Sonke sizizwa sinesizungu kwesinye isikhathi eqinisweni Yize singabantu abaphilayo futhi sithanda ukuba phakathi kwabanye, isizungu siyingxenye yokuphila. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokunqoba isizungu ukusamukela nokwamukela ukuthi thina nenkampani yethu siyindlela yokuphila kahle. Ukwazi ukuzwa isizungu lapho, ngokwesibonelo, uzizwe unesizungu yize uzungezwe abantu.
Isizungu
Imizwa yesizungu ingeyomuntu siqu, ngakho-ke ulwazi lomuntu ngamunye lokuba nesizungu luyohluka. Empeleni, isizungu akulona iqiniso, kungumuzwa.
Incazelo ejwayelekile yesizungu umuzwa esinawo lapho isidingo sethu sokuvuza ukuxhumana nomphakathi kanye nobudlelwano kungafinyelelwanga. Kepha isizungu asihlali sifana nokuba wedwa ... Ungakhetha ukuba wedwa futhi uphile ngokujabula ngaphandle kokuxhumana kakhulu nabanye abantu, kuyilapho abanye bengase bathole lesi sipiliyoni sesizungu sibe yiphupho elibi.
Noma ungaxhumana nabantu abaningi, noma ube sebudlelwaneni noma ube yingxenye yomndeni, bese uzizwe unesizungu, ikakhulukazi uma ungazizwa uqondwa noma unakekelwa abantu abaseduze kwakho.
Izimbangela zesizungu
Isizungu sinezimbangela eziningi ezahlukene, ezihlukahluka kuye ngomuntu. Asiqondi njalo ukuthi okuhlangenwe nakho okusenza sizizwe sisodwa kukhuluma ngani. Kwabanye abantu, imicimbi ethile yempilo ingasho ukuthi bazizwa benesizungu, njenge:
- Izwa i-duel
- Ukwahlukana kobudlelwano
- Ukuhoxa nokulahlekelwa ukuxhumana nabantu
- Shintsha umsebenzi
- Qala okuthile okusha
- Phuma edolobheni
- Abantu abahlala ezimweni ezithile bangasengozini enkulu yokuba nesizungu, ngokwesibonelo:
- Ungabi nabangane noma umndeni
- Ukuhlukaniswa nomndeni
- Abazali abangabodwa ababakhathalelayo abanye
- Kunzima ukugcina impilo yomphakathi
- Okwamaqembu amancane
- Yiba nezinkinga zomzimba noma zenhlalo
- Ukubhekana nokucwaswa kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo
- Uke wabhekana nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi noma ngokomzimba
Abanye abantu baba nemizwa ejulile futhi engapheli yesizungu evela ngaphakathi futhi engapheli, kungakhathalekile isimo sabo senhlalo noma ukuthi bangaki abangane abanabo. Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani abantu bezwa lolu hlobo lwesizungu. Ungazizwa ungakwazi ukuzithanda wena noma abanye, noma ungazethembi. Ukucabanga ngalokho okwenza uzizwe uwedwa kungakusiza uthole indlela yokuzizwa ungcono.
Ungasinqoba kanjani isizungu
Okulandelayo sizokunikeza amanye amathiphu okunqoba isizungu futhi ubone ukuthi akukubi kangako uma wazi ukuthi ungaphila kanjani nakho futhi ukusingathe ngendlela othanda ngayo.
Zenzele izinto
Ngeshwa, Uma uzama ukuphulukisa isizungu sakho ngokuzizungeza nabantu, kungaphila isikhashana ngokumangazayo. Lapho nje lowo muntu ehamba, ususele wedwa futhi. Esikhundleni salokho, yiba nohlu lwemisebenzi elula oyithandayo noma ozimisele ukuyizama uwedwa: iphazili, ukudlala efonini yakho, ukukhilosha, ukufunda, ukubukela ama-movie, ukudweba, ukubhala ... isizungu ngendlela enempilo futhi wazi ukuthi inkampani yakho nayo ingaba mnandi.
Ungakwazi nokuphuma nawe, ungasebenzisa isizungu njengethuba lokuzazi kangcono. Zihambise esidlweni sakusihlwa, kumamuvi, epaki, emnyuziyamu ... ezindaweni lapho ubukade ufuna ukuya khona njalo. Abantu abaningi bafuna ubudlelwano bokulawula imizwa yabo futhi bazizwe benesizungu kungaba yithuba lokufunda ukuthi ungazenzela kanjani lokho.
Bheka imisebenzi lapho ungaba wedwa noma ngabe unabanye abantu
Ungaya ekilabhini yelabhulali, uye emicimbini esedolobheni lakho, ungahlangana nabantu abanemibono efanayo kuwe, baye emakilabhini okuhamba izintaba noma baye emakilasini bayofunda ukuthatha izithombe. Inhloso ukuthola indawo lapho uzungezwe khona ngabantu, noma ngabe awenzi ngempela abangane. Uma uhlangana nomuntu opholile lapho, okungcono kakhulu, Kepha inhloso ngeke kube yilokho, kepha kunalokho ukuthokozela okwenzayo.
Zama ukuba nomphakathi kwesinye isikhathi, noma ngabe awuzizwa uthanda
Ingabe umcabango wokukhuluma nabantu abasha ukwenza ukuthi ujuluke ubanda? Akuvamile lokho. Isizungu sinendlela yokwenza ukuxhumana nomphakathi kubonakale kungenanjongo. Ngesinye isikhathi, kufanele nje uziphoqe ukuthi ukwenze ... Futhi izinto zizoshintsha ezungeze wena cishe unganakile. Ukuqinisekiswa kwansuku zonke, njengezitatimende ezithi "Mina", kungakusiza kulokhu. Ukucabanga izinto ezinjengalezi: Ngiyathakazelisa, nginezinto okufanele nginikele ngazo, angikwesabi ukwenqatshwa, bayizibonelo ezinhle.
Isizungu, uma ufuna, esesikhashana
Noma uzizwa unesizungu manje, lokho akusho ukuthi uzohlala uzizwa unesizungu noma ukuthi awusoze wabathola abantu abaseceleni kwakho. Ungumakhi wekusasa lakho, kufanele uphume wenze amabhondi amasha uma ufuna ukujabulela ukuba wedwa nenkampani ngasikhathi sinye. Wonke umuntu unokuthile angakunikeza ebudlelwaneni, kufanele nje uphume lapho ubakhe.
Iya ekwelashweni
Uma, noma ngabe kubiza ukuya ekwelashweni, kwesinye isikhathi ukuya kuchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo kungumbono omuhle. Akusho ukuthi isizungu uqobo siyinkinga, kusho ukuthi kufanele ufunde ukusamukela empilweni yakho, uthole ukuthi kungani ungathandi ukuba wedwa futhi ukuguqule lokho, ukwazi ukuzamukela njengenkampani ehamba phambili kunazo zonke.
Noma ungabaza amanye amanani wezokwelapha, kungasiza isizungu ngoba nje ulalelwa futhi waziswa. Kwesinye isikhathi kuba ngomuntu okulalele.
Khumbula ukuthi ezimweni eziningi kakhulu, isizungu siyindlela ongakhetha kuyo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi unesizungu ngoba ungumuntu onamahloni, Kuzodingeka unqobe kuphela lawo mahloni uwedwa noma ngosizo lochwepheshe. Isizungu akudingeki sikwenze uzizwe kabi noma futhi akufanele sibe umjikelezo ononya, kungaba okwesikhashana noma kumane kube ukukhetha.