Kwesinye isikhathi kunezifundo ezithile kulokhu kuphila okungelula ukuziqonda ngqo, ngakho kusetshenziswa izingathekiso ezikhethekile ukusiza ukuqonda. Enye yezinto ezaziwa kakhulu futhi ezithakazelisa kakhulu indaba yemithi emibili esizokutshela yona ngokulandelayo.
Yindaba ejwayelekile enesakhiwo esilula kepha egcina iba nesinye salezi ziphetho ezikwenza ucabange ngempilo yakho nakho konke okwazile ukukufeza kuyo. Sincoma ukuthi uyifunde ngokucophelela futhi ucabange ngomyalezo ozama ukukuhambisa kuwe njengoba ubaluleke kakhulu.
Izihlahla ezimbili
Ngesinye isikhathi umfana oneminyaka eyisishiyagalombili owayehlakaniphe kakhulu ngeminyaka yakhe wavakashela umkhulu wakhe njengoba enza njalo ngempelasonto. Ngalesi sikhathi wayenombono othakazelisayo engqondweni, wayezimisele ukuphumelela empilweni futhi wahlela ukwenza noma yini edingekayo ukufeza leyo nhloso.
Umkhulu wakhe ubengumuntu ophumelelayo, ngakho wambuza lo mbuzo olandelayo: Lapho sengikhulile, ngizophumelela kakhulu. Mkhulu, unganginika noma yisiphi iseluleko sokuthi ungasifinyelela kanjani?
Avume ngekhanda umkhulu kodwa angasho lutho. Wabamba umfana ngesandla baya enkulisa lapho athenga khona izitshalo njalo. Wamtshela ukuthi akhethe izihlahla ezimbili.
Babayisa emakhaya baqala ukuyobatshala endaweni efanelekile. Omunye wabo wakubeka engadini, omunye, esikhundleni salokho, bakutshala ebhodweni elincane ngaphakathi.
Ngemuva kwalokho umkhulu wabuza umzukulu wakhe: Yisiphi kulezi zihlahla ezimbili ocabanga ukuthi sizophumelela kakhulu ngokuzayo?
Umfana wayezithanda lezi zinhlobo zezimfumbe, ngakho-ke wathatha imizuzu embalwa ukucabanga ngakho futhi wathi: Isihlahla sebhodwe. Isizathu ukuthi uvikelekile futhi uphephile lapha. Umuntu wangaphandle kufanele abhekane nezinto zangaphandle ezingenza kube nzima ukuthi zikhule.
Umkhulu wazithuka wathi: sizobona.
Isikhathi sahamba kanti umkhulu wayenakekela lezi zitshalo zombili ngokulingana. Ngelinye ilanga, umfana, manje osemusha, wabuya ezovakashela umkhulu wakhe.
-Awukaze uwuphendule ngempela umbuzo wami- Amtshele- Ngingaphumelela kanjani lapho sengikhulile?
Indoda endala yathatha umzukulu wayo iyobona lezi zihlahla ezimbili, wabe esethi: Yini enkulu kunazo zonke?
-Kodwa akunangqondo-, dIjo osemusha. - Le engaphandle inkulu ... kepha leyo engaphakathi bekufanele ikhule kakhulu ngoba kube nobunzima obuncane ukuyenza.
-Yebo, kepha ingozi yokubhekana nezinselelo iyakufanele- Kusho umkhulu emamatheka. -Uma ukhetha inketho ephephile, awusoze wakhula. Esikhundleni salokho, izingozi nezinselele zenza umkhawulo wakho kuphela kube isibhakabhaka.
Uma unesibindi sokubeka engcupheni futhi ubheje kulokho okukholelwa ngempela, ungaqiniseka ukuthi uzovusa amandla akho weqiniso futhi uphumelele kulokho okuphakamisayo.
Izihlahla ezi-2 zifundisa kahle.
Kuhle kakhulu ... Noma singenakuqinisekisa ukuthi umuntu ongaphakathi uzohluleka ... Impumelelo ayitholakali ngesikhathi X ... Sizohlala sinesikhathi sokulungisa nokuqhubekela phambili ....