UChris Myers, isikhulu esiphezulu kanye nomsunguli weBodeTree.com, ubekhathele, ekhungathekile futhi kungakhuthazwa yemithwalo yemfanelo okwakudingeka emsebenzini wakhe kanjalo Wenze isinqumo esibucayi sokuthatha ikhefu eliphelele emsebenzini wakhe isonto lonke.
Ucabanga ukuthi wakwenza?
Abantu abaningi emhlabeni bafisa ukuthi ngabe akudingeki bathembele emisebenzini yabo ukuze baphile ngesithunzi. Kodwa-ke, njalo ekuseni bavuka ngasikhathi sinye ukuze babone abantu abafanayo futhi babekezelele imisebenzi yabo amahora angapheli ukwenza imisebenzi efanayo kaninginingi.
Kukhona futhi lezo zinhlobo zabantu abenza i-sBangahlala emisebenzini yabo noma ngabe bazuze izigidigidi kwilotto. Mhlawumbe kunabantu abangakuqondi lokhu kepha kunabantu abawuthandayo umsebenzi wabo futhi abangawushiyi ngenxa yempilo yokuzilibazisa elele endaweni yokulala ebheke olwandle. Ingabe laba bantu bayimilutha yomsebenzi wabo?
Abaningi abakwazi ukudela izibopho zabo zomsebenzi futhi bachitha isikhathi esithe xaxa emindenini yabo noma empilweni yomphakathi. Abakwazi ukuphumula futhi bakhohlwe yimithwalo yemfanelo yomsebenzi wabo; Bayalahleka uma bengawunaki umsebenzi wabo.
Yilokho okwenzeka kuChris Myers lapho ezithola ekhathele futhi ecindezelekile ngenxa yezibopho zakhe futhi Uthathe isinqumo sokushiya imisebenzi yakhe isonto lonke.
“Kunobufakazi obuningi obuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu abakwaziyo ukunqamula emsebenzini wabo banomuzwa omkhulu wenhlalakahle engokomzwelo; banempilo futhi benza imisebenzi yabo ngokuzuzisa kakhulu kunontanga yabo abacindezelekile, "kuchaza uChris Myers kumagazini 'Forbes'.
Ngaphambi kokunqanyulwa komsebenzi, uMyers wazibekela uchungechunge lwezinhloso. Kwakungekhona ukwenza lutho izinsuku eziyi-7. Wayebeke uchungechunge lwezinhloso ayefuna ukuhlangabezana nazo: engabheki iselula yakhe noma ukusebenzisa ikhompyutha, efuna ezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa ngaphandle komsebenzi wakhe futhi engabhali lutho: «Bengifuna ukuphumula ekubhalweni kwazise bengivinjelwe njengombhali futhi bengifuna ukuxhumana kabusha nengikuthandayo».
Lapho eseshaye imithetho okumele ayithathe lapho ethatha umhlalaphansi, wanquma ukushintsha isimo ukuze agweme izilingo hleze aqale ukusebenza enganakile. Yini ayenzile? Waya eHawaii nomndeni wakhe. Ucabanga ukuthi kwenzekeni?
Umgomo 1: Khohlwa nganoma iyiphi igajethi yezobuchwepheshe.
«Njengoba bengilindele, khohlwa nganoma iyiphi idivayisi yezobuchwepheshe Kwakuyinto enzima kunazo zonke okwakudingeka ngiyikhuthazelele. Ngichitha usuku lonke nginamathiselwe kwiselula yami nethebulethi yami, ngicabanga nje ukuthi angizukuyisebenzisa kungithuse »umemezele. Imishini yakhe yobuchwepheshe wayigcina endaweni ephephile futhi waphazanyiswa ukubukeka okuhle kwesiqhingi ayekuso.
"Angikwazanga ukuyeka ukucabanga ngokwakwenzeka ehhovisi lami, kodwa ngehlulekile ngokuzitshela ukuthi ngingakwenza », uyakhumbula. Ubecabanga ukuthi uzokhathazeka kepha uthole ukuthi ingqondo yakhe iya ngokuya ikhululeka ngokwengeziwe: "Ukuziba ifoni kungisizile ukuthi ngigxile esikhathini samanje futhi ngijabulele wonke umzuzu".
Ukuphunyuka kubo bonke lobu buchwepheshe kwamphoqa ukuthi agxile ngokuphelele kulokho ayekwenza. Kwakungekho ziphazamiso ezihilelekile. Kwaphakanyiswa ukuthi uma ebuya azokhipha ifoni yakhe amahora ama-2 usuku ngalunye ukuze akwazi ukugxila kangcono emsebenzini wakhe webhizinisi.
Umgomo 2: Ukufuna izinto zokuzilibazisa ezintsha.
Yize ezungezwe indawo yasezulwini, uChris Myers wanquma ukukhohlwa ngokugeza kulolo lwandle oluhle futhi wachitha usuku lonke ezama ama-cocktails amnandi asezindaweni ezishisayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Uncamele ukungena ezincwadini: «Kwakunelukuluku lokwazi. Njengoba ngifunda, ingqondo yami ibilokhu iza nemibono emangalisayo engizoyisebenzisa emsebenzini wami »umemezele egcwele imizwa. Angazi ukuthi bekuzokwenzekani ukube ngangihamba ngitshuza, angazi noma ngabe lapho, ngaphansi kwamanzi, ngangizoyithola yini imibono ehlakaniphile kangaka.
Umgomo 3: Bhala lutho.
Ngaphambi kokuthatha lesi sabatha, uMyers wayesenenkinga yokubhala njalo izindatshana. Ugqozi lwalumshiyile futhi lokhu kwakukubi kakhulu kuye. Kodwa-ke, kubonakala sengathi le ndawo esepharadesi imnikeze lokhu kukhuthazeka futhi ingqondo yakhe yagcwala amakholomu amaningi wokuhlela: Ingqondo yami ibidinga ukuphumula. Ngangingasenayo leyo ngcindezi yansuku zonke yokunquma ukuthi ngizobhalani. Le ngcindezi ibingivimbele. Kodwa-ke, eHawaii, lokho kuvaleka kwanyamalala nemibono yokuthi ngizobhala ini yagcwala engqondweni yami ».
Kungashiwo "Ukuhlolwa kudlulile"?
UMyers ubuyele ehhovisi lakhe ngamandla avuselelwe kepha ngokushesha kwaphela lawo mandla: «Ngicabanga ukuthi ukuphumula kunenzuzo ekugcineni. Akulula njengokukhipha iswishi, ukuyiqaqa uphinde uyivule ngemuva kwezinsuku eziyi-7. Isikhathi esiningi siyadingeka ukubona imiphumela ezuzisayo ».
Bekuhlale kushiwo njalo ngemuva kweholide sidinga isikhathi sokulungisa ukuze sibuyele emsebenzini. Ngokuqinisekile uMyers wayezodinga isikhathi sokulungiswa ngaphambi kokuphindela emuva emsebenzini we-maelstrom.