Sifundiswe ngokuyisisekelo, kusuka, imibandela, ukunikezwa: "unje", ufana nobaba wakho, njengomalume wakho, unamahloni, uhlakaniphile, umuhle, umubi. Sikhule ngemiyalo: kufanele ube, ufanele ukwenze. Inkinga yilokho esikukholwayo kunalokho esikukholelwayo.
Kufanele senze umsebenzi ngezinkolelo ezingamanga. Ubuchopho bethu buyinsimbi yethu yokufunda. Lobu buchopho bunakho amakhono amabili okuzalwa:
1) Qonda imininingwane, ngenxa yalokho esikwaziyo.
2) Kugwema okuhlangenwe nakho ekukhohlweni, kwimemori. Sonke sifuna okwenzekile ukuze kamuva sikukhumbule futhi sikusebenzise kamuva. Ngaleyo ndlela sicabanga ukuthi singazigwema izinkinga.
Senze umlando waba ngukugxila kwezimpilo zethu ngephutha kangangokuthi lapho sibheka isihlahla sihumusha okwenzeka ngaleso sikhathi kube igama, inkumbulo, umuzwa. Inqubo yokwenziwa iholela ekubeni sibe nokumelwa okwanele kwalelo zwe ngokususelwa kulokho esakuqhathanisa phambilini.
Senze imemori yalula, sayenza inkosi yenkosi. Senze inkumbulo yaba yinto eyisisekelo yomuntu.
Kodwa-ke, sikhohliwe enye ikhwalithi yengqondo: ukuqonda. Singahlala sizizwa futhi sicabanga amahora amaningi. Umuntu uyakwazi ukuhlala phansi, abuke udonga acishe alale ngoba ingqondo igcwele yonke indawo. Noma kunjalo, asihlali, asiqondi.
Asazi ukuthi sibuka kanjani imbali futhi sihlale kuyo. Asazi ukuthi singawuqhela kanjani umlando kusuka kulowo mzuzu. Uma sithatha into bese siyicabangisisa ngaphandle kokuyinamathisela kunoma yini yomlando esikuyo, leyo nto iba mahhala futhi yenza ukuphendula kwethu emhlabeni kukhululeke futhi lapho amadoda amaningi ewubona umhlaba ngale ndlela, umhlaba uyakhululeka. .
Kucashunwe enkulumweni ngo- U-Alex Rovira y Sesha