Ngikushiya ividiyo yengqungquthela ye- UJona lehrer, intatheli ebhala ngezihloko ze-psychology kanye neuroscience. Kuyinkomfa yalokhu umcimbi omkhulu wenkomfa olwenzeka ePuebla, eMexico, futhi lubizwa Idolobha Lemibono (Isiteshi se-YouTube sedolobha lemibono).
Kulesi senzakalo, uJonah Lehrer uqokomisa ukubaluleka kwemizwelo ezimpilweni zethu. Mayelana nalokhu ngifuna ukwenza isithombe ngaphambi kokufaka ividiyo.
Muva nje, ngiyabona ukuthi kunemisinga emibili yamanje ekufundweni kwengqondo:
1) Kukhona labo abathembayo amandla esizathu sokuthuthukisa izimpilo zethu.
2) Kukhona labo abathembayo sikwazi ukuphatha imizwa ukwenza ngcono izimpilo zethu.
Iminyaka eminingi i-psychology yagcizelela kakhulu emandleni omcabango wokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha, konke kwakususelwa ekulinganisweni kweqiniso; I-psychology yokuqonda ifana nalokhu kwamanje.
Kodwa-ke, ngemuva kwencwadi eqhumayo ye- Daniel Goleman "Ukuhlakanipha ngokomzwelo" ngo-1995 kugcizelelwe ezweni elinamandla lemizwelo futhi kudedela, ngokwanda, ekhoneni elimnyama lokucabanga.
Ngicabanga ikakhulukazi ukuthi kokubili ukucabanga nemizwa kumele ifunde ukuhlala ndawonye. Kuzoya ngomuntu ngamunye. Awukwazi ukutshela umuntu okhathazeke ngokweqile ukuthi aqondiswe yimizwa yakhe ngoba angafana nomkhumbi ohamba phambili. Kuzoba nezikhathi lapho kungaba kuhle ukuvumela ukuholwa yimizwa yethu kepha, kwezinye izikhathi, ngokuqinisekile kungcono ukusebenzisa ingqondo yethu enengqondo ukwenza ngcono izimpilo zethu.
UJona Lehrer ngokungangabazeki ukholelwa emandleni emizwelo futhi utshela indaba ethokozisayo eyenzeka empini yaseBrithani: