Ubuvila ukumelana nomzamo, kuyisimo sokungenzi lutho lapho uzama khona ukushiya izinto zinjengoba zinjalo.
Incazelo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ngobuvila ukuthi njengoba siguqula ukudla kube amandla, ukuze siphile, amandla amancane esiwasebenzisayo, azothatha isikhathi eside futhi nokudla okuncane okufanele sikudle, ngaleyo ndlela sizophumelela kakhulu ekuncintisaneni nezinye izinhlobo zezilwane . Le ndlela yokusebenza kahle kwamandla ibizwa ngokuthi umnotho wesenzo, Ngokuya ngocwaningo lwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uDenny Proffitt Psychologist wase-University of Virginia, ubuchopho bethu buvele buhlanekezele umbono wethu busikhokelele ezenzweni lapho songa khona amandla ethu.amandla
Ingqondo isikhohlisa ukusisiza sithethelele ubuvila bethu, ngokwesibonelo lapho kufanele siye ejimini, sithi kithi“Angiyidingi namuhla, ikude, kuzongithatha isikhathi eside, kuyabanda, kuyakhathaza kakhulu ukuzivocavoca umzimba, njll.” Ngakho-ke ingqondo yethu idlala ngathi ukuze sigweme ukwenza imizamo edala ukuba sibe ukuvilapha.
Kulula ukuthathwa yilezi zingxoxo nomqondo, futhi kungasivimba ngalezi zimpikiswano, indlela engcono yokulwa nalokhu ukugwema ukungena kulezi zingxoxo ngengqondo yethu.
Lapho umbono wokuya ejimini (ngokwesibonelo) ubonakala ungaphezu kwamandla, zama ukudlulisela ukunaka kwakho kokunye okungalawuleka ngokwengeziwe, ukuze sikwazi ukulawula le micabango engacacile efikelwa ngezinye izikhathi. Isibonelo sokuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu ukusho kuwe, "Akudingeki ngiye ejimini njengamanje, kufanele ngigqoke izicathulo zami." Uma usufake izicathulo zakho, umsebenzi olandelayo ukumane ufike emotweni, njalonjalo. Akufanele sikhathazeke uma ingqondo yethu ingakakhuthazwa ukwenza lo msebenzi, izokwenza kamuva, ingqondo ayikho esimweni, izobamba kamuva.
Le nqubo yokwehlukanisa umsebenzi ube yizinyathelo ezincane iyasebenza kakhulu, kubalulekile ukugxila kulezo zinyathelo ezincane futhi ungacabangi ngesithombe esikhulu noma ulindele okuzokwenzeka, Ngokuba senqubeni yokuthatha izinyathelo ezincane, ukunakwa kuyaphambukiswa kuwo wonke umsebenzi.
Kuyasiza futhi ukucabanga ngenhloso yokwenza umsebenzi, okungukuthi, izinhloso, ngokwesibonelo ukuya ejimini ukuze ube ngcono ngokomzimba, lokhu kusiza ukudala umdlandla ongaphezulu futhi ungasali wedwa ucabanga ukuthi umsebenzi ungaba yisidina kanjani.
Enye indlela yokulwa nobuvila ukuhleleka, Okuzungeze abantu ngaphandle kunomthelela ekutheni bazozizwa kanjani ngaphakathi, uma igumbi linokuxakaniseka, umuntu uzokhungatheka ngokwedlulele, lesi sifo sidala umqondo wesiphithiphithi nosizi, ngakho-ke kunconywa uku-oda imvelo ebonakalayo lapho uhlala khona ngakho-ke kulula ukuzizwa unogqozi lokufeza imisebenzi ekhiqizayo.
Zibekele imigomo enengqondo, usize ukuhambisa imizamo yakho yokwenza umsebenzi, ukhethe imigomo ekugqugquzela ngempela, wenze uhlu lwezinto okufanele uzenze, ezinkulu nezincane, bese ubeka phambili ngayinye ngayinye ngokwesikhathi nangokubaluleka. Kungaba wusizo ukugcina idayari yomuntu siqu yosuku ngalunye lwemisebenzi, nerekhodi lokuthi yini engakusiza noma ekuvimbele ukufinyelela lapho uya khona.
Ukufunda ukuzizuzisa ngezinto ezincane ezigcwaliswayo ngelinye isu elihle lokukhiqiza ugqozi lomsebenzi odala ubuvila, lokhu kuzokwenza imisebenzi ibe mnandi futhi kukusize uhlale endleleni efanele.. Imivuzo ingaba lula njengamakhefu okuphumula, ukubukela i-movie, ukudla okuthile, njll. Ngokusebenzisa imivuzo yokuzimela, ungaqeqesha ingqondo yakho ukuthi isebenze ngokuzikhandla futhi ikhiqize ukuzikhuthaza kwakho.