ekuhlulekeni ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa umdlandla (uWinston Churchill)
- Uma ubuhlungu bungakuqondisi ekuthobekeni, uchithe ukuhlupheka (uKaterina Stoykova Klemer)
- Abantu bakhetha ukungajabuli kunokungaqiniseki (UTimothy Ferriss)
- Unamandla wokufeza amaphupho akho (Tae Yun Kim)
- Zama bese wehluleka, kepha ungalokothi wehluleke ukuzama (UJared Leto)
- Thatha umthwalo wenjabulo yakho, ungalindeli ukuthi abantu noma izinto zikulethele, noma ungadumala (uRodolfo Costa)
- Njengabantu, ubukhulu bethu abuxhomekile ekwazini ukulungisa umhlaba, kepha ekutheni sikwazi ukuzilungisa thina (Mahatma Gandhi)
- Uma ufuna ukuphila impilo engajwayelekile, thola ukuthi umuntu ojwayelekile wenzani futhi ungenzi okufanayo (UTommy Newberry)
- Lapho sizibona ngokwethu njengabantu abanempilo, abaphumelelayo nabakhuthazekile, kulapho sizoba khona kakhulu (uKristi Bowman)
- Indlela enhle yokubikezela ikusasa ukuyakha (Peter Drucker)
- Lowo onesizathu sokuphila angabhekana nazo zonke izindlela (uFriedrich Nietzsche)
- Uma ufuna okuthile ongakaze ube nakho, kufanele wenze okuthile ongakaze ukwenze (Ongaziwa)
- Yinye kuphela into eyenza iphupho lingenzeki: ukwesaba ukwehluleka (Paul Coelho)
- Yilabo kuphela abanesibindi sokwehluleka okukhulu abagcina bethole impumelelo enkulu (URobert F. Kennedy)
- Lapho impilo ikunikeza ulamula, yikhame bese wenza ulamula (Clement Stone)
- Qala ukwenza okudingekayo, lapho-ke kungenzeka, futhi ngokuzumayo uzozithola wenza okungenakwenzeka (uFernando de Asis)
- Bhekana nelanga futhi izithunzi zizobe sezingemuva kwakho (Isaga sikaMahorí)
- Isikhathi sethu silinganiselwe, ngakho-ke ungasichithi ngokuphila impilo yomunye umuntu (uSteve Jobs)
- Akukho lutho empilweni okufanele lwesatshwe, kuqondwe kuphela. Isikhathi sokuqonda okwengeziwe, ukwesaba kancane (uMarie Curie)
- Ngaso sonke isikhathi kufanele uzame ukuba ngophambili, kepha ungalokothi ukholelwe ukuthi ungcono kakhulu (UJuan Manuel Fangio)
- Umehluko phakathi kokuwina nokuhlulwa uvame ukuyeka (Walt Disney)
- Yenza isenzo sakho ngasinye njengokungathi ngesokugcina sempilo yakho (Marco Aurelio)
- Ukuthanda umuntu ukufunda iculo enhliziyweni yakhe bese umculela uma esekhohliwe (Anonymous)
- Impilo ayihlali unomphela. Phila i-. Uthando luyalimaza. Uthando Umona uyakulimaza. Ungakunaki. Izinkumbulo ezinhle, zigcine enhliziyweni yakho (isaga samaHindu)
- Isiyalo singumngane omkhulu womuntu, ngoba simholela ekuboneni ukulangazelela okujulile kwenhliziyo yakhe (Umama uTeresa waseCalcutta)
- Abanye bazokhohlwa okushilo, abanye bazokhohlwa okwenzile, kepha abasoze bakhohlwa ukuthi ubenze bazizwa kanjani (Maya Angelou)
- Asikwazi ukusiza wonke umuntu, kepha umuntu ngamunye angasiza othile (uRonald Reagan)
- Ama-90% wabo bonke abahlulekayo abahlulwa ngempela, bavele bayeke (Paul J. Meyer)
- Phakathi nobunzima kunethuba (Albert Einstein)
- Ungahlali nje ulinde izinto eziza kuwe. Lwela lokho okufunayo, zenzele umthwalo wemfanelo (uMichel Tanus)
- Akunandaba noma yini abantu abakutshela yona, amagama nemibono ingashintsha umhlaba (Robin Williams)
- Uma kukuhle ukuphila, kusengcono ukuphupha, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuvuka (u-Antonio Machado)
- Impilo ayenzelwanga ukuyiqonda, kepha ukuyiphila (uGeorge Santayana)
- Okokuqala, ukulungiselela kuyisihluthulelo sempumelelo (Alexander Graham Bell)
- Uma ngibonile ukwedlula abanye, kungukuma emahlombe ama-giants (u-Isaac Newton)
- Konke kunzima ngaphambi kokuba kube lula (Goethe)
- Umhlaba awusengozini ngabantu ababi kepha yilabo abavumela ububi (Albert Einstein)
- Hlela inyanga. Uma uhluleka, ungashaya inkanyezi (W. Clement Stone)
- Funa okuningi kuwe futhi ulindele okuncane kwabanye. Ngale ndlela uzozisindisa ezinkingeni (Confucius)
- Ukubekezela kungumuthi onezimpande ezibabayo kepha izithelo ezinhle kakhulu (Isaga sasePheresiya)
- Imiphefumulo emikhulu inezintando; ababuthakathaka kuphela abafisa (isaga saseChina)
- Uma ungathandi indlela ohamba ngayo, qala ukwakha enye (iDolly Parton)
- Kungcono ukuzenza uziveze ukuze uzisole, kunokuzisola ngokuthi awenzanga lutho (Giovanni Boccaccio)