Nginomngane enginamathele kuye muva nje futhi unenkinga yokudangala, into ukuthi uzizwa enamandla kunami, kepha namanje angihambisani naye ngenxa yenkinga yokudangala engizwa sengathi isiyangithinta vele.
Ngihlale ngimnakekela ngendlela engikwazi ngayo, ngizama ukumphazamisa ngendlela yokuthi angivume kimi ukuthi uma enami uzizwa “enokuthula” okuthile engimthulisa ngakho lapho ephelelwe yithemba.
Uya kudokotela, udokotela wezifo zengqondo ukuze acacise, ubelokhu ekwelashweni okwehlukile okwakumsebenzela phambilini kodwa manje akubonakali kunomphumela ofanayo futhi usevele unesifiso esikhulu sokuthi usike izingalo zakhe futhi ufuna ukufa, lokhu kungikhathaza kakhulu, ngaze ngamtshela nokuthi ngizohamba naye siye kudokotela ekuqokweni kwakhe okulandelayo ukuze angabi yedwa, ngiyazisa kakhulu futhi angikwazi ukubekezelela ukubona ukuthi uhlupheka kanjani, futhi lokhu kuyathinta kimi ngendlela enginovalo lokuthi uzobona ukuthi ngimzwela kabi kangakanani futhi acabange ukuthi uyisithiyo kuphela empilweni yawo wonke umuntu nokuthi ukuphela kwento ayikhonzayo ukungizwisa kabi.
Ngithokozela noma yiziphi izimpendulo kusengaphambili futhi ngiyethemba zizongisiza.
Sawubona,
Okokuqala ngifuna ukukubonga kakhulu ngokuxhumana nathi nokusichazela ngecala lakho.
Ngicabanga ukuthi yize ugxila kumngani wakho, ngendlela oziveza ngayo, kunemigqa emithathu yomsebenzi wokwelapha okufanele wenziwe.
Okokuqala, futhi okunye okukhathazayo, isimo somngane wakho. Akungabazeki ukuthi ukwesekwa kwakho kubaluleke kakhulu nokuthi kumsiza kakhulu ukuqhubekela phambili. Isimo sokucindezeleka sibonakala ngokuhumusha kabi konke okwenzekayo ezimpilweni zethu futhi uma ethi lapho ekhona uzizwa engcono, ngokuqinisekile kungenxa yokuthi unikeza ukubaluleka okukhulu kulokhu kusekela. Kuhle impela ukuthi uye kudokotela wezifo zengqondo ukuze alaphe isimo sakho sengqondo kodwa uma ungathuthuki ekululameni kwakho kungadingeka ukucabanga ngoshintsho lochwepheshe. Kwesinye isikhathi akubona bonke ochwepheshe abakhonza wonke umuntu futhi ushintsho olulula olusuka kuchwepheshe othile luya kolunye olungenza izimangaliso.
Isici sesibili engicabanga ukuthi kubalulekile ukusisingatha yisimo sakho sengqondo. Kunzima kakhulu ukugcina ukuxhumana nomuntu osesimweni sokucindezeleka futhi uhlale unombono omuhle, kufana kakhulu nesifo sokutubeka esibhekene nabanakekeli babantu abadinga ukunakekelwa unomphela. Kuyadingeka kakhulu ukugcina inhlanzeko enhle yengqondo futhi uzinakekele kakhulu uqobo lwakho ukuze ukwazi ukunikela lonke uthando lwethu kwabanye abantu, kuyakhathaza ukuhlala usekela okuhle futhi kulula ukuphelelwa yithemba uma sibona lokho imizamo yethu yokukhuthaza ayisebenzi. Kungakho ngikukhuthaza ukuthi uzinakekele, uzinakekele wena ngasikhathi sinye ukuze usize kangcono umngani wakho.
Isici sesithathu okufanele ubhekane naso sihlobene nobudlelwano bakho. Ngokwalokho okushoyo kubonakala kunokwesabeka okukhulu phakathi kwenu nobabili futhi okulungiswa yizinkinga zomzwelo zomngane wakho njengoba uzibona njengebhuleki ngakolunye uhlangothi ukuze zihambelane kakhulu naye noma ukumbonisa ngempela indlela ozizwa ngayo (ngokwesaba ukumzwisa ubuhlungu uma ebona ukuthi nawe uthintekile emoyeni). Ngikholwa wukuthi kuzofanele nisebenzisane ubudlelwano benu ukuze nihlole ukuthi bungakusiza kanjani ngendlela enhle futhi kukhishwe okuhle ekuhlanganyeleni kanye nokunqoba lezo zici ezingakuthinta ngokomoya ngokweqile.
Ngiyabonga kakhulu ngokuthatha isikhathi ungiphendule, bengingenaso isikhathi sokufunda impendulo yakho. Ngiyamtshela ukuthi ngisese mpini nomngani wami, yize kwesinye isikhathi ngicabanga ukuthi kuya ngokuya kuba kubi /: futhi ngiyavuma ukuthi ngesaba kakhulu ukuthi uzokwenza okuthile futhi alahlekelwe yikho unomphela. Mayelana nokushintsha umbono wakho wezokwelapha nokuzama omunye udokotela, ngikutshelile, kodwa inkinga ukuthi umndeni wakho unezinsiza ezimbalwa kakhulu futhi benza okuncane abakwaziyo ukukwenza. Ngiyabonga futhi ngesikhathi sakho.